Hi, I have a problem with my sex life. I have a friend that I just adore and everytime we have sex it feels like the very first time, ever. I don't have sex often because of my busy schedule and when I do it hurts, it feels like I'm a virgin. It don't just hurt me it hurt him also, what do I do???
2007-10-16 07:47:40 · 14 answers · asked by Sexy BA 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Are you some what new to sex? If not, like everyone else has said, try the KY lube......it makes things much 'smoother' for both involved. :)
2007-10-16 07:54:15 · answer #1 · answered by Blue-eyed Stranger 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Somethings not right. Maybe you both need to slow down and make sure that you are both ready for it. Foreplay is a beautiful thing. Use it to the max!!!! make sure you are both ready before actual penetration. As yo ulearn each other you will know there will be a time to just hit it hard and quick. But for now, take it slow, long and enjoyible
2007-10-16 07:52:28 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you could always not have sex at atll, but who wants that, so I suggest that you just let it hurt, nobody wants their stuff to be worn out anyway. I mean see a doctor about it if you feel the need, but no guy has ever complained that it is too tight.
2007-10-16 07:56:03 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You do understand your supposed to take all the time needed to get you wet and ready right?If your spending plenty of time and your not getting wet you should see your Doctor and get lots of lube!Sex can have a little pain and still be fun,love can't!Maybe you need more than a friend to play with.
2007-10-16 07:55:17 · answer #4 · answered by notagain49 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probable need to shave. Sometimes hair gets in the way and cause bruise. Else see your doctor.-*
2007-10-16 07:59:44 · answer #5 · answered by Prudent World 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you need a little more foreplay, and some lubricant.. Buy it where you get the condoms....
2007-10-16 07:52:27 · answer #6 · answered by Sophie B 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get checked out by your doctor and make sure there isn't a medical issue involved.
2007-10-16 07:51:06 · answer #7 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well, with some girls it may hurt for a while. but dont worry. it WILL go away. the more u do it, the less tighter it will get.
2007-10-16 07:51:43 · answer #8 · answered by ♠Hoody♠™ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to have him work your puzzy....like rub on it to get it a little loose....you not having sex as much in result leaves to your puzzy getting tight again depending on hw long...play with it enuff till you feel as if its loose enuff....
2007-10-16 07:52:44 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you good and wet before penetration? If not use more foreplay or have him perform oral on you, OR use lube!
2007-10-16 07:51:40 · answer #10 · answered by me4tennessee 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋