Theres this girl I like in math class and I had feelings for her for over 2 weeks now. Today I planned to introduce myself in class. Usually I sit one seat away form her. Just today I sat directly next to the seat where she usually sits. When she entered the classroom she saw me there, starred at me and went to the back... Now I think I'm a creepy person who didn't do anything wrong. I never offended her or talked to her. I planned on it today but she just had to avoid me for some mysterious reason. I think I'm just gonna give up on her now... What could be the reason why she avoided me? Thanks for reading.
2007-10-16 10:54:38 · 24 answers · asked by Closed 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ok what i learned in my sociology class is that this guy did a study on proxemics...and that one seat you left was prob comfortable for her...but sitting next to her or planning to sit next to her def makes her and usually anyone else uncomfortable so if they can avoid it they will...so its not you...i think your best bet is to introduce yourself before or after class... bump into her and introduce yourself...or if you can go a little bit later and leave that seat between you...it's always cool if you can talk a little in class to spark something but dont be overly out there like you are trying to hit on her...might make her uncomfortable
2007-10-16 10:59:49 · answer #1 · answered by Tina 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Check out the sitting around her. Does she have a girlfriend that she talks to a lot? Is there anything at all that you may have done that she noticed about you but you didn't realize anything about it? In order to understand women,you have to be a good listener and learn to pay close attention to all of them,no matter what. Women are still just girls. Also realize that sometimes the girls that we tend to like may not like us,or find us interesting. Keep yourself polished though and be ready for an even better girl.
2007-10-16 18:03:17 · answer #2 · answered by thepharaoh 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps she noticed that u dig her. Do u know anything about her? Maybe she is already involved with someone, or not interested in a relationship right now. Try approaching her in another way, maybe in the hallway. Or get 2 know some of her friends 2 find out what she is into before just skipping right into asking her out. Everyone is different but give it a try. good luck!
2007-10-16 18:01:07 · answer #3 · answered by nievity 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, the only thing that I can think of, is she probably gets hit on alot!! And maybe she is thinking ....not again. Maybe she doesn't want a relationship because she has been hurt too may times. Just give her her space. Maybe when you pass her by in the hall or @ lunch you could just say, hey. Don't give her too mach attention. She just might warm up to you, once she realizes your not a threat. Good luck ! :)
2007-10-16 17:59:59 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well.... You should have sat in your regular seat and introduced yourself from there. YOu invaded her comfort zone. Maybe too foward. I hate it when ppl sit too close to me. Maybe she thought that you did not want anyone to sit next to you. Or better yet she had no idea your intentions and just though you were creepy.
2007-10-16 17:59:55 · answer #5 · answered by Hypatia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At your age this approach doesn't work. You have to be uninterested.
The more you appear to NOT be into her, the more chance you have. Just try and look troubled and mysterious around her, and maybe hint at a rough past that you dont like to talk about. Might get her curious.
2007-10-16 17:59:14 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Awww thats a good question. Well maybe she wanted a change, she doesnt even know that you like her so how could she have sat next to you maybe she sat with a friend. I dont think she avoided you because she doesnt even know you.
2007-10-16 17:58:07 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She may actually have a crush on you and been embarrassed, or, no matter how much it seemed like she looked right at you, she may not have. I still think you should introduce yourself. It can't hurt! And this way, as you get to know her, you will realize if she truly is worthy.
Good luck!
2007-10-16 17:58:06 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You probably did nothing wrong. Maybe she was just having a bad day and did not want to sit next to anyone. Who knows? I would not take it personal.
2007-10-16 17:58:35 · answer #9 · answered by Pugmama 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends on how she looked at you, maybe she likes you but is shy?
maybe she doesnt like you either. hard to tell.
I think the best thing is try to make a joke of it and it will give you a reason to break the ice with her.
2007-10-16 18:00:03 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋