My boyfriend and I brokeup about 2 months ago, and haven't talked since. but we're still loving each other. Now I want to go back to him, but out of excuse.
I'm thinking to tell him that I'm pregnant according to the home pregnency test (of course I'm NOT). From there, I'm pretty confident that we'll be together again once we meet face-face.
My questions are:
-- Is he going to believe me? (b/c the last time we made love was at the end of my period. Theoretically I shouldn't become pregnant)
-- If he DOES believe me, How am I gonna finish the story? Tell him that it was false pregancy?
**Please do NOT convince me not to lie to him. This relationship had a long story, I can't explain everthing in detail here. This will be the only way would work.**
Thanks in Advance
2007-10-16 11:53:52 · 8 answers · asked by Winnie P 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
"Please do NOT convince me not to lie to him." You obviously know this is wrong and anyone with a shred of decency will say exactly what you do not want to hear.
"This will be the only way would work." If you think this is going to work you're seriously in denial. No matter what kind of relationship you had or what happened between you two telling him your pregnant is NOT the answer! You say you love him? You not only prove that you do not care whatsoever for him but your immaturity as well.
You're concerned with the rest of the story but what about when he finds out, 'cause he will. Something will slip, he'll say something to your parents or a close friend, he'll figure it out and you will find yourself in a bigger mess. What will you tell him then, you have 6 months to live and being with him is your dying wish?
What you're planning to do is deceptive, conniving and selfish. Ever hear of the boy who cried wolf? Yeah, you know the end to that story.
2007-10-16 12:23:14 · answer #1 · answered by Ersabette 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is amazingly not likely that you may want to concieve at the same time as on your era. once you're on your era, your body is shedding the uterine lining that would have supported an embryo had you grow to be pregnant for the time of your very last cycle. because you probably did not grow to be pregnant, your body sheds the liner, and starts to construct a sparkling one after your era is over. about fourteen days after the first day of your era, you'll ovulate back. If that egg isn't fertilized, the liner is shed back, etc. obviously, each and every time you're having sex that is obtainable to grow to be pregnant; although, it isn't occurring your situation.
2016-10-21 06:57:29 · answer #2 · answered by buncie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What you're proposing you do is wrong on so many levels. Complicated or not there is no reason to tell a guy you're pregnant just to get him back, you can only pull that lie off for so long, then he'll realize you lied and kick you to the curb for good.
2007-10-16 12:00:13 · answer #3 · answered by Dan G 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If he dumped you after having sex with and you tell him you are pregnant, you will probably hear those 3 magic words from him.
No it wont be "I love you" or lets get married" it will be more like :
"It aint mine!"
"Cant be mine"
Wont be mine"
"It wont work".
If he DOES go back with you, it will be out of fear of paying child support.Once he finds out you lied you will have BIGGER problems he will hate you then and probably dump you for good pregnant or not.
Love is NOT enough to make a relationship work g/f.
You have to be compatible and the 2 of you are obviously not.Time to grow up, hurt heal and move on.Next time dont have sex otherwise you might really be pregnant AND dumped.
2007-10-16 12:03:57 · answer #4 · answered by Joe F 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
haha!! the people on hear crack me up I can't believe you would even think about doing that. I feel bad for your ex. Anyways, If you have to lie to someone to get them back than it's not a healthy relationship. Let it go hun, find someone who wants to be with you for you and not because you lied.
2007-10-17 07:09:39 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're such a *****! He won't ever forgive you if you lie about being pregnant. Good luck on your s****y relationship.
2007-10-16 11:58:51 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymity 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
ahh thats wrong! You're gonna make him have a heart attack! Dont lie to him because Karma is a.... well... u know!
2007-10-16 11:58:23 · answer #7 · answered by mZwHaTtHaTiZ! 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
you should tell him your story, and when he meets with you, I hope he punches you in your fat ugly face
2007-10-16 12:15:16 · answer #8 · answered by reaper 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋