Family & Relationships - 16 October 2007

2007-10-16 08:54:07 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

because i dont want her boyfriend in my home means me going upstairs just to make her life comfy

2007-10-16 08:51:24 · 122 answers · asked by astra 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

I am getting married in the Vallley of Fire (Outside of Las Vegas) in January. I am having a hard time finding a place to do both. We will have our reception at home in Phoenix but we still want to have a nice dinner and dancing while we are there and will have younsters with us. Your help is appreciated.

2007-10-16 08:50:25 · 6 answers · asked by pnkyz_brain 3 in Weddings

and how long have you been together after marrige?

2007-10-16 08:50:03 · 31 answers · asked by Petitecherry 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I spent 8 years of my life with this man. I took care of him and provided for him financially. I moved out 3 months ago but still continued to see him and help him with his rent bills etc.. Now all of a sudden his ex wife his starting to bring his 9 year old daughter to see him He signed his rights away to this kid. I have not spoke to him in 2 weeks because I went by his house at 11:30 one night and she was still there. He said she was staying there with the kids. He said there was nothing going on between them but I just dont trust it. She is having problems with her husband any way and he supposedly molested the little girl. I dont know what is going on with that. So I have not talked to my boyfriend in 1 week and 1 day. I just wonder why he will not call me. I spent 8 years of my freaking life with him.

2007-10-16 08:48:55 · 70 answers · asked by Sunny 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-10-16 08:48:45 · 13 answers · asked by Serengetti 3 in Singles & Dating

I have been married for four years.We got a son together.Though my husband got enough money to visit my parents who live 3 hrs by flight away, hes been there only once four years ago. He won,t share the bedroom with me , he says he is impotent and wont, take medication.I havent slept with him for more than 2 and a half years. He is always moody we hardly talk. Hes older than me 15 years difference. iam ony 27 and having a boring life I am sure he is not cheating on me though.

2007-10-16 08:47:43 · 16 answers · asked by baby l 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i've been married for 2 yrs, but my husband and i have never lived together, simply because he was getting in a lot of trouble/problems. we both live in different states... i last saw him a year ago..his mother made it clear she didn't like me and was always spreading lies about me.... anyway, he recently got in touch with and i made it clear i wanted a divorce and he said he loves me too much to divorce me. he tried to convince me to come and stay with hinm in arizona.. and he said he was going to send me the ticket and i believed him like i always do... its now been 3 days since then.. when i called his house his daughter said he had gone to work.. his kids don't live with him.. why won't he divorce me when he clearly isn't making any time for me.. helllp?????

2007-10-16 08:47:05 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My bf (he's 27 i'm 34) & my mom havent gotten along in a while 4 stupid reasons. So as my due date drew nearer we had decided my sister would take my older girls & we would go to the hospital ourselves, calling everyone after our baby was born.
My mother showed up about 6 a.m after we had been there a good 5 hrs and proceeded 2 ignore him. Not even a goodmorning. She was very nice to me but it was if he wasnt even there! I notice this & know its bothering him but what can a woman having hardcore contractions to do?
He says to me hes gona grab a soda (he was actually going to leave), she follows him out & starts to tell him he less than a man, a terrible bf, not a good dad 2 his other lil girl, etc.
He blows up & says leave, you werent invited & you arent welcome. Tells her he will have her banned. He comes back in & says she left. (Didnt want 2 give details til baby was born).
My sister calls & says what did he do mom is a mess...while I'm still in labor! Whos wrong???

2007-10-16 08:44:06 · 17 answers · asked by ♥Baby♥Girl♥ 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-10-16 08:42:48 · 24 answers · asked by ? 6 in Singles & Dating

I would like to find a place in north Ga Area.

2007-10-16 08:42:18 · 14 answers · asked by Kelly23 1 in Weddings

2007-10-16 08:41:40 · 41 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

have i hurt anyone i dont think so.there are nasty people in the world

2007-10-16 08:41:12 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

or the quickest you have ever told someone you loved them

3 weeks once for me.. ended up not working in the long run

2007-10-16 08:39:23 · 36 answers · asked by Dauntilus 3 in Singles & Dating

I just found out that he has been talking some girl that he is attracted to who he met at work.

She is his age, but about to get married. He says she peaked his interest because she is attractive and she is from a different country.

The thing is I found out they spend a lot of tiem on the phone (anywhere from 30 minutes to a little more than an hour per day, over the course of the day, between several calls).

They never talk during the times I am around or I am home.

This has been going on for about two months at the least and he says he is not interested in having sex with her, he just likes to talk to her, as it is something different.

He promises me that he would never do anything to break up our family (we have a 3 yr old daughter), and that I am the one for him, and of course I am sure she knows about his family.

2007-10-16 08:38:26 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Hi! I am getting married next year outdoors, in a garden that overlooks the ocean/bay. Since the chairs will be facing the bay I was wondering if anyone had any suggestions for a way we could create a focal point to the spot we'll be standing in. I know typically people use an arch but I'd like to avoid doing this and try something new. Any suggestions? Thanks!

2007-10-16 08:37:33 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

I mean, like you get married, but then you found out something super important that you overlooked that gives you problems down the road?
Or if you're totally happy, what do you attribute the happiness to? How do you work everything out so everything runs smoothly?

2007-10-16 08:37:03 · 15 answers · asked by jade 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I can't say I never felt this before, because I thought I was in love once. I have almost the same feeling again, so I'm wondering if it is possible to fall in love again? I feel like I'm in a dream....shes the most amazing woman in the world. I can't believe my life would have moved in a different path if I did not meet this woman. I am scared to get hurt again, so I am not sure if this is even possible.

2007-10-16 08:32:17 · 36 answers · asked by Sean I.T ? 7 in Singles & Dating

I'm just bored and wondering what makes you say yes to guys. Can a butt ugly guy pull your number at a party if he says all the right things? Can a great looking guy get it even if he has no game? What makes you say yes, and what makes you walk away.

Kind of an obvious question I know. I'm looking for something a little more ... in-depth

2007-10-16 08:29:34 · 3 answers · asked by Nate 6 in Singles & Dating

He is in software right now, but plans to switch to the area of finance. I will thinking of gifting him a Wall Street Journal newspaper subscription. Will he appreciate it?

Also, would you suggest I gift him the everyday one, or just the weekend subscription?

Which one would you have preferred?
Thank you so much guys.

2007-10-16 08:28:20 · 7 answers · asked by ? 6 in Singles & Dating

Neither of us has dated seriously in a long time (a year or more.) We're mature, financially stable and have our own lives going. Never married/no kids. What's the best advice you can give me? I really want this one to work.

2007-10-16 08:26:24 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My boyfriend and I are both pretty shy in the bedroom. I am shy in general, and haven't had that many relationships, so I am not confident at all when it comes to sex. I feel like he is having the same problem. When we do have sex, it is wonderful, but I am starting to get frustrated because it only happens probably twice a month because we are both just waiting for the other person to make the move. I love him and I love every other part of our relationship. I don't want to make a big deal about it, because he is sensitive about his sexual performance anyway...What can I do to spice things up? I feel really stupid and inexperienced, even though I'm in my mid-20s. What can I do to overcome my shyness?

2007-10-16 08:26:17 · 13 answers · asked by ? 2 in Singles & Dating

I am planning my wedding within a year from todays date. Me and my fiance both know we want to have a very romantic wedding at the beach. I would love some input! I have seen some things for padre island but please please please HELP!!!

2007-10-16 08:24:52 · 3 answers · asked by **DoGetLoud** 2 in Weddings

i'm recently going through a rough point in my life, my girlfriend left me after 4yrs and there are many more complications. i have always felt that god has never been there when i need him the most. so now i find myself not believing in him. so do you feel like god has abandoned you?

2007-10-16 08:23:31 · 19 answers · asked by Ollie 3 in Singles & Dating

I am a single 20 year old, very attractive woman. I am very thin and toned and I know my face is very pretty as well. I get compliments all the time.
HOWEVER, I cannot meet the right guy! it's like impossible. Where do you meet someone? Guys are always initially attracted to me but it seems no one wants a relationship. I would never tell any of my friends this, but I really wish i WASN'T single.
So, where are all those nice, good looking men out there? :(

2007-10-16 08:21:40 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

are open to being friends with benefits?

2007-10-16 08:20:21 · 17 answers · asked by Fall Back 1 in Singles & Dating

I bought a Target kit for invitations and we printed them off ourselves. They are white with a cream border, very simple. It's one sheet, and no inner envelope. I only have the invite, the RSVP cards w/ their envelopes, and a direction sheet I made. That's it. It just seems really bare, do you think that is kind of tacky or just reduces waste and crap that people will inevitably throw away anyway?

2007-10-16 08:19:51 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

i dont have a boyfrfiend because he moved

2007-10-16 08:13:57 · 38 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my fiance just got back a week ago from working out of town in mobile for 3 weeks. the 1st nite he got back a woman named catherine called & he took the phone and ran, i suspected cheating at this time, this was on sunday. i made him call the girl back & tell her to never call again. but the name that popped up on phone was cat, he called cat2. which made me think he never calld her. he has a phone wit a plan but last fri. i caught him messing w/his prepaid phone. so the next mornin i look through his pockets and find his old sim card & stick it in the phone & find out he has been talking 2 her all week! i call the girl & find out he slept with her numerous times, took her out, & she is a stripper w/a kid & another 1 on the way! he finally admitted everything but says he made the biggest mistake of his life & wants a 2nd chance, so i told him 2 call cat & end it w/her. he said he needed time to think b4 he did anything. if he wants me back why doesnt he end it w/her?

2007-10-16 08:13:51 · 33 answers · asked by cami 1 in Singles & Dating

pleased two boys oraly...
the night with another boy twice..
and almost everyone knows...
apart from that a very sweet and kind girl...
would u consider her a SL*T?

2007-10-16 08:06:53 · 26 answers · asked by meat 3 in Singles & Dating