I recently ended a relationship with a man I am madly in love with. Its a long story why. He says he loves me too. We work together and now he will hardly look at me. I am sure he can tell how miserable I am. Why is he doing this? It makes it hurt even more.
2007-10-16 06:56:33 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
From your other questions I'm assuming you both are married i guess his marriage isn't that bad after all and you breaking it off with him gave him time to realize he wants to work it out with his wife.
2007-10-16 07:04:51 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
The problem here is that you ended the relationship, but you are the one madly in love with him. For us to give you an answer that would be valid we have to know why. Other than that, all I can say is that you may have lost him. Or he may not look at you because it hurts him to look at you. We can't know without knowing more.
2007-10-16 14:04:35 · answer #2 · answered by No one 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is doing that because he is hurt too, if you love him why you dumped him, he will be like that for a long time until he finds another person and then you will be more mad at him so get even don't look at him no more, he knows that you are hurt too so just ignore him and you two will be happy!
2007-10-16 14:04:33 · answer #3 · answered by Cherry 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your question confuses me you say you broke up with a man you love? what was your reason if you love him? Then you ask why is HE doing this? Doing What? You dumped him! what is he supposed to do?
Go back out with him if you love him so much or move on if he doesn't love you back
Simple
2007-10-16 14:05:24 · answer #4 · answered by ~NIKKI~ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok here's alittle inside info on guys.We hate rejection of any sort.We don't wear our emotions on our sleves so we deal with emotional pain by redirecting it with anger.He may be wanting to yell and screem at you but he wont so he tries to block you out.Perhaps he is even afraid that if he does make eye contact or ingages you in anyway he might loose his composior(yes my spelling sucks).I man doesn't want to break down in front of anyone.And he might be just trying to show you that he is fine even though everyone knows he isn't.Just give him time and space.After the shock of the break settles he may come around.he might not.So be prepared for either out come.The male ego is fradgel.
2007-10-16 14:12:33 · answer #5 · answered by h2ok9 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I'm with the previous poster, I betcha he's married.
It's time for both of you to move on and try to keep things on a professsional lever, where they should have been to begin with it.
So, he's ignoring you...do the same.
2007-10-16 14:11:47 · answer #6 · answered by Blunt 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Why is he doing this? because he is hurt also perhaps and because it is awkward. Time will help you both heal. Just take good care of yourself through it.
2007-10-16 14:01:14 · answer #7 · answered by Twiggy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You dumped him. How you you expect him to react? Is he supposed to be happy? Plus seeing you everyday at work just digs that knife in a bitter deeper. I'd be depressing and mopey too.
2007-10-16 14:23:57 · answer #8 · answered by Scorpio 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
so hes married huh and wont look at you thats cause you canned his butt thats why. if he isnt married then he may be deeply hurt andthere isnt anyway for hi to get over it such as talking with someone about how he feels
2007-10-16 14:05:52 · answer #9 · answered by the_orc_1 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
It's called wounded pride and i doubt that he'll get over it all the time he keeps seeing you. Put yourself in his place for a minute and you'll realise.
2007-10-16 14:12:13 · answer #10 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋