Ok, so my friend recently started dating this guy a few days ago, and the thing is that I really like, but she didn't (still doesn't) know about my feelings for him.
Well, today I was sitting with them at lunch and just hanging out, when all of a sudden he just looks up right into my eyes and just stares at them. Of course, I'm embarrassed, but I maintian eye-contact for about a heartbeat before he says, "You know, you have really pretty eyes." And, he just smiles and keeps looking into my eyes with his beautiful green/blue ones. I was so embarrassed, I looked down, but when I looked back at hime a second later, he was still smiling and looking at me.
I was overjoyed that he noticed me, but I feel horrible that my friend was sitting right there when he said it. But, I just really don't want to hurt her. This girl is one of my true friends, and I have very few of those these days. So, is this an example of hos before bros? It's just better to be friends right now, right?
2007-10-16 11:49:10 · 6 answers · asked by WolfEyes 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Right. For now, you should just be friends. The guy is kind of an a** for doing that in front of his girlfriend though, even if it has only ben a couple of days.
2007-10-16 11:55:39 · answer #1 · answered by Doogin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I suspect your are confusing a compliment with love interest. Your feelings and desire for this guy is clouding your judgment and making you see any thing from him as a sign of interest.If his girlfriend is one of your true best friends, and you don't want to lose her by making a play for her man , then don't. Even if he makes a play for you ,as tempted as you might be, refuse to date him or be his girlfriend and or lover. Remember, there is a saying about treating people as you would like to be treated. Think if the shoe was on the other foot. There are other guys out in the world and you can find a good guy who is all yours and you do not have to risk losing a best friend over it. Think about it .
2007-10-16 12:16:52 · answer #2 · answered by abbeycoolit 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she is one of your real friends, then don't go there. Just chalk it up to bad timing. Friends are hard enough to find let alone keep. No man is worth losing a real friend over.
2007-10-16 11:55:26 · answer #3 · answered by Starlightjen 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
actually, u got it backwards. its "bro's before ho's". dont ruin it for your friend and let them be. if he seems to want to be with you more, tell your friend about it, and say that you are not interested in him in any way, or else shell think that your trying to ruin their relationship.
2007-10-16 11:59:35 · answer #4 · answered by Dmaista 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you don't wanna lose your friend over a guy .so keep ur feeling for urself
2007-10-16 11:55:42 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she really likes this guy and she's your true friend, deffinatley don't hurt her over a guy. not worth it.
2007-10-16 11:57:13 · answer #6 · answered by ___ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋