i have been talking to this guy since oct 5th, we have fooled around a few times, he calls me almost everyday since we have met, we havent been out on a date or anything just going to his house watching tv, having drinks, or going to his moms house while he cooks, this past sunday went over to his mothers house watched football games and then went to his house and watched more tv, well i went home and he went to his mothers house to check on her for the rest of the night (she just had surgery and cant walk) well he called me once he got home to let me know he made it home safely. I am attracted to him and hes the kinda guy i can see myself with, but how do i know if he wants more from me than friends with benefits, i should ask him but its to early since we only know one another for a week. How do i know it will be more or is it more already and i just dont see the light?
2007-10-16 07:32:40 · 5 answers · asked by ? 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He already brought you around his mom...he constantly wants to be with you apparently...he checks in!! has to be something more there. Just be careful not to give him too much or else he'll realize he can have all that with no commitment which WILL lead to problems. Give him just enough to want more, until he realizes how great ya'll would be together exclusively. Just let him know you're serious. He should respect you for that if he's a really good guy.
2007-10-16 09:32:31 · answer #1 · answered by ........... 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Too early to tell. Stay the course and watch what happens. It's going to be very intense at the beginning because it's all so new and exciting, so the real test is time. If things are the same after a few months, chances are he's just interested in the service you provide for him (sex). If he's really interested in you then your relationship will grow into more than just watching TV, having drinks, and the horizontal mambo.
2007-10-16 07:42:21 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You've only been seeing each other a little over a week, that's not even friends with benefits as you started fooling around before you'd had time to really become friends.
Back off the intimate contact, and see where things go. I'd think a date request from him should occur soon or you might want to pass on this one...unless the current situation satisifies you.
2007-10-16 07:38:25 · answer #3 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just go with the flow and see what happens. Don't start asking him all these questions..it'll just scare him away. You've only known him for a week? Give it some time.
2007-10-16 07:38:37 · answer #4 · answered by Miss H 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you've been running back and forth between houses, and the"benefits" are already there, I'd say "more"is in place too.
Guys "just-looking-for-sex" don't usually introduce you to "mom" they usually try to hide you from her....
2007-10-16 07:43:23 · answer #5 · answered by Sophie B 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋