I met a guy who´s married a while ago, and he sends me messages with pictures of him, but not with his family. I reply to him amicably but always letting him know that I´m aware that he is married and not pretending anything more I even told him to send me pictures of him and family. What should I do."He sends them as a friend that´s what he said"
2007-10-16 10:16:19 · 12 answers · asked by LA 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'd be protective to my family online too. it's a good step toward a friendship if he sent you his pictures, assuming that you two are not chatting anything that is more than just friends. If you do, both are guilty.
I disagree with those answers about not being friends with married people. It is just shallow. There is no such thing as "too many friends". You can have friends that are married, so long as you don't cross the line of destroying someone's marriage. If you lead him on, then it is your fault. If you don't lead him on, and he is being unfaithful to his wife, it is his problem.
I have many friends who are married, they still send me pictures. They didn't send me the pictures of their families at the beginning. When someone just know you, they have to be a bit protective. Once you get to know him more, you can request to have lunch with his family if he feels comfortable about it. Then see how it goes. You could also be friends with his wife too.
2007-10-16 10:19:56 · answer #1 · answered by Carborane 6 · 0⤊ 3⤋
If he is married why do you continue to talk to this guy. Does his wife know that you are friends? Are you also friends with his family? If you are not friends with his family why would you want pictures of them? I would take a break from talking to him, because it sounds like the relationship the two of you have is just going to cause problems with him and his wife, not to mention his children
2007-10-16 17:20:28 · answer #2 · answered by Cristy 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Ok does his wife know you? If she doesn't then you shouldn't be talking to him at all. And if she does then maybe you should be up front and honest with her and ask her why her man is sending you pics of him. If you truely don't want to break up this marraige then as long as you are not playing any games with him, he will get the point and back off, I just think there is more to this story than being told!!
2007-10-16 17:21:17 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Drop him from your contact list. This guy either has a family that he feels is not so good looking or he is out to have you as a "thing" on the side...I'd think the latter.
2007-10-16 17:19:48 · answer #4 · answered by *I'm the Best...I Deed It!* 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
He wants you to see him as an individual not like a man who's already married, so my advice is, stop the friendship or you'll get into trouble.
2007-10-16 17:19:09 · answer #5 · answered by miki360 3 · 3⤊ 1⤋
I would be suspicious of this and - unless there is some innocent reason why you would want to continue to communicate with this guy, I would cool it. Sounds like trouble.
2007-10-16 17:19:12 · answer #6 · answered by dhdaddy2003 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Why are you leading him on? He shouldn't be sending you any pictures and you shouldn't ask. He's m a r r i e d!
2007-10-16 17:20:08 · answer #7 · answered by peaches6 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
He's playing with you. Tell him he needs to stop because that is not what a friend does. Good Luck
2007-10-16 17:19:37 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
He's a sleaze bag. You should have never responded in the first place as he is obviously interpreting it as interest. Start ignoring him.
2007-10-16 17:19:41 · answer #9 · answered by ♥ тнє σяιgιиαℓ gιяℓfяι∂αу ♥ 7 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Are the pictures of private parts? If so he is a pig... Maybe he is just vain......
2007-10-16 17:20:44 · answer #10 · answered by mstlight 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋