Family & Relationships - 16 October 2007

...how does a person discern the difference in a mate if he's is trying to control you or if he is really wanting to sit and discuss things? He ends up getting mad because we can't come to a solution immediately.

2007-10-16 12:20:09 · 2 answers · asked by Lara Croft 3 in Marriage & Divorce

If you really like a girl/ or woman do you feel open about expressing it or shy?

2007-10-16 12:19:30 · 5 answers · asked by Oceanbreeze 2 in Singles & Dating

I think she has some kind of mental illness if there is any for lying. I was trying to brush it off but this past spring she told 3 about me in a matter of weeks so I confronted her as nicely as you can. And needless to say she didn't take it well. She wasn't talking to me for a while. Now out of the blue I call her to tell her think you for a package that she sent the kids. And she said told another story and I am sick of it.

2007-10-16 12:18:47 · 2 answers · asked by Hello 4 in Family

i am soooo lost.i have a crazy boyfriend that calls me b**ches and ask all kind of crazy question like "what n**ga you been f**king?"the thing about it is that i am innocent.honenstly.but he dont believe me.i been wit him for probably 4 months now and i always wanted to break up with him earlier,because of the way he talk to me and i think he is messing around.one reason i think he is messin around is now he don't even have time to talk to me on phone.he tells me to stop callin.But i dont think i shouldn't stop callin because i think i am atleast 2 week pregnant by him(thats the only reason i want stop).but now that he know i am which he did it on purpose it seem like he dont wanna talk,dont want me callin.i'm confused.so if i am pregnant how could i stop calling when i am 2 weeks with his baby and how can i move on?(i'm scared that my baby would grow up without a daddy)babd enough i am only 17.something i REGRET.someone PLEASE give me some advice.

2007-10-16 12:13:19 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm getting married in a little over a month and i cant find a good song for our wedding dance. I'm into rock n' roll and metal and i realize that type of music isnt suitable for that dance. If anybody knows a nice romantic song for the dance, please let me know. Thank you.

2007-10-16 12:13:09 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

Well at school there is this guy who is a grade below me and he had moved a while back and he just moved back.Last year we did U.I.L together so we spent much time together so we became realy good friends.So now that he is back I went up to him to say hi and he seemed differnt in the way he talked to me.Now every time I try to talk to him I have this wierd feeling in my gut instead of like this relaxed friend kind of talk.And I only feel that way when I have a feeling the guy likes me!!!Please help!

2007-10-16 12:10:03 · 3 answers · asked by A writer waiting 2 in Singles & Dating

Hello, I am looking to plan a very expensive beautiful winter wedding (over 1 million dollars) and I was wondering if anybody had any tips??? Websites would be great!! Thanks so much and I will defiently be looking for that best answer!!!

2007-10-16 12:09:23 · 44 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

i been seeing this girl for a couple of months now, but two weeks ago I was kind of a jerk to her, I have tried to say sorry to her but she’s not hearing it, and I think she’s over reacting. Am supposed to see her on Friday but I really don’t know what to say besides that am sorry, which I really am. Any advice of what I can say so she can see that I really am sorry, but I don’t want to beg either I mean is not like I cheated on her or anything, feel me? Any tips will be great.

2007-10-16 12:08:27 · 16 answers · asked by Ed Q 2 in Singles & Dating

bascially one question, if a guy cheats on his girlfriend with his ex on more than one occaision what does this mean? is he over the ex? does he love the girlfriend?

2007-10-16 12:07:38 · 4 answers · asked by cindy d 1 in Singles & Dating

Me and my girlfriend is debating on whether or not he's good looking. On a scale or 1 to 10, how many points would you give him?

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2007-10-16 12:07:07 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I know a lot of men that are decent hard working that are divorced, and a lot of divorced women. Yet, men seem to never be able to find a women, and women say they can't find a man. Most of the women I know or have seen at work divorce perfectly good men, and then they slowly go down the tubes. Other women even encourage them to "get a divorce" and "take him for everything." Yet, a few years down the road, the guy is either re married or doing well financially, but she has spent all the money, the car she got in the marriage is breaking down 4 years later, and the shingles are falling off the house. It seems so self destructive. Why are women self destructive?

2007-10-16 12:04:25 · 17 answers · asked by ? 1 in Marriage & Divorce

This guy and i would talk alot. he would call me everyday after school, and we would be on the phone for like 3 hours just talking. he made me 2 cds, and told me he liked me. We would talk about his life at home, and how much his parents pissed him off, and he would tell me everything that was going on and when i was about to hang up he would get all sad. He called me baby all the time, and i would call him babe. Ok, so after the football game on friday, i hugged another guy and was hanging with other guys and my friend said he looked a little pissed off when he saw me hugging another guy. later that night i tolsd him i had to leave the game and he said goodbye and we were all sweet to each other and stuff, and then comes saturday and sunday and now this week and he wont talk to me other than to get my homework from him and to see if i would skip class, which he didnt think i could do. what is he doing to me. i dont no whats going on and its driving me crazy! HELP AND FAST PLEASE!

2007-10-16 12:03:15 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I went with my mom to buy my wedding dress at Davids Bridal. i ended up buy one of the first dresses i tryed on. i started seeing others that i really like at the same place but when i called to see if i could exchange it they said that everything was final sale. but this was never explained to me. Is there anything i can do?

2007-10-16 12:02:06 · 12 answers · asked by celicell 1 in Weddings

My sister is getting married in a few weeks. I'm the maid of honor but I'm also an extremely (and I mean EXTREMELY) broke college student with basically zero income. Whatever money that I DID save to give as a gift over the course of the year went towards last minute bridal shower expenses and gifts.

Would you be upset if your sister didn't get you a "gift" for your wedding? I've given hours of my time towards printing up menus, table numbers, cleaning picture frames, shopping for things, etc...but do you think she'll be hurt?

2007-10-16 12:02:02 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

Hey everybody!
I'll wedd in 4 days and I'm sooo nervous! My life this last couple of weeks has been extremly hard... I just wanted to know your expectations about wedding... or experience... anything that would calm me down a bit...please! :)

Thank you so much to all of you.
Mariana

2007-10-16 12:00:50 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

What does this mean??

2007-10-16 11:59:22 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i'm going to coffee with my ex boyfriend thursday morning. how can i make this go smoothly, i just want to go have fun with him. i still have feelings for him but i dont want to get into all that past stuff...any advice on how to make this go as smoothly as possible??? thank you so much and God bless.

2007-10-16 11:59:22 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

This guy I know asked me to go to the movies with him but I just dont like him in that way whats a good way to let him down and telll him I just want to remain friends?

2007-10-16 11:57:44 · 3 answers · asked by ♥♥TinaThat...ME♥♥ 3 in Singles & Dating

Two weeks ago I had sex with my boss who is 47. He took me out for a drive in his new car after work, we ended up getting dinner at a hotel, ect... He looks much better dressed in a suit than he does naked and it sort of grosses me out that I actually had sex with him. I had a crush on him but his stomach is kinda big and he's hairy and his skin is just "loose" in a way.

My problem is that now he keeps coming on to me and wanting to "see me" again. He thinks its ok to touch me or say inappropriate things to me at work when nobody is around. I'm not rude to him but I keep telling him no and that I'm busy this weekend.

Should I find another job? I'm not really attached to this job anyway so it wouldn't be a big deal to leave but I do like my job because it's close to my college and pretty easy. Plus, it's good fieldwork experience.

I know I shouldn't have gotten involved with him in the first place but what do I do now?

2007-10-16 11:57:15 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

okay so i really like this guy and he is always staring at me but i dont think he likes me the other day i turn around and he is standing there staring at my a-- so whats up does he liek me or my a--?

2007-10-16 11:56:05 · 8 answers · asked by lysssss 3 in Singles & Dating

there is this girl ilike, but she had a bad expierence with this guy, he broke up with her twice, told her he wsa cheating and everything, a week later he called her sayin he loves he and wants her back and wont cheat, he sent flowers and told her to call if he still had a chance, she did, then he went to her restaurant were she works with another girl, she broke down and left work. then he called her all kinds of dirty stuff over the phone like dirty c unt wh ore,etc.then he came back asking for another chance, she said its damaged, but he said let him fix it, she said ok. she said she shouldnt love someone like him, what does this meen? after saying she would let him fix things, he never calld back, what do you think will happen? the first time he broke up with her she said she would never talk to him again IF SHE COULD HELP IT. when she met him once she was all over him but wouldnt let him kiss her. and she would test him when he wanted to meet, he would get mad and cus at her.

2007-10-16 11:54:04 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend and I brokeup about 2 months ago, and haven't talked since. but we're still loving each other. Now I want to go back to him, but out of excuse.

I'm thinking to tell him that I'm pregnant according to the home pregnency test (of course I'm NOT). From there, I'm pretty confident that we'll be together again once we meet face-face.

My questions are:

-- Is he going to believe me? (b/c the last time we made love was at the end of my period. Theoretically I shouldn't become pregnant)

-- If he DOES believe me, How am I gonna finish the story? Tell him that it was false pregancy?

**Please do NOT convince me not to lie to him. This relationship had a long story, I can't explain everthing in detail here. This will be the only way would work.**

Thanks in Advance

2007-10-16 11:53:52 · 8 answers · asked by Winnie P 1 in Singles & Dating

I used to have a boyfriend but he was a drunk and verbally abuses me. But he's also really sweet and romantic and amazing. In my mind I'm always like, "I HATE YOU!" but then when I think about how uneasy his life really is, I always feel bad. He used to tell me he loves me. Now he left me and fell in love with someone else, and it used to make me cry so much. Help?

2007-10-16 11:52:07 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-10-16 11:50:19 · 15 answers · asked by B 1 in Singles & Dating

Ok, so my friend recently started dating this guy a few days ago, and the thing is that I really like, but she didn't (still doesn't) know about my feelings for him.

Well, today I was sitting with them at lunch and just hanging out, when all of a sudden he just looks up right into my eyes and just stares at them. Of course, I'm embarrassed, but I maintian eye-contact for about a heartbeat before he says, "You know, you have really pretty eyes." And, he just smiles and keeps looking into my eyes with his beautiful green/blue ones. I was so embarrassed, I looked down, but when I looked back at hime a second later, he was still smiling and looking at me.

I was overjoyed that he noticed me, but I feel horrible that my friend was sitting right there when he said it. But, I just really don't want to hurt her. This girl is one of my true friends, and I have very few of those these days. So, is this an example of hos before bros? It's just better to be friends right now, right?

2007-10-16 11:49:10 · 6 answers · asked by WolfEyes 1 in Singles & Dating

me and this guy started out awesome.. he would tell me how much he loved me and thought about me all day.. i liked him only kinda and he would just tell me how much he loved me .. this went on for about a week but then we hooked up and everything went down hill.. i started to really like him after this and he stopped telling me he loved me.. he still talks to me and says he likes me and loves me like yes & no.. tell me what to do so i can make him start loving me again! is there anything i can do? or am i pretty much screwed.. should i play hard to get? is he even worth it? should i tell him we shouldn't talk anymore and see if he tries to come back for me? HELP!!!

2007-10-16 11:47:45 · 5 answers · asked by smithsusan95 1 in Singles & Dating

does anyone know any good love songs? not somehting too old'en days..but something i can relate to...perferably...one about likeing someone who doesnt liek you back..and wanting someone you cant have or just a plain old good love song? im a sucker for em!! let me know!

2007-10-16 11:46:26 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Am I just stupid to keep caring? You know my computer at home is down so if I don't get to get back to this quickly enough just want to say I am sorry for it ahead of time.

I know, what does it matter to any one out there anyway, none of you know me in the first place, LOL LOL LOL

I hope that you all have a great life though. That's all, and take a chance to answer this for 2 points if you want to.

2007-10-16 11:42:53 · 6 answers · asked by Friend 6 in Singles & Dating

2007-10-16 11:42:43 · 12 answers · asked by nanna 5 in Friends

2007-10-16 11:41:58 · 42 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating