2007-10-16 12:21:47 · 17 answers · asked by Patricia 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I mean cool as in ok/exceptable to you,not as in "cool" funky lol
2007-10-16 12:33:30 · update #1
I don't think that any number of men makes a girl cool!
By the time she is 30, I would be comfortable with 3-4.
If she has more, that doesn't speak badly of her character but I would have to eventually draw the line.
2007-10-16 12:26:25 · answer #1 · answered by Matt 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What should matter most is your self worth, if you need to ask this question, perhaps it's because the amount you have slept with is weighing on your conscience, and maybe you should be a bit more selective, or then again maybe it's a matter of a certain guy's approval.
None the less, it's about what you yourself, and how you will feel, you can't take a step back in time, or be more cautious should you make a mistake in judgement or even worse, find yourself with an std or pregnant if you don't choose to be.
If going into a relationship, the amount you have slept with should not matter to the current guy, a real man will let the past be just that, but it must be for you as well if nobody is to be hurt. Honestly, any man will feel most comfortable with a lower number as would you, hitting double digits or more isn't so appealing when most judge a book by it's cover.
2007-10-16 12:30:36 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. Unless she slept with my friends first. When it's right it's right. Guys are understanding for a week or two of dating, we feel taken advantage of if it takes much longer than that especially if we've been paying for stuff. On the other hand the stronger emotionally the guy is the less time he'll wait, unless it's escalating date by date. Some guys will hang on for years for you to realize how cool he is without any escalation.
2016-04-09 08:52:44 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
40 or 50
2007-10-16 12:24:37 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
about 2 or 3 and if not those then just 1
2007-10-16 12:24:37 · answer #5 · answered by Brooxy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends completely on the situation.
is this a fling... or a long term relationship?
if your a church girl... one... if not 3 to 4. experience is not a bad thing.
The best thing to be is honest. trust and communication are the two most important parts of a lasting relationship.
2007-10-16 12:24:14 · answer #6 · answered by Anomoly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
never tell how many!! If they ask, lie and keep it 3 or less! the only guy you will turn on who knows the truth...if its a lot...will be one who thinks you are a sure thing.
and in a relationship your guy may always be suspicious if he knows you have been with a bunch of guys.
And don't ask him either, goes both ways.
2007-10-16 12:31:12 · answer #7 · answered by ✿❃❀❁✾ Stef ♐ ✿❃❀❁✾ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Numbers to me aren't really that big a deal. I do like a girl who has experiance though because I want to be with a girl who knows what she wants and how she likes it. I also like a girl who is not afraid to have fun and experiment some sexually.
2007-10-16 12:24:27 · answer #8 · answered by beachnerjl2 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you wish to marry someday, the answer is none. If you wish to sleep around, good luck finding a meaningful relationship.
2007-10-16 12:39:11 · answer #9 · answered by Thomas E 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Generally it's "Don't ask - don't tell" situation but...
0 - OMG!
1 - lol, uh-huh, I believe you, yeah
2-5 ok... cool!
6-10 makes ME feel like a catholic schoolgirl
11+ when did you do your last STD check? Could you do it again, please?
2007-10-16 12:35:07 · answer #10 · answered by Aleks 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋