2007-10-16 11:41:58 · 42 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Does it matter? It doesn't matter to me who a person falls inlove with as long as she completes him.
2007-10-16 11:44:56 · answer #1 · answered by sheakmate 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The United States is a free county and in this situation, both are consenting adults so there is nothing wrong with it in this aspect. As far as if this would be a good idea, it depends on the people.
The woman could be a real ***** and take the man for all he has and since he has little experience he will fall for bad things. However, the lady could be very nice and this might not be the case at all. Furthermore, the guy might be very unmature and not wanting to settle down right now, while the woman might want to get married and have a family. Most 22 year old guys don't want to settle down and a lot of women approaching 30 do. However, I know plenty of mature guys in their early 20s who do want to settle down and a couple of 30 something year old women who act like they are 12. Like I said, it all depends on the people. There is nothing morally or legally wrong with it. There is no harm in trying it. If it sucks, there doesn't have to be a second date.
In the end it is only the business of the two people dating.
2007-10-16 11:50:37 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I would say, it shouldn't be a problem but, there might be. Now, if you are a virgin as well, then I would say yes, since really both of you are on the same page. BUT, is you are a experience woman then there may be a problem in dating a virgin. You know how it feels to have sex so you may feel like you are missing something in dating someone who has not experienced sex before, so you may create a problem for yourself. Now, if the sex thing won't be a problem with you(IF you are a sexual person), then I say go for, there's nothing wrong with dating and getting to know someone new. But, tread lightly.
Stay Strong.
Stay Positive.
2007-10-16 12:26:19 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure, why not? There's nothing wrong with a little Demi-Ashton action. I think it's a stupid double standard that men get to date younger women but its taboo for a woman to date a younger man. Break the barrier and go for it! You must like him if your willing to post this for our advice. So don't let anything hold you back!
Oh, and I don't think it matters that he's a virgin. To me, that's something he should be genuinely proud of, and you should be proud of him too. As long as you guys are on the same page and respect each other (like it should be in all relationships) then I don't see why dating him would cause any problems.
Good luck!
2007-10-16 11:46:29 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Anything is possible but be smart about it. Respect that he's a virgin. I dated a 21 year old at 29 and we aren't together anymore b/c the age gap was tooo much for him to handle. Just be smart about it!
2007-10-16 11:45:41 · answer #5 · answered by mrspres01 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The age part isn't what gets me, I'm 27 and have a much younger boyfriend. But mine wasn't a virgin, at least he said he wasn't. I think that's scarry territory. Maybe super casually but stear clear of sex unless after like a year of dating and messing around you fall in love together or something.
2007-10-16 11:45:44 · answer #6 · answered by MJ 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It's not a matter of virginity. It's a matter of if the two want to date. If it seems like they are compatible enough to enjoy dating each other then why not? =]
2007-10-16 11:44:29 · answer #7 · answered by A Curious Person 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Age is nothing but a number. As for being a virgin, it depends on if the person cares...
2007-10-16 11:44:29 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I guess you have to ask yourself "why is he still a virgin?". Certainly, there are justifiable reasons - geeks have trouble, ya know, but sometimes there is a reason he never gets to the second date. You'll never know until you date him.
On the downside, if things go bad, you'll be to blame because you were old enough to know better.
2007-10-16 11:46:02 · answer #9 · answered by CarbonDated 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Someone needs to...22 and still a virgin? Ouch!
2007-10-16 11:44:03 · answer #10 · answered by Dr. Steve 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well I did it back in 1984...... I am now 55 and he is 48 and we have 3 teenage boys and have had a happy little life.
2007-10-16 11:46:13 · answer #11 · answered by Lea 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋