is she fd up in the head? low self esteem?

Question

there is this girl ilike, but she had a bad expierence with this guy, he broke up with her twice, told her he wsa cheating and everything, a week later he called her sayin he loves he and wants her back and wont cheat, he sent flowers and told her to call if he still had a chance, she did, then he went to her restaurant were she works with another girl, she broke down and left work. then he called her all kinds of dirty stuff over the phone like dirty c unt wh ore,etc.then he came back asking for another chance, she said its damaged, but he said let him fix it, she said ok. she said she shouldnt love someone like him, what does this meen? after saying she would let him fix things, he never calld back, what do you think will happen? the first time he broke up with her she said she would never talk to him again IF SHE COULD HELP IT. when she met him once she was all over him but wouldnt let him kiss her. and she would test him when he wanted to meet, he would get mad and cus at her.

Answer 1

i think she's desperate for someone and will go through every circumstance to make things work. she has VERY low self esteem if she lets him say those things and gives him multiple chances. tell her that he's not worth it and she shouldn't be treated that way.

Answer 2

She is immature.
She is the kind of girl who will get in an abusive relationship stick with it and when it ends get in another, and another and another......
She needs to realize there ARE decent good looking men and she can have one instead of trying to "fix" a hot stud who is trash.
She is attracted to him and he is slowly shattering her fantasy image of him, but when he apologizes she thinks there is "hope for him".
All you can do is let her learn the hard way.

Answer 3

what the heck.........