Family & Relationships - 16 October 2007

i used to talk to him often but since he told me how he feels it seems he is avoiding me i love him what should i do

2007-10-16 03:34:12 · 12 answers · asked by Dorothy R 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-10-16 03:34:02 · 12 answers · asked by rohit v 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I got a date with this girl that I did like but not until people were telling me that she said we were going out. She has almost every feature I want when it comes to a girl but I heard she's kinda flirtatious. The only problem with going with her is that I already have my eye on someone else and I think it will mess up everything I have worked for to get to talk to her. I think I like this other girl more and I'm pretty sure she likes me 2 but I dont just wanna ask her out until I'm 100% sure.
I know the other girl is nice and fun they both are but I can't decide. What would the right thing to do be???

2007-10-16 03:32:08 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-10-16 03:32:00 · 23 answers · asked by jessabi 1 in Weddings

Hi i have a friend that i just found out he is cutting himself and i dont know wat to do, last nite he was talking about dying and asking me if i would go to his funnerl. this is a serious question and i really need help no bull crap answers please.
Thanks

2007-10-16 03:31:26 · 18 answers · asked by amanda2008 2 in Friends

Everyone says that my boyfriend of nearly two years, & I are in the "perfect relationship," & we almost are. We have one major flaw, however, & that is we give each other grief over our past interests. I didn't date mine so much as I was in "underfined" (my choice). My past two lasted 6 months, & the other two and a half years. He dated a couple of the ones we talk about. Well, last night he says something snide about one of my past interests (he swears that he isn't jealous because he's with me, & they're not, but he loathes them with a passion). I admit most of my guys were arrogant, which was their ultimate downfall, but his naivete caused him to find out that one of his past interests was a drunk, drug addicted whore. The reasons I snipe about them is: he mocks my past interest and my taste for choosing them, & I think he's worth so much more yet let himself and others sell him short, & he admitted that he used to aim low, thinking that's all that he deserved. Well, he claims that

2007-10-16 03:30:03 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Here is a little back story. I meet this girl at the casino, I didnt even talk to her i just wrote my name and number on a bingo card with the ink dabber. Walked up and set it in front of her, and walked away. 2 hours later i got a text message from her. She thought it was really cute what i did. We talked a little that night, last wednesday. We talked some friday. I asked if she had any plans that night. She said she was busy. So i told her to call me when she wasnt busy. she replied to that with "maybe I will :)". Then last night we talked about what we did over the weekend. Nothing big. So what should be my next move?

2007-10-16 03:29:42 · 5 answers · asked by Jon G 7 in Singles & Dating

Hi

I have been dating two sisters, very beatiful, but very annoying, as i cant have time for myself, i date them together, as thing is it started out they both like dme, and i kinda took advantage of it, there young 18/ 23, one is very slim and cute, the other is gorgeous, built and has fine features, both blond.

I kinda want to end it, as i need my own space, but then having threesomes will come to an end.

I have dated them for 3 months, and i am scared i might get them preganant, as at times things get outa of hand.

Not much conversation takes place between us, more sex than anything, however i am getting tired as well, as i sometimes cant get up from bed i sleep so much.

how do i get my pgusycial strength and settle down with one woman and stop the bachelor life, thats the question i suppose?

by the way i dont smoke or hardley drik, so i do take of my body, but the girls are killing me .

Thanks for listening

2007-10-16 03:27:45 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i'm just thinking why men are toodefensive when women find out they cheated,made mistekes etc? & instead of admitting thier mistakes & say thy're sorry for that, the more they cover upo themselves & sail away the answer & divert the argument to another topic?will you guys answer this honestly & maturely?i just want to understand & not to judge you.

2007-10-16 03:25:47 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I can't tell anyone cuz I feel really uncomfortable just telling them but I need help from you guys. How can I make it thru the day without feeling c r a p cuz I'm unpopular, too smart (or a boff), being called a wannabe-emo, etc. - Cuz I HATE IT!!!

2007-10-16 03:24:00 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

My husband has found the job of his dreams and I am really happy for him, but since our marriage has gone to pot. I do not want him to have to find another job, he loves it so much and the family that he works with. It is just that since he has gotten this job it is all he wants anymore. He says that he loves me and I believe that he does but he doesnt want to do anything with me anymore at all. He doesn't even talk to me on the phone for longer that 2 minutes, (I am not exagerating) at a total time of maybe 5 minutes a day. The only day that he is home is Sunday and while he is home all he wants to do is sleep, which i understand, but he wont even try to carry on a conversation with me. If one of his work buddies or boss call he dedicated all of his time to them. I just don't know if it would help to have him find another job or if maybe he is just not interested in our marriage anymore. What do you think the best reponse would be. I have talked to him about this to no avail.

2007-10-16 03:23:19 · 26 answers · asked by confused 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-10-16 03:22:19 · 42 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

As the man and wife were getting ready for bed, the wife puts away the last load of laundry. As the wife hold up a pair of her bloomers the man replies with a smerk on his face and says, Maybe if you would wash those in some slim fast maybe they would shrink!!! The wife didn't think it was very funny, but brushed it iff and went on to bed. The next morning the man went to his drawer and pulled out his drawer and started yelling at his wife..... Honey, Honey , hey i'm talking to you... get in here, as she came to the room she politly asked why is there powders and holes all in my underwear?!!! With a BIG slie on her face she ever so calmly said... That's not powders dear..... It's MIRACLE GROW!!!!

if you think this was funny give me a star!! Have a great day!!!

2007-10-16 03:20:19 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-10-16 03:19:49 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

that's what i am doing right now. he said he was going to come home tonight (he spends 2 1/2 days at school every week) but he isn't because something school-related came up. i am tired of not being prioritized! i know school is important, but time and time again! i am important too!

i need techniques to help me not pick a fight

2007-10-16 03:18:58 · 6 answers · asked by mary tyler moo 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-10-16 03:16:24 · 11 answers · asked by tenji 1 in Family

Do you know what I mean I was watching a movie this weekend and this man said this to his wife :)) He loved his country but he felt his home was his wife I thought that was beautiful :))))

2007-10-16 03:11:15 · 24 answers · asked by Rita 6 in Marriage & Divorce

I just have a thing for wanting her to shave the lower region, am I an awful husband?

2007-10-16 03:09:12 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Im 18. Im in college.There's this girl in my class.She's hot. She stares at me.While having an exam,and after she's done with the paper..She'll just stare. Sometimes,I just freak out.I look away. She'll continue to stare even when I catch her staring. She stares a lot.And also, If you don't like someone, will you keep staring at him/her? or you will just look away when you see him/her? (implying to the girl) could she stare because she hates me?
Its an intense stare. not smiling, but not frowning or scowling either. just normal facial gestures.But she doesn't stop staring,she continues. Why me? could she hate me or something? and no,I check there's nothing wrong with my face or anything. So why the heck is she staring? She stares straight in my eyes. Could it be an intense stare? Girls & guys would you stare at someone at a far away distance becuase you think they're so ugly. She gives me a lot of eye contact,but I look away.So,does she stare because she thinks that I'm ugly.She gives me a lot of eye contact,but I look away.So,does she stare because she thinks that I'm ugly. When she's near she wont look my way
4 days back,she was still staring.I ignored her. After a while,she stopped staring at me. Her friends stare and smile at me too.WHY???DOES SHE HATE OR LIKE ME???She stares at me everyday without fail
Out sitting arrangement has change,so today I was sitting beside her,and she stares but not as much as last time. She stares secretly. I dont know why but yeah
14 minutes ago

Im a girl btw,and she stares without frowning or any facial gesture.
SHE STARES EVERYDAY,AND I MEAN EVERYDAY..

2007-10-16 03:08:22 · 20 answers · asked by samantha g 1 in Singles & Dating

My husband and I have had some SERIOUS ups and downs over the last few years. We were separated due to lying, drug addiction and another woman in 2005. We were living together, again, by Jan 2006 and I thought things were going well. This past July, we had a baby son.

Now, I've found several lies he told. I also found emails he sent in response to some craigslist ads for casual encounters. He denied even writing them...and even said that maybe I was trying to set him up in order to get out of the marriage. Yesterday, I wrote to one of the women and received a confirming response that he had, indeed, met her in the past (on a different CL ad) and that he wrote to her this past Monday. He said something to the effect of, "I'll give you $200 if you do coke."

He still denies this. We are going to marriage counseling beginning tomorrow. He swears he loves me and our son and wants to be happy and grow old together and have a trusting relationship.

Can counseling help?

2007-10-16 03:07:13 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Well, me and my husband have been together for a total of 8 years but married for almost 5. So when we first met, he had this female friend, whom he was close with. During my first pregnancy we had broken up and he supposedly had sex with her a few times, but remained friends. When we got back together before our child was born, he told me what had happened and I asked him not to see or speak to her anymore. So now just a few weeks ago, she found him on "Myspace". So he told me...and I reminded him of my displeasure of her. So he tells me that he's not giving up his best friend and he shouldn't have had to in the first place. We argue about more...because, I'm trying to figure out my worth here. Then he admitts that they really never had sex and that he only said that to me to make me jealous over our breakup in the past.
I then contacted his friend on myspace and asked her if it really happened...and she said no...and she had cussed him out for telling me that...and understands why..

2007-10-16 03:06:34 · 29 answers · asked by shantia0202 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I was happily engaged for 4 months, during which there were plenty of preparations around the wedding that was scheduled for next week. The girl's family had spoken with my parents about gifts that they needed to give to my relatives. However, I took it off the table asking that no gifts would be taken from them, however her parents insisted that the gifts were already bought. Last week, I called off the wedding. My ex and I were not 100% sure of getting married. Now, her parents are angry with me, thinking it was all my fault. I received a call from her dad today saying that whatever gifts they had bought for us as well as cancelation charges for the venue need to be borne by me. He just went on with how I screwed up and how his daughters life was spoilt, while it was a mutual decision to call it off. He is talking of legal means of dealing with me, if I didnt pay up for the expenses incured for the wedding gifts. Its caused a lot of distress for my visiting family. What should I do?

2007-10-16 03:06:27 · 12 answers · asked by Fast C 1 in Marriage & Divorce

but i say dust comes from a lot of things! help! who is right? please settle this 2 hour conversation we had about dust!

2007-10-16 03:06:01 · 16 answers · asked by Giggle Bear 3 in Singles & Dating

I was briefly involved in an intense relationship with a man I thought I was in love with. At first he was so kind, attentive and thoughtful. I moved in with him.
Shortly after that I started seeing "the signs"..."Were you really with your daughter? Have you been faithful? You aren't lying to me are you?" etc. Then he started 'picking on me' about stupid things like, "why didn't you notice I cleaned your car?" (5 times in 2 hours) or "You dropped a tissue on the floor, you have no respect"...like YELLING at me for stupid things. (I was faithful and NEVER lied to him!)
Anyway, I became very frightened and moved all my stuff out at 2am one night. It has only been 3 days but he has been leaving me voicemails like, "oh, I didn't know you were a hooker! f*** you!" etc. I am starting to get worried he may do something crazy. Short of going to the police (he hasn't threatened me) what should I do?
We are both 46

2007-10-16 03:03:36 · 25 answers · asked by Bethany I 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

please help me out

2007-10-16 03:02:11 · 19 answers · asked by shefalisharma_1992 1 in Singles & Dating

Our anniversary is on october 1st and I dont know what to do. This will only be our 1 month anniversary but i've known her for a really long time and i want to do something really special.

2007-10-16 03:01:23 · 2 answers · asked by Luis Q 1 in Singles & Dating

i've been married for three monthes and my husband wants to go at it at least twice a day- I'm just not in the mood! I also never had sex before marriage so does that make me wierder for not wanting it already. (i'm pregnant too)

2007-10-16 03:00:12 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I have kids and I try to keep myself busy all the time..excise or shoppping or business but I still feel lonely..it seems like I missing something...
Please advise. is it normal..???

2007-10-16 02:59:44 · 9 answers · asked by back2future 5 in Marriage & Divorce

do you get turned on by the idea of another man being with your woman? would you want to watch? i have the fantasy about my bf being with another girl while i watch and it drives me crazy! but in reality i think i would be really jealous. does anyone else have these fantasies??

2007-10-16 02:59:27 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My husband and I have been married for almost 6 months and it isn't working out so we are talking about getting a divorce. However, he is threatening to take the house (which is in my name and I have owned since before our marriage),unless I give him the truck and the car (which are also in my name from before the marriage, but he wants me to continue making the payments (the loan is in my name). He say NC is a joint state so he gets 1/2 of everything I owned before the marriage. He was renting when we got married (whith his mom) and has since sold his old truck, so he doesn't have anything from before-other then his hunting dogs, which I have no desire to share, can he do this?

2007-10-16 02:58:41 · 11 answers · asked by Nicole E 4 in Marriage & Divorce