ok so this is my crush. he has a gf, but he is so confusing. i wrote him a note a couple of months ago saying im sorry for all the notes i wrote you i hope ur happy i wont bother you again have a great life.....but now he keeps looking at me and watching me and its really weird im trying to get over him but i dont know if he may like me and he and his gf are pretty steady and all and i just want to know what is going on . if you need more info just say it and i will try to give you more
2007-10-16 09:29:11 · 33 answers · asked by angelgal5382 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
heres more. my friends are all in it. his mom used to give me and him a ride to the church group that we went to. we went on the trampoline alot, and wrestled. we talked alot by ourselves. that is one of the really good memories i have. sorry, didnt mean to get all gushy on yall. i appreciate your help, all yalls. at one time, we practically kissed, his cheek was pressed against mine. hope that helps!!
2007-10-16 10:17:59 · update #1
Leave him alone. Ignore his stares. It sounds like he likes that you like him and wants your attention, but trust me, if he wanted to break up with his girlfriend, he would have by now.
There are too many other great guys out there for you to waste your time chasing this one. Get out there and meet some new boys!
2007-10-16 09:33:13 · answer #1 · answered by dsedarisfan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, he enjoyed knowing that you were there for him whenever he might decide to let his gf go. Now you have let him off the hook and he is rethinking the fact that you could even do such a thing. Really don't some people just get too full and too into themselves? You need to back off and stay there. He may just come to you and then go back to her....it is not always the best thing to give the person you are attracted to the option of having you back...they may do it just to build up their self esteem and to prove that he can get you back. Stay away and if he really does want you let him break up with her...be single for a while first and then make him work for it. Life is hard enough without games and that is most likely what this is. People always want what they can't have and they are really full of themselves when they have one and another one on the side just in case...don't allow it. Forward!
2007-10-16 09:36:47 · answer #2 · answered by MISS-MARY 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my first question would be to ask how old you are.
But if this guy has a steady and you know it. If you've sent all those notes and he didn't show any interest except looking at you..... He is already involved. He is a man and yes they still look. You need to go on with your life and find someone that will be interested in you. I'm sure you're an attractive girl and so looking isn't a message. Actually you can read many things into someone looking at you. Think about it the kid who did something against his mother's wishes then sees his mother and thinks she's looking at him "like she knows" You see a guy you've liked and he sees you and your self conscious tells you what you subconsciously want to think. Please don't do this to yourself.
2007-10-16 09:40:23 · answer #3 · answered by Bubbles 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe what is happening is all going on is just happening in your mind and because you obviously like this guy, you are sensitive to everything he does, to the point of being oversensitive and that is why what you see as interest, may just be normal to anyone else. You haven't said whether or not other people observe what you do, whether he's answered or written of his own accord. He may also just be freaked out; after (how long were you persuing him?) you just quit and he may be expecting retaliation of some form because he ignored you. Who knows what he may be thinking when you see what goes on in teen horror movies these days? Which is why you need to actually converse with him, communication can be the only solution but everyone avoids it because "they're scared". Yet, when you avoid communication, the only place you end up looking for answers is in your mind which can be much scarier and at times even unsafe, speculative, malignant, and vulnerable. Communicate!
2007-10-16 10:00:07 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seriously, if they're steady, think of the 3 of you, not just you and him. Leave them to enjoy their relationship. If he's meant for you, then I'm sure it would be worth the wait.
As far as him looking at you, maybe it's an overreaction. Even if it's not, he'll get used to the situation or come over to your side without you needing to find out what's up. Just be yourself, don't try to go for him, don't try to not go for him. Just be a friend to the people you hang with. (who knows, his current gf could be your best buddy in 10 years time,... wouldn't it be a shame to spoil it by breaking them up now?)
2007-10-16 09:41:51 · answer #5 · answered by wolfling 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is a guy and loves attention from as many women as he can get. When you stopped giving him attention it made him act as the aggressor. If he has a girlfriend and they seem serious then out of respect you might wait until he becomes available. Also if you are going after some other girls bf it might give off the wrong impression about you.
2007-10-16 09:40:53 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
All that man want is his gf and you on the side. If he does has a gf and looking at you and if he gets with you what make you think he won't do you the same way? I would just leave him alone, if he looks let him look and find someone.
2007-10-16 09:34:59 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know what type of guy he is but I think maybe he feels bad that he hurt your feelings after you wrote him all those letters, some guys have hearts lol. If he were freaked out he wouldn't be constantly staring at you, he'd avoid you. I think that your best shot would be to play hard to get.
2007-10-16 09:39:17 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He must feel bad about having a gf when he knows that you like him. Only time will tell if you guys will be together, but I think he has a crush on you.
2007-10-16 09:33:03 · answer #9 · answered by ~Fearless~ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He secretly wants to use you as his toy because his gf probably won't give him any and he knows that you are weak for him...........if I were you I would make sure that I am always confident in myself when around him........and let him know that you are talking to other guys........don't let him think that he has a spell on you.......
If he truely finds himself liking you he will break up with his gf and ask you out...until then........he can kick rocks
2007-10-16 09:35:10 · answer #10 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋