Im 18. Im in college.There's this girl in my class.She's hot. She stares at me.While having an exam,and after she's done with the paper..She'll just stare. Sometimes,I just freak out.I look away. She'll continue to stare even when I catch her staring. She stares a lot.And also, If you don't like someone, will you keep staring at him/her? or you will just look away when you see him/her? (implying to the girl) could she stare because she hates me?
Its an intense stare. not smiling, but not frowning or scowling either. just normal facial gestures.But she doesn't stop staring,she continues. Why me? could she hate me or something? and no,I check there's nothing wrong with my face or anything. So why the heck is she staring? She stares straight in my eyes. Could it be an intense stare? Girls & guys would you stare at someone at a far away distance becuase you think they're so ugly. She gives me a lot of eye contact,but I look away.So,does she stare because she thinks that I'm ugly.She gives me a lot of eye contact,but I look away.So,does she stare because she thinks that I'm ugly. When she's near she wont look my way
4 days back,she was still staring.I ignored her. After a while,she stopped staring at me. Her friends stare and smile at me too.WHY???DOES SHE HATE OR LIKE ME???She stares at me everyday without fail
Out sitting arrangement has change,so today I was sitting beside her,and she stares but not as much as last time. She stares secretly. I dont know why but yeah
14 minutes ago
Im a girl btw,and she stares without frowning or any facial gesture.
SHE STARES EVERYDAY,AND I MEAN EVERYDAY..
2007-10-16 03:08:22 · 20 answers · asked by samantha g 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
sounds kinda creepy....it might just be a case of her having awkward social graces...but then if you wake up one morning and find that she has slept the night on your porch waiting for you to get up and out of the house....
another good example of when to be worried is if she mails you pieces of herself like her hair or toenail clippings
2007-10-18 19:52:56 · answer #1 · answered by ted nation 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Spend about ten minutes a day or more practicing this in front of a mirror. The look you want in your eyes could best be described as "intense". Think lustful thoughts and imagine you are looking at someone who drives you wild. Simply.. try to be passionate. Once energy is surging through your body, you want to transmit this only through your eyes. Your face should remain deadpan. Use visualization techniques if it helps. As you get better at this, you'll be able to turn it on. You'll be able to make your eyes go from "dead" to "very much alive" in a few seconds. This skill of making your eyes transform has a powerful effect.
Combine purposefully banal talk with intense eye contact. Because you're sending out mixed signals and being indirect, the other person will often tune out from what you're saying and lose themselves in your gaze. It also doesn't give them a chance to analyze what's going on, they'll pick up on your flirtation unconsciously.
Realize that this won't suffice on its own; it is merely a good ingredient of complete seduction. You still have to go out and meet people. However, your new found expressiveness will work very well in nightclubs, where non-verbal communication is the order of the day.
You can use this all the time, but you don't want to go around "turning your eyes on" at people. You should just have an alert, attentive look. Holding eye contact for a second longer than normal can say everything.
Make sure that you are not having too much eye contact or they will get freaked out and will go run off. So its just a small crush like eye contact.
Tips\\\\\\
The power of this can't be overestimated. You'll find people becoming drawn to you. You literally gain power, and all because you simply look like you already have it. It is essential for charisma.
Try closing your lower eyelids a little, like you're squinting, but keep your upper eyelids fully open. You'll find you can go for a long time without blinking.
The triangle gaze: once in awhile when you have eye contact with your target, glace down at their lips, hold the gaze for a moment then back to one eye and over to the next. This is extremely effective.
Warnings
\\\It's very important to keep your gaze ambiguous. You don't want to look angry or scared, often you might not even want to look sexually interested because if your expression can be read that easily, then the illusion is broken. Just go for intensity and warmth, as if you can read the other person's thoughts, but they have no way of reading yours.
Don't look insane. You can take this thing too far. Look alert but be physically relaxed.
2007-10-16 03:17:29 · answer #2 · answered by christopher123456 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK, this is really weird. You've touched on several reason she could be staring at you. She may be trying to intimidate you for some reason. She may be daydreaming and just happens to be looking in your direction.
Why not ask her why she stares at you all the time? Ask her if she hates you or has a problem with you. If she's got a problem with you, it will be the perfect opportunity for her to tell you what the deal is. It will also show her that you are not intimidated by her (which may be what she's trying to do).
She should definitely stop staring at you if you approach her about it.
Good luck.
2007-10-16 03:16:35 · answer #3 · answered by Loves the Ponies 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She probably has a thing for you, or maybe she thinks you are pretty and admires you. Stare back!!! But in a way that she will get the point. Or anytime she looks your way roll your eyes and make it obvious that you notice she is doing it.
2007-10-16 03:20:53 · answer #4 · answered by Chelley 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow thats is a big problem mabye she has some kind if eye disorder whare he/she can't stop staring even if she/he wanted to but try just staring back at her for mabye 10 minutes or so or just ask her she may say something like i was never staring at u or in better events she/he might just want to talk to you
hope it helps
2007-10-16 03:15:20 · answer #5 · answered by flight-enthusiasts 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The next time she stares at you, say "Can I help you" very politely. See what she says. If she contiues after that, I would approach her after class and ask her why she continually stares at you- again, ask her politely and in a non-confrontational way.
2007-10-16 03:12:40 · answer #6 · answered by sarah jane 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No idea. this is weird. Ask her, politely. Just say next time u see her stare, jus say, "oh sorry, ive probably still got half my lunch round my face! oops, can u tell me where" if she looks puzzled or asks what u mean, say, "well u jus were looking at me funny so i jus guessed i had somethin on me"
xxxxx
2007-10-16 03:14:36 · answer #7 · answered by millayhighsociety 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would politely ask why she is staring if I were in your position, and see how she responds (by asking if there was something on my face or something, you know so it isn't that obvious). Maybe she doesn't notice that she's doing it.
2007-10-16 03:13:58 · answer #8 · answered by bobbyjay 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well you don't have to be a rocket scientist to tell that she likes you why do you think she keeps looking at you if she did not like you she would not stare at you so just go up to her talk and if you want to go out with her do it and if you don't just tell her your flattered but you have a girlfriend. but when ever they keep looking at you its because they like you trust me i know from experience.
2007-10-16 03:17:36 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
easiest way to find out is to ask her. i would tell you but i dont know what shes thinking.
id be kinda freaked out. if you dont wanna ask her if you keep ignoring her eventually she'll get sick of it and stop.
2007-10-16 03:14:25 · answer #10 · answered by Push Play for Jonas 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋