i'm going to coffee with my ex boyfriend thursday morning. how can i make this go smoothly, i just want to go have fun with him. i still have feelings for him but i dont want to get into all that past stuff...any advice on how to make this go as smoothly as possible??? thank you so much and God bless.
2007-10-16 11:59:22 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
be yourself but dont motivate that may lead to a repeat performance of your past relationship. feelings are always there but its just a sort of for "old times sake". but beware its like a candle its just a matter of rekindling one touch, one word baam! remember he knows your weaknesses so good luck.
2007-10-16 12:13:37 · answer #1 · answered by anton 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Keep your expectations reasonable....stay in the range of "enjoying (and staying within) the moment" and connecting with the personality before you rather than thinking in terms of relationship potential or the ramifications of rekindling a romance. In the moment, it's easy to take in every subtle nuance that occurs to you and you'll be at ease... Thinking "relationship", this will wind up being about as awkward an outing as has ever been had. How things go will be largely dependent on your perspective and the way you govern your thoughts.
2007-10-16 12:19:27 · answer #2 · answered by Captain S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is it espresso...or "espresso...?" listed below are the rules in both case: a million) do not ask him who or if he's courting. 2) do not communicate too a lot about your self; be remember of truth on your solutions. 3) Be courteous and receptive to courtesy. 4) carry the attitude so that you may and could be dealt with with respect. 5) Be positive. look constructive, yet do not comb your hair 22 situations before he arrives. 6) Be on time, your self. 7) Ask questions about what he's been as a lot as, yet don't be too probing. 8) save issues gentle hearted. 9) Be truthful and confirm your eyes smile. 10) do not provide any concepts about your self till he asks, then be short yet polite on your solutions. (key's each and everything.) 11) do not placed out. do not placed OUT.
2016-10-21 06:57:49 · answer #3 · answered by buncie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. Why are you going out with your ex?
2. What do you mean by 'fun'?
If you're looking to be "just friends" with your ex, it IS possible, but not if you JUST broke up. You need a couple of months, at least. But for God's sake, don't SLEEP with him!!
2007-10-16 12:05:32 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your just meeting up with him because you miss him? Because your friends? Because you want to get back together?? I wish I knew what to tell you. I think that if you guys. You know what I think that no matter how smooth you want it to go it is going to be nervewrecking, but just decide what your true motive is. I know that I have a month before I see my ex and I can tell you that I do want to get back with him. Did you want to start over???
2007-10-16 12:04:51 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't go. If he is your ex, then let that be what it is and find a girlfriend to go to coffee with. Last resort is take a girlfriend with you and him, he will ge the hint. If you go on your own, it will heat up.
2007-10-16 12:18:43 · answer #6 · answered by niceguybig_heart 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be as rigid as you can,,,, dont be swayed by emotions
2007-10-16 12:02:19 · answer #7 · answered by signsden 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋