Family & Relationships - 16 October 2007

I just dropped one of this Beautiful Chinese Crockery Plate, My mother got last week...The plate just slipped from my hand..And Ughhhh...I feel terrible now....I know I should be telling mother...But, how I wish I could rewind the whole thing.......Have u ppl ever been in a situation like this one??

And...Yeah... They are only five of them now... :- ((((((((((

2007-10-16 02:57:52 · 7 answers · asked by ~Shaz~ 2 in Family

FRIENDLY ANSWERS ONLY:

Physically? I don't think that you can consider a woman equal to a man. Men are simply faster, stronger, and better athletes. Men are physically superior, no contest.

Mentally? This is where a woman has her best argument at equality. I have met very smart woman. I have met woman that are far more intellegent than myself. I don't, however, think that woman have near as much common sense as men. But still I will call this one a draw.

Emotionally? I consider this to be no contest. Men can control their emotions better than women, period.

My question is, How in the hell can you say that men and women are equal? They are no where close to equal.

I stated some facts
Please FRIENDLY Answers/Contradictions only!!!

2007-10-16 02:57:03 · 23 answers · asked by Changed4the Better :-i 2 in Singles & Dating

Definatley my mum, my dad was like Robert De Niro from 'This boy's life'. Not nice.

2007-10-16 02:56:47 · 25 answers · asked by Smoochy Poochy 6 in Family

he's 35, I'm 24...we just had sex...to tell the truth, I never counted on him divorcing his wife, because I know it's unrealistic to expect a man getting a divorce, and I'm not sure if he really loves me, maybe I'm just a snack or something.....but I do love him, I don't expect a result between us coz not everything has to be a result........

I don't remember who said that to control a woman is through her vagina, I think he succeed, now it's impossible to delete him from my brain.......how long will this continue?...till I'm 30?35?.....by that time he won't lose anything but I'll lose my precious time.........really I don't know what to do....help?

2007-10-16 02:56:08 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

If so, what were their names, and do you remember what you pictured them as looking like?

2007-10-16 02:52:43 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

My wife and I are fighting right now. I was doing a favour for a friend yesterday evening, trying to clear her computer of virus/spyware etc, and i ended up spending the evening working on it. My wife got angry and went kind of crazy, claiming i don't spend time with her (she watched tv while i worked on the computer). We practically spend all of our time together and i don't spend time with anybody other than her. She has really hurt me with some of the things she said last night, she dug up old resolved arguments, but can't give me any proof of what exactly i'm doing wrong, apart from being a genuine person helping other people out whenever I can, i.e. she wants the 100%! Before last Saturday, I'd say we were the happiest couple on earth, but since she spent time with a friend of hers who is having relationship trouble, it's like she has caught something! We were always romantic and passionate (we're married 6 months) but that has ended abruptly, what the hell is going on, help me!

2007-10-16 02:52:28 · 27 answers · asked by OJ 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My step daughter has lived with us for the past 3years. Her mother just one day kind decided to leave and that she has other things to do. Her mom comes and sees her every great once in a while and recently told her that she is going to have another baby. My step daughter is upset and I am not for sure what to do. She has another brother that lives with her mother already but she is hurt, she is feeling like her mother wants this new baby and her brother but didn't want her. I am trying to explain to her that is not the case but its hard. She is seven by the way. Any advice would be great thanks.

2007-10-16 02:51:16 · 6 answers · asked by sara y 1 in Family

You most know what my situation is, and since splitting is not easy, I thought I would find him a room so he can move out. Am I doing the right thing, or should I let him do it?

I have always done everything for him, so that is why I am asking if its the right thing to do. After all, I want him to be as happy as possible since I am trying to make the break-up as amicable as it can be.

Will this allow him to move on? or is he going to feel I am pushing him out?

2007-10-16 02:49:39 · 15 answers · asked by Sesoid 4 in Marriage & Divorce

i just left my bf of 8 years , i slept by myself last night and i was so lonley . i wanted to call him so bad but i didnt . When will i stop hurting so much

2007-10-16 02:44:59 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-10-16 02:44:46 · 6 answers · asked by MJ 6 in Singles & Dating

For example, my wife and I watched a woman check her the fluids in her car and tire pressure. I told my wife it is good for a woman to know this because she can better take care of the car. She said, "It is good knowledge but I have you, so I do not need to do it. If I have to check my oil, what is the point of me having a husband'? My point is this, she drives the car and she needs to know how to take care of it so it can work. So if I'm not around, she could check the oil to see if it is low. I told her its like me saying, "It is good to know how to cook but, I got you and I will not cook. If I had to cook, why do I need you? Ladies, do I have crazy point?

2007-10-16 02:42:23 · 15 answers · asked by damarcuswilson 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Hi all. Okay so something is def wrong w me!! I have pains in my lower abdomen (i guess where my uterus are is) which has been going on for sometime. and i dont know what is wrong. I know its not an std but i was thinking pelvic inflamitory? I have only been with one person (sexually) and he was only w me. This was over the summer. We did have unprotected sex a few times (i know stupid). I missed my period in sept (i never miss a period) but i took a few preg test and all came up negative. I got my period for a few days in oct. so im pretty sure (or hoping) im not pregnant. So what is wrong? ive also been having some back aches latley. any ideas? yes i am going to go to the doctors. but i would just like to know if anyone has anyideas. thankyou very much.
in a way the pain feels like getting a period that never comes.
SORRY I PUT THIS IN THIS SECTION. IF YOU COULD PLEASE ANSWER ANYWAYS THAT WOULD BE REALLY GREAT! THANKYOU VERY MUCH!!

2007-10-16 02:41:43 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

She's 21. I've lived with my mom and stepdad most of my life, and they are really bad parents. I'm not just saying that like any other rebellious teenager would..they really are unfit. My stepdad never wanted children and my mother just wasn't ready. She isn't responsible. Our house is always a mess, she never has a job, and she lays in bed all day. My stepdad gets more and more violent everyday. He broke my mom's wrist this week. We always argue and he wants to kick me out. I have a 13 year old brother. How do I go about getting out of here and going to live with my sister? And how long do I have to wait for my brother to be old enough? My home is veryy unstable. Sometimes we go without water. We have no phone, cable, internet, etc.

2007-10-16 02:39:13 · 31 answers · asked by }).Jessi.({ 2 in Family

I go on business trips all over the world. I make love to hookers every trip. I am out of my wifes area code. So is that cheating?

2007-10-16 02:38:16 · 52 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I've got a family meal coming up at my mother-in-laws house and I can't stand her. My sister-in-law will also be there and she's just a younger version of her bag of a mother so I've got to put up with them for about 6 hours. My husband just ignores all of the rude comments that are for my benefit from dragon and daughter of dragon so I can't rely on him for support. Do I just ignore them while they make remarks about my job, my appearance, the way my son is being brought up etc, or do I walk out?

2007-10-16 02:35:30 · 44 answers · asked by christine s 4 in Family

let's face it... yahoo answers are full of negative energy. 'my bf screwed my best friend... my hubby sucks my brother's d*ck... my daughter is screwing her uncle...etc etc... ' (you know what i mean) don't get me wrong. i love being a smart @ss when i answer people's questions and i also deeply offended some of you with couple of my questions.
the way i see it is this. when we look for negatives in our mates, all we see are negatives. when we look for positives, we only see the positives. there are million reasons to separate with our other halves, if you look for them. and there are million and one reason to stay with our other halves, if you look for them as well. no couples can be couples if you look for resons to separate. opposite is also true.

let me hear some of the things that made your hunny, your hunny.

write it like you're writing directly to your other half. (be you.. go ahead.. be a smart ***, if you must)

i'll go first.

2007-10-16 02:32:07 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I'am now married and have 3 daughters.My parents Never call to see how i'am doing.I always have to call them.They never spend time with my children but they always take in my sisters children.I have always gave them money and such but not once got a thank you.They never talked to me as a child whenever i needed someone.They slept with other people (swingers)but felt it was none of my business and it did not have anything to do with me but it did it affected the way i love and trust someone.I was also made fun of because of their ways and was also judged over it.When i was about 9 yrs old a so called friend of the family's tried to molest me.He never got to because my sister woke up and protected me.My parents knew what had happened but did not try and protect me they continued allowing this person to come around.They still let him come to their house after all these years.Anyways i wrote all this in their letter and let them know how hurt i'am over all this.should i feel guilty??

2007-10-16 02:28:47 · 11 answers · asked by jessica b 1 in Family

I am a white American male that is marrying an Indian women. She is very much Americanized but her parents and family are not. So for our wedding we basically have to have two caterers..one for Indian food and one for some sort of Italian/American food. I have been running into a loot of obstacles with this. Most reception halls will only allow one caterer (don't ask me why...it makes no sense to me). Anyone had an experinece like this? Or have any suggestions on how to make both cultures happy on our wedding day?

2007-10-16 02:28:38 · 12 answers · asked by the coast with the most 3 in Weddings

2007-10-16 02:27:59 · 10 answers · asked by ish k 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I have a boyfriend that I love, and I have a family that I love. For some reason, my family just hates my boyfriend. I live in Georgia by the way. I told my family that I want to go back to New York City to settle down where my boyfriend lives. That doesn't mean that I want to go to ny because of my boyfriend. When I stay home, I feel like I'm getting lazy because I feel too comfortable. I told my family that I got a job in ny and I have to go back to ny on next tuesday. My family just tried to come up with any excuse to not letting me go to ny. I know they worry about me, but I'm already 22, and I'm an adult. I have a airplane ticket, and I'm planning to go to airport whether they will let me go or not. Am I doing the right thing?

2007-10-16 02:26:33 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Wouldn't have gotten married otherwise, or at least not at that time. Same problems exist that nearly drove them apart before (yelling, overreacting, rudeness when they don't get their way, taking the person for granted, unappreciative).

Is this a lost cause? Is it worth holding on to?

2007-10-16 02:24:46 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Doesn't make sense to me. It's like saying you don't want candy because you have a cold. Or like saying you don't want to watch a movie because you have a cold. What does one have to do with the other? I can understand that you might not have energy, but you can have sex without expending much energy. I could be half dead and I'd still have sex. I'm not being a jerk, I just don't understand it.

2007-10-16 02:22:51 · 18 answers · asked by Meat Bot 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-10-16 02:21:50 · 18 answers · asked by very hot men 1 in Singles & Dating

Okay i found the one for me. Do i have to ask her fathers promission to have here hand in marriage?

It seems like an old fashion way.

2007-10-16 02:19:46 · 14 answers · asked by t c p 1 in Marriage & Divorce

A gul came in my life as matchmaker who trying too knot me with my ex GF. became my friend speaking over phone for long time...start meeting alone...i started liking her indirectly proposed her at that time she remembering me about my past (x gf) & avoide to answer or we are friends onec she came to my place and had some romantic moments.... i proposed her again still no answer avoided.she feels jeolous if i approch other gals... told everything about her past which really not discuss out of home or her close friend are not aware of it..always teasing me by introducing or discussing about other guys which i hate again i had asked her does she like me she answerd i like all my friends.ur my friend but i never felt while with her or without her that we are just friend i told her.she still on same path what do i do

2007-10-16 02:13:49 · 2 answers · asked by dontexpect 1 in Friends

What happens when your husband is upset with your job and it is helping out the whole family financially? this is the situation at hand. I dated a guy for a very short time and we have remained friends because we know that things do not work between us. I have no feelings for him like that at all. We have been friends for 7 years and I got married to someone else over a year ago. My now husband hates the fact that I work with this ex and is now telling me it is my job or him. The plan was that I would work there until december when my family moved away to a different state, now my husband cannot stand me working at this place and is telling me to quit or file for divorce. I do not want to file for divorce, but I keep thinking that if I give into this demand now what else will he expect me to give up. When we got married I gave up talking to guy friends online, granted most of them wanted to have sex, but I did not. So I gave that up for my husband I also gave up seeing my parents all

2007-10-16 02:03:15 · 10 answers · asked by outgoing pincess 1 in Marriage & Divorce

It wasn't much lower, but there's more to the story. A couple of years ago we were in the final stages of buying the house when I had to get a new car. We didn't want to be financially strapped, so we held off on buying the house. During that time, the housing boom took off, and my parents came up with a new price for us... $125,000 MORE than what they originally offered us. You can imagine how we felt. My sister bought a house from them also and did not have to pay anything near that. Anyways, I finally had it. I e-mailed them stating that we paid for all repairs on this house and were never re-imbursed, though we gave them our receipts which they wrote off on their taxes!!! We finally stopped giving them receipts when we weren't getting reimbursed, though my mom continued to ask for receipts!!! I think they finally saw my point and came up with an offer for us.. we'd pay about $7,000 more than what they paid, but they would pay our closing costs.

2007-10-16 02:01:55 · 14 answers · asked by 2Beagles 6 in Family

Anyways I'm 5'10 and I would date a guy shorter than me but not that much shorter.

2007-10-16 02:01:49 · 42 answers · asked by ♥Kely_Biatch♥ 4 in Singles & Dating

Am i ready to have relationship with someone?i've been hurt 3 times and i don't want to collect boyfriends. If i could turn back the time. I want to have 1 partner in life but it's too late. There's this guy that i don't know physically. we know each other for 6 months. we have communications but we never seen each other. he's nice and different with my ex-boyfriends. but how am i be sure that he's the one worth loving for?next month probably, he will work abroad. i dont think it's advisable to have long distance relationship. right? so before i give my heart. i want to be sure that it's right to fall in love with him.

2007-10-16 01:58:09 · 19 answers · asked by joyce 1 in Singles & Dating

My husband is a pathalogical liar. I wouldnt believe him when he says what color the sky is. He is also addicted to porn. he denies being a liar (of course) but sometimes admits being addicted to porn but swears he has stopped but whenever i suspect porno i have found it all over the house and in his car. i am one of those women who HATE porn because yes maybe i am insecure but if it bothers me he should stop or at least be man enough to stand up to me instead of hiding it. i tell him everything and i NEVER lie to him. EVER. he can't stop lying...i try to make it safe for him but it doesnt matter. if i dont catch him red handed in a lie he will deny it until i do. i hate playing detective all the time. i have better sh*t to do with my time. what should i do?

2007-10-16 01:55:01 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce