me and this guy started out awesome.. he would tell me how much he loved me and thought about me all day.. i liked him only kinda and he would just tell me how much he loved me .. this went on for about a week but then we hooked up and everything went down hill.. i started to really like him after this and he stopped telling me he loved me.. he still talks to me and says he likes me and loves me like yes & no.. tell me what to do so i can make him start loving me again! is there anything i can do? or am i pretty much screwed.. should i play hard to get? is he even worth it? should i tell him we shouldn't talk anymore and see if he tries to come back for me? HELP!!!
2007-10-16 11:47:45 · 5 answers · asked by smithsusan95 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
hooking up ruined it.... alot of guys like the "chase" it's exciting for them... if you just give it up like that then there's no excitement.... and saying i love you pshh anyone can say that without really meaning it or meaning it as in a friend way
2007-10-16 11:55:16 · answer #1 · answered by Tano A 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He was only telling you he loved you so you would hook up. Then he got what he wanted and was done with you. You can't make something be there that wasn't in the first place. Play a little harder to get than a week. Men lose respect for you when you put out so easily. Make them work for you, you are worth it.
2007-10-16 18:56:30 · answer #2 · answered by ckolemari1976 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are pretty much screwed. No one can Make anyone love them. It just doesn't work. If you know someone, that you just like, could they do anything to make you love them.
So all you can do, is be yourself and move on to someone else, and hope that they will love you.
He may have loved you, for what he thought you were, but on getting to know you better, you just didn't meet his expectations.Sadly that is life.
Happily, there are lots of people out there, so hopefully, you will find the love of your life.
2007-10-16 18:57:18 · answer #3 · answered by johnb693 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well first of all you can't make someone to love you,
but what you can do is to talk to him and tell him what you feel (even though it is hard) and express yourself about your feelings. Eventually he will tell you his feelings towards you.
2007-10-16 19:04:22 · answer #4 · answered by Yaira C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get lipo
2007-10-16 18:51:32 · answer #5 · answered by The Puerto Rican Prince 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋