i asked him if he was dating another person. he said no. but now im thinking about dating another man myself. should i update him about it? i really like him but like he said we are just dating and i want to know whats out there. any thoughts?
2007-10-16 13:39:49 · 31 answers · asked by chloë 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
its not low or hoe like to date more than one person at a time. i havent jumped into it yet so im just asking. jeez.
2007-10-16 13:57:37 · update #1
Dating two people at a time? Not cool. He might get the wrong impression about you, as many people will. But if you do plan on going through with this escapade, you really do need to tell him. Theres no laws about dating, so you can date whomever and how many people you want at a time.'So go for it, see whats out there, but just let this guy know your intentions, he needs to be informed. Make sure he knows that your just 'dating' as in, casually going out together with emotional intentions, that your not officially together.
2007-10-16 13:45:57 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should probably ask him what he thinks about the relationship. If it's a serious relationship and if he wants to be serious about it. If that's the case then I would get rid of the idea of the other guy. If you are dating causually then I don't see the problem with seeing another guy. If this is the case you do not need to check with him if it's ok to date someon. Just make sure that he understands that this is a casual relationship. She's not a hoe or playing the field by doing this.
2007-10-16 13:45:47 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dating two guys at the same time... like the woman who buys two identical birthday cards that both say "to the only man in my life" inside.
If you mean just hanging out and getting to know each other as dating someone, then dating two people isn't the worst thing that can happen.
However, if by dating someone, you mean that you two hold hands, call each other your boy/girlfriend, and kiss, then dating two guys is just being mean and selfish.
Sorry to be so blunt, but when you get to being affectionate towards someone, it shouldn't be towards multiple "someone's". If you want to know what's out there, go out and explore. Just don't keep the current guy you're dating under the impression that you're perfectly content with him and nothing else.
2007-10-16 13:45:56 · answer #3 · answered by swrogueman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES tell him about it -- and make sure he is aware that it doesn't bother you if he dates others either. Think about this .....back in the 50s, etc. people did "date" ..... they got to know different people before deciding on marriage. These days it's like you get stuck with one person (maybe feel in love at the time but no other options either) and therefore what happens? Look at the divorce rate now.
2007-10-16 13:44:18 · answer #4 · answered by butterfliesRfree 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If your both comfortable dateing more then one person, honest about it, not spreading any std's and aren't married...go for it, your just out for a good time..
but ...if you wanta be serious with this guy...perhaps you should minimize the dating others for a while and see where this ends up.
2007-10-16 13:43:10 · answer #5 · answered by Merisa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No worries. Im dating a couple but im not steady with neither of them, im just looking, meeting new people, just seeing whats out there. Theres nothing wrong with that. Unless you want something to happen then just stick to that one guy.
2007-10-16 13:45:47 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you guys are just dating then it is okay to see other people. It isn't like you guys are exclusive. As soon as things get serious with someone then you need to break things off with anyone else you may be seeing.
Good luck! I hope this helps.
People, take a chill pill. They are only "dating".
2007-10-16 13:44:29 · answer #7 · answered by Missy 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Maybe you should have a good prepare for it. It is can also be good if you deal it well. It can also be a good time. Don’t worry a lot about this. Once my friend at milionairematch.com had the same experience with you. Do what you please. Life can be another kind of taste.
2007-10-16 22:29:49 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, updating is good. If you dont, that would be like two-timing, or being a player. Go ahead and explore what eles is out there. If you havn't found it now, there more to see so go for it while you still have the time
2007-10-16 13:44:24 · answer #9 · answered by gibson_lover<3 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
if you are thinking of wanting to date another guy, you do not love your bf very much. maybe you like him. but not love. so since it is like this, why not go out and date other guys? maybe you can find someone you really love with all your heart. that guy will then be the guy of your life. someone you want to grow old with. cheers.:)
2007-10-16 13:46:35 · answer #10 · answered by cheer 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋