she said she feels disconnected from me lately and she doesn't know why and then she said she needed some time to straighten stuff out a something about it almost being a year and her needing to be sure of of this relationship. and then she was like I want you to have fun and forget about me during this break and see if you still want to be together.
Sounds like a bunch of BS, so I right now this ISN'T a break to me, I guess maybe to her it is but my mind is in Bye-bye mode, am I right?
2007-10-16 07:01:59 · 11 answers · asked by Donnell H 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I had set my facebook status to Single, and she asked why are people asking if we broke up...yep.
She said aren't we separated??
-.-
I'm like whatever, what's the difference, we're together or not.
I think she plays too many damn games.
2007-10-16 09:16:55 · update #1
and, as of right now, 12:30 am after spending 4 hours talking on the phone. It's over.
She said, even though that I was the best thing to come into her life and the time we spent was amazing, she wasn't happy with our relationship at this point anymore(she didn't know why and she didn't want to feel like that)
So I did what I hope hope hope is best, and explained to her that the best thing to do would be for us to let go, and if that feeling ever did go away and she realized she made a mistake then if it was meant to be then we would make it happen.
so...
South Beach this weekend, who's down?
2007-10-16 17:33:10 · update #2
There is no such thing as a break in a relationship. There is either a relationship or not. I think she is trying to gently tell you to go away. She is hoping that you will find someone else and break up with her during your "break" so she doesn't have to feel guilty about ending the relationship.
2007-10-16 07:07:42 · answer #1 · answered by Truth is elusive 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If two people love each other than what the heck do they need a break for? People who say things like this hun basically want to "have their cake and eat it too." Maybe she needs some time to think wether you are the one for her, but are you going to be able to live with the fact that she is going to explore emotions with other dudes to see if she wants to be single or with someone else? I don't think that is healthy. Either break-up and move on, or communicate in the relationship and find a happy medium or your happy state of mind like in the beginning. Think about what brought you two together in the first place. Sometimes when my boyfriend and i hit a rough patch we think about that first night we met and how special it was. That may help. But don't be strung along...
2007-10-16 14:09:03 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes you need time away from things or people to really see what you have and truly being to appreciate it. And in some cases...you can come back stronger than ever after a break...If you love her..wait for her. (not forever of course) but as long as you feel you should.
2007-10-16 14:07:48 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she found someone else. Sorry man, it happens. I've been there.
Best thing you can do is move on, and try not to think about her. Seriously. Getting laid with other chicks isn't going to help because you're still going to think about her. Just live your life and try to think of anything positive to forget about what she is doing. :)
2007-10-16 14:06:22 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
the fact that she wants you to "have fun" probably means thats exactly what shes going to do. she probably wants this break so she can bang some dude shes had her eye on and then go back to you when its over and done with.
2007-10-16 14:06:00 · answer #5 · answered by colostomy_punch 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
take a break for a month or two. absence makes the heart grow fonder, my bet is that she'll miss you in a couple of weeks and come back to you.
2007-10-16 14:05:35 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
It's a polite way of saying its over.
2007-10-16 14:10:50 · answer #7 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yep, go have some fun and enjoy being single.
2007-10-16 14:05:39 · answer #8 · answered by Jessica C 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i would take that as getting dumped and move on to another women she cant get mad at you it was her idea .
i think [going on a brake ] is just a cowards way of dumping .
2007-10-16 14:07:51 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow....then follow what she told u...let her realized what she lost.....cz if u still be there for her after she told u this trust me the more she runs away from u....don't do the mistakes that i did!!! hey good luck
2007-10-16 14:08:40 · answer #10 · answered by angel 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋