i'm just thinking why men are toodefensive when women find out they cheated,made mistekes etc? & instead of admitting thier mistakes & say thy're sorry for that, the more they cover upo themselves & sail away the answer & divert the argument to another topic?will you guys answer this honestly & maturely?i just want to understand & not to judge you.
2007-10-16 03:25:47 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
They feel like they are inadequate when something doesn't go right. They get pissy because they don't like to be criticized. It's just their ego.
They drive me nuts...
2007-10-16 03:30:06 · answer #1 · answered by theewokprincess 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Why are all the "cheating" questions targeted at men? EVERY single question on here is about how men are stupid, lying, and all other sorts of things. There are SO many women who are out there that fit the description above. Not too long ago a women was on here saying she LOVES to sleep with married men and become defensive when everyone told her it was wrong. All the women on here must know some REAL jerks because I have yet to find a man who would so any of the things in the cheating questions. Sorry if that sounds harsh. but its true.
2007-10-16 10:58:34 · answer #2 · answered by -----------n 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The truth is that when a man become too defensive he care and love you only that he fears hurting you although he had done it already. He finds some exec use to sneak away from the truth and if he apologized, perhaps he know what would be the consequences to come including mistrust, perhaps their wife taking a revenge, leaving etc which will turn to hurt him. So the best way to catch him on what he say is ask him more question, keep the his answer what he say, and as you hit question number 76 come back and restart from question 32 and after a while jump back to question 18 and back to question 70. Give him all his answer and let him chose which one is his best answer to you question that he was too much offensive. I bet you, I don't know what his reaction would be when he know how smart you have caught him lying.
2007-10-16 10:58:18 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
From a female thought! Guys think that there are better and that there no everything, WHEN WE KNO AND THEY KNO THEY DONT!! There is 2 type of men
1- is the guy that accepts that what he did is wrong and makes up for it and doesnt do it again and is a sweet heart and husband materal
THEN
2-The guy that is the top dog to his friends and is ALWAYS fighting with his girl friend and or wife! He's also the one that is gonna be alone later in life!
If guys just knew how much EASIER they could make there life with just agree and a sorry! You think there would be divorese still! well yea but not as many! ask anybody
2007-10-16 10:32:52 · answer #4 · answered by Paige M 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Because they do not want any problems in dealing with our stress over it all. They don't want to be wrong so it is easier to put the blame on you so that they don't have to be fully accountable for what they choose to do. It is much easier for them to justify the wrong so that they feel right in doing what they did so they can divert the blame on you. They would rather you feel bad so that they don't have to feel anything.Most will not be honest even if they are caught with their hand in the cookie jar! This is why that song was written awhile back ..This Is My Story and I'm Sticking to it.
2007-10-16 10:42:27 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you are with someone who continues to lie and cheat, you are only hurting yourself.
perhaps consider YOUR life and do whatever you have to in order to find some happiness and peace.
i am a 50 year old woman, and i know one thing -- all men are not like this.....
take care hon.
2007-10-16 10:34:15 · answer #6 · answered by letterstoheather 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not just men. There are self centered superior acting people of both sexes.
2007-10-16 15:14:02 · answer #7 · answered by dubhub9 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men are too egoist to admit there flaws honey,the sooner u accept this fact the happier u will be!!good luck!!
2007-10-16 10:33:10 · answer #8 · answered by country_girl 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
don't know
but they do try to change the topic or try to blame us for their mistakes & even tell us its our fault for not paying enough attention
to me its waste of time to try to understand them & forgiveing them is out of question, just dump them so they can learn their lesson
2007-10-16 10:39:11 · answer #9 · answered by maya 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You bruise their ego when pointing out flaws. Who really wants to hear that?
2007-10-16 10:41:38 · answer #10 · answered by jlonva 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋