He looks at other young women alot., he is enthralled by them and when he gets to know a girl, he is enthralled by her personality. He just loves women too much. HELP !
2007-10-16 13:44:09 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
it seems that you may need to tell him how you are feeling and that how you feel disrespected when this is done in your presence and it is unacceptable - however, you can best believe he will do this behind your back - just tell him you would appreciate it if he do not make such comments in front of you - good luck
2007-10-16 13:52:24 · answer #1 · answered by lynnette 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I guarantee if you give him daily blowjobs and daily anal sex, he will not have the energy to look at them. You need to be the best he has ever had in every way, because males are hardwired to find the best, and create offspring with them.
You can take that issue up with the creator, your man isn't doing this to spite you.
I can guarantee you are not in tune with what he needs, and he is probably not in tune with what you need...
When you see a pretty flower, do you try to deny it? Why don't you stop to smell a weed? What makes a weed a weed? What makes it bad? Do you stop to look and possibly smell it? Or do you only stop for the pretty ones? Is it possible for a dog to walk right by a juicy steak? Is it possible for a woman to walk past a Manolo Blahnik 90% off shoe display sale?
Does he give you what you need? Maybe you 2 need to have a discussion of what those things are to you individually...
Most importantly, let him be a man, it is a beautiful and natural thing. Unfortunately, so is being jealous, controlling, and having a catty attitude as a female.
Good Luck.
2007-10-16 14:11:34 · answer #2 · answered by M. F. 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To be loved, be lovable. - Ovid
If he enjoys looking at women (and quite frankly, I don't think he's the only one on the planet guilty of that), make sure that you can compete with them. As long as you are doing what you can to be pleasing to him, then there's not much more you can do.
If that doesn't work, fight fire with fire. Start looking at younger men. Let him squirm for a little bit. Then once he realizes what its like to be on the other side, maybe the two of you can discuss some ground rules about what it appropriate for opposite sex friends, etc.
2007-10-16 13:54:57 · answer #3 · answered by Pythagoras 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sounds like he is definately not marriage material and needs to grow up. You could start doing the same thing to him. Or you could get rid of him. That would make me mad. If he's not going to pay any attention to you, then what is marriage anyway??? He isn't going to stop. Does he know it bothers you? You need to do some serious thinking.
2007-10-16 13:48:02 · answer #4 · answered by lazycat 3 · 5⤊ 1⤋
oh girl say no more my ex was like the exorcist with the way his head turned everytime a pair of **** walked by it was awful caused alot of resentment you won't change him if you've talked to him about this and he still it knowing it bothers you he does'nt respect you and it will only get worse with age
2007-10-16 13:52:31 · answer #5 · answered by famousamos075 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
The only women he should love is you. You need to get rid of your womanizing husband.
2007-10-16 13:54:26 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
He was a bad choice for a husband so you either have to get counseling so that he sees that has to stop, or you need a better husband.
2007-10-16 13:52:25 · answer #7 · answered by Al B 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Did this just start or did you know how he was before you married him?
I guess you need to let him know it bothers you and then if he doesn't quit, you have some hard choices to make.
2007-10-16 14:02:01 · answer #8 · answered by Elt 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
How did you keep him from "being soo girlcrazy" before you were married? If he was like this before you married, why did you marry him if it was such a problem?
2007-10-16 14:03:15 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
ah there's nothing you can do. maybe point out young hot guys...or older hot guys...or when he oggling another girl make a nice comment about her and see how the attention goes off her , to you.
2007-10-16 13:49:04 · answer #10 · answered by Danu 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋