My sister and i got in a really nasty arguement today. She blocked the door so i couldnt go to my room so i pushed her out of the way and she punched me twice in the face. What should i do?? file a report? restraining order? i dont feel safe living with her anymore...HELP!!!!
2007-10-16 13:41:09 · 16 answers · asked by Ray 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
My sister and i got in a really nasty arguement today. She blocked the door so i couldnt go to my room so i pushed her out of the way and she punched me twice in the face. What should i do?? file a report? restraining order? i dont feel safe living with her anymore...HELP!!!!
(I AM 23 SHE IS 26)
2007-10-16 13:49:15 · update #1
My sister and i got in a really nasty arguement today. She blocked the door so i couldnt go to my room so i pushed her out of the way and she punched me twice in the face. What should i do?? file a report? restraining order? i dont feel safe living with her anymore...HELP!!!!
IM 23 SHE IS 26
2007-10-16 13:50:46 · update #2
How old are you? Are you old enough to move out? If you are of age to move out, then go and get your own private place. If not, and you are living with Mom and Dad then there is not much you can do. You can though advice your parents what has been going on between you and your sister. Tell them what you told here, that your sister blocked your door and you could not enter, that you pushed her out of the way and she punched you twice in the face. You parents will have some solution for the two of you, once they find what this nasty argument was all about.
If you and you sister argue a lot, maybe it is time for both of you to grow up and try to live in a peaceful environment, after all if you are going to be living in the same house you might as well live as a family should.. in peace and harmony.
About the restraining order and filing a report, I don't think so. You are family after all, try to work it out .. call on your parents for help...
Good Luck.
2007-10-16 13:59:28 · answer #1 · answered by Mari-Mari 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I played with someone like that recently, he's a guy in his 50's who kept shouting abuse at his team mates whenever they made a mistake and pushed my friend in the back of the head because he went around him with the ball. After a huge stand off between the two, I said I didn't want to play with people like that and went home (everyone then stopped playing and left too). FQ: I think with these kind of people you need to let them know that you're not meant to take football so seriously and that it's not acceptable to act like that. I'd be surprised if the parents of the other sons didn't stop them playing for this manager and found them another team, thus showing the manager that his 'methods' have meant no one wants to play for him (a vital part of being a good manager). I think he needs understand that the likes of Kevin Keegan and Jose Mourinho are successful partly because they have great bonds with their players. Of course he could look closer to home and see why the player wanted to play for the manager of the Chadderton team rather than him.
2016-05-23 01:19:13 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to your parents, (if your living with them). Tell them what's going on and ask for help from them. Physical violence from siblings is unacceptable, you need to feel like you can be safe and secure. Especially in your own household, come on! However, if your just living with your sister, then I would get out for a while. Don't get legal yet, just try to see if distance between you two for a while will help simmer down the tension. But if you return and it goes back to what it was or worse, then by all means, take legal action. Abuse can come in many ways and your sister's showing huge abusive potential.
2007-10-16 13:51:55 · answer #3 · answered by fobabe032 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what on earth were you fighting about? I'd suggest sitting down and having a good talk, perhaps with a trusted friend present, and try to work through some obvious issues that you're having. Perhaps its better if you do live apart, as familiarity breeds contempt..... you could write down your feelings, and ask her to write down hers. I don't think filing reports and restraining orders are going to help your relationship too much....
2007-10-16 14:06:15 · answer #4 · answered by bahl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what's wrong with everyone? a fight and a couple of slaps and they want you to run to the police. first, change your living conditions. if not, lay down some rules of behaviour - if she hits you then she will be hurt too, maybe she wants you to retaliate so SHE can call the police - people are really devious sometimes. if you are living in the family home, sell it thru legal means, if you have parents around, don't terrorise them with your fights, both of you get out. i think your hatred has deep roots. it is bad for your health, be an adult about it.
2007-10-16 14:15:26 · answer #5 · answered by zaikai61 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
File a report and make a restraining order.
2007-10-16 13:46:17 · answer #6 · answered by Cool Dogg Ringer 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Tell your parents if youre under 18 then call the police.Or wait until shes asleep and jump on her and beat the holy hell out of her so she knows not to mess with you again
2007-10-16 13:48:40 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
punch her back she deservies it but viloince isent alwas the bright idea then tell her to nocket off or i will punch you
2007-10-16 14:45:58 · answer #8 · answered by lexi m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should call the cops, especially if this isn't the first time that this has happened.
2007-10-16 14:45:32 · answer #9 · answered by Ms. GTO 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LOL nice.. file a report! i wish i could do that on my bro but i lov him
2007-10-16 13:48:18 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋