i am a teenager and i have had sex....i am only 13 and our condom broke!.....i just went to the doctors and i found out i am pregnant! i am sooooo happy! is this good or bad? my mom already knows and she is wonderfully happy! i feel like having sex again but i dont know if i am doing it wrong or not! please help me! and no RUDE comments about my age!!!!
2007-10-16 09:24:16 · 26 answers · asked by m&m 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
sorry to hear that your life has ended before it even began. good luck in trying to take care of your baby....
2007-10-16 09:27:32 · answer #1 · answered by Heather Honey 4 · 4⤊ 3⤋
Im 16 nad still a virgin. I just want to give you some advice, Im not judging you okay? So 13 is a really young age to be in a relationship let alone having sex. Sometimes it's best to wait. There are a lot of risks to it and one happened to you. Teenage pregnancy is a big deal. There are a lot of risks involved. Your body is still growing and youre body isnt exactly ready for this. Being excited isnt the greatest but its better than hating it. Will you keep the baby? Make sure that you get lots of help from your doctor so you can make sure everything will be as good as it can be okay?
2007-10-16 16:30:02 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Ditto to Jami's comment... I believe in no sex till marriage too, but again, that's just me. 13 is young, but if it's happened, and you're happy about it, then good. remeber that your life isnt over, and that a new life has begun. Remeber, it takes more than just a mum and a dad to raise a child; have a good support network of friends and other mums, and don't be afraid to ask them for help or advice.
My suggestion about sex is to wait until you've married someone, or if you're not intending to stick to that, then at least give yourself a year or two with the newborn... (yes, 2 years without sex can be done.)
Rmember, no sex is really 100% safe, so if you start a month after you give birth, you may well end up with another kid in another year's time.
2007-10-16 16:37:12 · answer #3 · answered by wolfling 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
little whore! how are you going to raise this baby? Your mother is going to raise this kid. you are too young. You dont have a job. I bet the father is giong to leave. Your best bet is to have an abortion before your kid comes out messed up like you! what type of mother do you have? she must be a s*ut and an unfit mother. what mother in there right state of mind would be happy that thier 13 year old daughter is pregnant? did you tell the boy you are pregnant? are you sure its his? and are you freaking serious your worried about having sex again? go get checked for std's you dirty dirty little girl! Shame on you and your s*ut of a mother!!!!!!!!
My tax dollars are going to pay for your dam bastard child. Your probably a bastard yourslef so I cant really blame you. I have to blame your s*ut mother! I dont mean to be harsh but you asked and this is a cold cold world!!!
Have an abortion and stay in shool. You want ot have sex? peasure yourself! get a vibrator! your 13 and shouldnt be thinking of this!!! gosh If you were my daughter id kick your a*s and make you have an abortion!!!!
2007-10-16 22:14:07 · answer #4 · answered by Tommy L 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hmm first and formost dont worry bout what others think of you and how old you are! If your mom is happy then thats all you need. You want to have sex, well talk to you doctor or talk to your mom! Any how Congrats on the baby.. I just hope that you know what you are getting yourself into. I am not going to critize about you being a baby having a baby because I know a girl who had a baby at thirteen and her daughter turned out perfectly fine! (my mom had me at 13) any how, obviously if you got pregnant, then you are doing it right!
But right now you should be more woried about the baby and how you are going to rase the baby than worrying about having sex! remember this is your baby no matter what. How does your boyfriend feel about you having a baby? good luck and keep us updated!!!
Its not bad to feel bad that your pregnant! Youre young, but maybe God send you this baby for a reason! You its perfectly normal to feel happy one mintue that your pregnant, and sad the next. Now that you are pregnant you are going to have alot of mixed emotions! Dont let any one get ot you because alot of people will talk about your age and how young you are! I say F*CK them all!!! good luck honey and keep your head up!
2007-10-16 16:31:45 · answer #5 · answered by Sara J 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
If it's what you really want then go ahead and be happy. No harm in that! Tell the father of the baby and ask him to help. Maybe he can get a job to support you until you can get a job of your own. Just don't let people get you down because if you're happy what they say doesn't matter.
2007-10-16 16:33:05 · answer #6 · answered by Becca Fawn 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
um, wow, congrats, this is different even though you are 13 and your mom and you are both happy about having it is big surprise., but when you say you dint know if your doing it wrong, what do u mean. if your pregnant your going to crave for sex,, but be careful because u can harm the child, and if u mean if your having sex right, or doing it the right way, ask yourself this question, what is the right way, there is no right way on having sex, and if you just want to pick up some new techniques, I hate to say it , but watch a porno, or look it up on the web, the biggest information place ever
2007-10-16 16:32:06 · answer #7 · answered by b_hoody1 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
you dont know what your letting yourself in for its not like a baby annabell that you can switch off i had a baby at 18 im now 27 with two kids (by the same man) and wished i waited cos i missed out on what all my friends were doing like going out etc and as for your mum well she should be ashamed in supporting this kind of things well its to late now but when your 19- 20 you will know what you have missed
2007-10-16 16:37:00 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
an interesting turn of events on your part. should you plan to keep the baby then may i congratulate you. are you doing it wrong? i have to say that its quite uncommon to hear a girl asking this. most guys struggle with this problem and the answer should work for girls too: it you feel good and your patner feels good then it must be good...just hope that hes going to be brave and responsible during "crunch time"
and forgive me for being intrusive, but thirteen is only just too young but not unheared of.
just chill...go with the flow.
Red terror and the darker feline
2007-10-16 16:37:17 · answer #9 · answered by R-T. 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
first of all, I find it surprising that you and your mom are happy about your pregnancy. you don't see that often. i'm glad that you are being positive about it. it looks like you'll have plenty of support. it seems you and your mom have a good relationship. you probably would get some pretty good advise from your mom. i'm not sure what you think you are doing wrong, but either your doctor or your mom could probably answer your questions. good luck.
2007-10-16 16:31:40 · answer #10 · answered by Jessica R 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Are going to have sex with another guy? Well if it is that is bad...
Well good luck I hope that you will stay happy with it.....
Oh by the way don't ever abort the baby
2007-10-16 16:30:27 · answer #11 · answered by raquepz 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋