i've been married for 2 yrs, but my husband and i have never lived together, simply because he was getting in a lot of trouble/problems. we both live in different states... i last saw him a year ago..his mother made it clear she didn't like me and was always spreading lies about me.... anyway, he recently got in touch with and i made it clear i wanted a divorce and he said he loves me too much to divorce me. he tried to convince me to come and stay with hinm in arizona.. and he said he was going to send me the ticket and i believed him like i always do... its now been 3 days since then.. when i called his house his daughter said he had gone to work.. his kids don't live with him.. why won't he divorce me when he clearly isn't making any time for me.. helllp?????
2007-10-16 08:47:05 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Just file for divorce. I hope you don't have any children with him.
2007-10-16 08:51:03 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Boy you made a good choice in marriage here.
You married a bum. You expect him to do the right thing NOW and give you a divorce? He won't change.
You can divorce him anyway - but it'll take longer without his consent. Ask an attorney.
2007-10-16 08:54:13 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You might be able to have the marriage annuled, if you can prove you never lived together. Investigate that option. Even if you can't, it shouldn't be that hard to get a no-fault divorce, depending on the state you live in, since you've never actually lived in the same household.
Good luck.
2007-10-16 08:51:51 · answer #3 · answered by sarah jane 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you got married at the wrong time.Whatever the reason for not living together it must be hard to have a marriage..why dont you go see him and talk it over in person?over the phone just isnt the same. you need to figure out where you want to live, is this the kind of marriage you want to have? could he be seeing someone else? ask him what he wants, does he want a wife that he doesnt live with, is he happy with you? if he really cares then you would be with him.good luck.
2007-10-16 08:56:43 · answer #4 · answered by Glittery★stars 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sister. You are flogging a dead horse here. love never sits idle when it can move to its destination. I dont think his mother can be held accountable for him. He is he and it was always up to him to put his sh%t down so he can be with you. Husbands have responsibilities to their wives, and obligations they must keep in order to maintain a healthy marriage. Yours is past its use-by date I am sorry to say. Take the bull by the horns and annul that piece of paper or you will continue to think yourself a fool to have so much faith. Leave the rest to God....he never gets it wrong
2007-10-16 15:22:16 · answer #5 · answered by tillermantony 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
file for divorce anyway on the grounds of unreasonable behaviour and irreconsilable differences. if you have never lived together you are not even commonlaw man and wife so you should get quick judgement in your favour.
2007-10-16 08:51:52 · answer #6 · answered by dooglepuff 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why are you leaving it up to him? if you want ta divorce, then file for divorce.
2007-10-16 09:01:53 · answer #7 · answered by redpeach_mi 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is this for real? GET A DIVORCE.
2007-10-16 08:53:18 · answer #8 · answered by sunflowergal 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋