What should my next move be?

Question

Here is a little back story. I meet this girl at the casino, I didnt even talk to her i just wrote my name and number on a bingo card with the ink dabber. Walked up and set it in front of her, and walked away. 2 hours later i got a text message from her. She thought it was really cute what i did. We talked a little that night, last wednesday. We talked some friday. I asked if she had any plans that night. She said she was busy. So i told her to call me when she wasnt busy. she replied to that with "maybe I will :)". Then last night we talked about what we did over the weekend. Nothing big. So what should be my next move?

Answer 1

Plan to do something sometime soon!! I know I get bored if the guy doesnt make any plans to meet up.

Answer 2

Call her. Say "I have tickets to a concert/there's a great exhibit at this museum/I've been looking forward to trying this new restaurant on [insert date here]. Would you like to go? Oh, you're busy that day? What about [insert alternate date]?"

It's a holdover from the "olden days," but most women really appreciate it when you take the time and effort to make a plan and then ask them out on a real date. If you just say "call when you're not busy," you may never get a response.

If she still can't go, she probably thinks you're cute but isn't really that interested.

Answer 3

Your first step was good. Ask her out but this time mention your busy schedules first before you say the time that you alloted for her. And this time ask her out with atleast a week ahead. If she said she is busy on your planned date,tell her to cancel her schedule because you are sure that she will have a great time.

1st date is important, make sure its romantic but not expensive(dont let her think that your buying her attention)

good luck!

Answer 4

Offer to show her your severed head collection in your freezer.

Answer 5

Ask her to have lunch with you.... No pressure.