.... circumcised?
When I was with my ex for seven months, we were laying down together and suddenly she brings up the topic, w./out saying the actual word.
She says, "If you had a son and the doctor asked you if you wanted to cut off his skin, would you do it?" Obviously, she knew I was un-circumcised at that point from previous months. She went on to say shortly after, "Did you ever wish you had the skin cut off of your penis?"
She was from the south so I bet I was her first un-circumcised guy. Was she trying to hint she prefers circumcised and wanted me to get it done? I never asked what she meant, I just answered the questions. I think I said 'yes' to the 1st question b/c "most guys are and it prevents infections." She replied to that with, "Yeah, I heard that, too." And to the 2nd question I said, "I never really gave it any thought as to if I wanted or not."
2007-10-16 05:54:43 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If she's your ex then it doesn't matter wht she thinks.
But if you care about her and want to give it a try then...
She may have. ASK HER! then tell her your feelings and thoughts on the subject. If she loves she'll understand if you don't want to. If she doesn't then obviously she's not the girl for you.
2007-10-16 05:59:08 · answer #1 · answered by curious1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You may very well have been the first un-circumcised guy she had ever been with. She may have just been curious. I myself have never had the pleasure......but you do what you want to do. Do you want to be circumcised? Remember what your school counselor use to tell you, or maybe your mom? If someone doesn't like you for who and what you are, you need to find somebody else. If a piece of skin is going to weird her out, then imagine what life would be like when sh*t really hit the fan. I have also heard that it is really painful to have it done after you are a certain age, but I wouldn't know that personally. I say keep it! (if you want to!) ;)
2007-10-16 13:02:07 · answer #2 · answered by bellahabile 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm sure that if she didn't enjoy it or wanted you circumcised she would of either broke it off or else she would of told you something a few months back being that you two were together for quite some time now don't let it bother you but if it does anyways maybe just bring it up to her and ask her if it bothers her if she don't really talk about her feelings much.
2007-10-16 12:59:37 · answer #3 · answered by moringurl20 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most women prefer a cut penis... she probably is hinting that she would like you to get a circumcision
2007-10-16 12:59:00 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Maybe she is, maybe she isn't; but seriously, inform yourself and don't do something you're going to regret for a woman you're not even with anymore!
2007-10-18 23:29:50 · answer #5 · answered by Mich 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her....no one knows what she "meant" except her. It's entirely possible she meant what she said and was just curious.
2007-10-16 12:58:41 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
from this question u should cut the whole thing off......grow a sack......how old are u 12? have u gotten infections??? if not tell her to get off ur nuts and back on ur stick
2007-10-16 12:59:29 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
yes it prevents infections. there is nothing wrong in doing it
2007-10-16 12:58:33 · answer #8 · answered by hilary duff 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She may have been hinting at it, yes.
2007-10-16 12:57:41 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she's your ex, don't worry about what she meant!
2007-10-16 12:57:52 · answer #10 · answered by bananas4keith 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋