When start be a friend we very closed, happy, no secret and can trust each other. After a few month, they went out secretly, and talked secretly. When they need help, they will very good to me, talked to me and invite me for lunch. Just because of they need my help to get job for them. When they know the management is not approve, they start not invite me anymore and didnt call me. They direct call the management to get the job. They realy make me like a fool and feel hurt. I know its a small matter and dont think too much.Just be happy.
It is friendship always like that? cannot be forever?
2007-10-16 13:37:24 · 9 answers · asked by Lysa 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Friends aren't friends until you know them well.
Don't worry about what happened. The best advice is not to talk to that person if he/she hurt you.
A true friend will have these qualities in life:
1. They will never be selfish or rude about anything.
2. They will always call you and ask you to come with them somewhere for coffee, a movie, or a trip.
3. They will ask you about your well-being by just making a phone call - twice or thrice a week.
4. They will offer you to join them in their interests or hobbies - like playing tennis, let's go swimming, or shopping for her family's birthday.
You will only know when a true friend is really a friend if you spend time with him/her, assess her habits, behaviour and inner heart.
When you realize she's really nice and kind to you and that you like what you see in her, then she's really your friend.
Hope this helps :)
2007-10-16 13:58:21 · answer #1 · answered by Coconut Guy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. Eventually you both will die. That said, there ARE friendships that last a lifetime. I've been friends with some people for almost 20 years, and we're still going strong. I've had other friendships that didn't last a month. Sometimes friendships last. Sometimes they do not. It just depends. I wouldn't worry about it too much. These things happen.
2007-10-16 13:41:29 · answer #2 · answered by Mr. Taco 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think that friendships last forever. (At least some don't) REcently one of my friends started hanging out with other people because they were the popular kids. U know, people can change alot. I think that u should make new friends. maybe ignore your mean friends. They'll realize that they've done something wrong and they'll feel guilty. Good Luck!
2007-10-16 14:11:01 · answer #3 · answered by i luv pugs so much!!! what now?? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it form of feels i've got reported this numerous situations right here, however the ideal element to do is communicate issues by using (with out having mad). when I broke up with one in each of my ex's, there have been continuously small, beside the point issues that aggravated me approximately him and that i'd overreact and finally end up getting indignant at him - afterwards i'd comprehend i become in basic terms being stupid. i comprehend it rather is not any longer ordinary, yet attempt to no longer get upset over issues like him "hooking up" with yet another lady and such. i do no longer understand despite the fact that if that's the way you, for my area, sense, yet while it is composed of my ex's - even while it rather is those i've got broken up with - if I hear approximately them getting with yet another lady, i'm getting slightly aggravated no longer because of the fact i do no longer want them to be happy, yet because of the fact i'm getting... slightly jealous, i think. With my final ex, i finished issues and approximately 3/4 months as quickly as we broke up, he become courting this different lady. I additionally semi-dated this different guy and he would make snide comments like, "moved on already, have you ever?" so I comprehend the "nasty text textile" you will have sent, yet interior the long-term it does not help. in case you the two fairly have the want to make your friendship artwork, then I doubt you have lost him "continuously". consistent with probability he won't communicate to you for a mutually as or despite the fact that, however the very shown fact which you have been considerate sufficient to deliver him an digital mail apologizing shows which you're taking the friendship heavily. If he can't be troubled to comprehend that or respond, then it rather is his undesirable success because of the fact he will have lost a powerful buddy. :]
2016-12-29 14:03:19 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't sound like they were friends. They were using you. A true friendship isn't like that. So go out and find some real friends that like you for you and not what you can help them get.
2007-10-16 13:43:15 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, their is special people that you can trust
but only a few of them will appear in your life
but there is always people that are going to use you to get what they want
KARMA
My bff and i are inseparable!
2007-10-16 13:46:18 · answer #6 · answered by ♥Twilighter♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You cant consider them as friends, since that they were just using you for their own good.. there's a lot of people outhere who can be your real friends, wont use you!!
2007-10-16 14:16:22 · answer #7 · answered by Helpmyheart 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They used you. I would be angry too. I wouldn't be friends with them.
2007-10-16 13:40:55 · answer #8 · answered by .Heather. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
friend always like that.i too.it can be forever.
2007-10-18 01:21:24 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋