i have been with him for 3 years...I love him and I know he loves me...we have gone through alot and have stayed together when people around us have done everything they could to tear us apart...He is a wonderful person and I want to stay the rest of my life with him and he wants to be with me for the rest of his life...
my only concern is that my mother doesn't like him...she has no actual reasons...I was thinking of moving out and then letting her know because I know that if I tell her in advanced she will do everything in her power to make me stay...I know she is my mother and I respect her concern but I would like to make my own desicions and I would like for her to understand and see what I see...how wonderful my boyfriend is...
2007-10-16 14:24:56 · 7 answers · asked by Gordita de Oro 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I am 20 he's 24
We both work full time jobs and make good money
I graduated high school 3 years ago
2007-10-16 14:38:53 · update #1
My mom has been good...but she has also done alot fo things that I beleive are very wrong...I have neer been able to speak in my house about what I want and everytime I would do something I would go through the worst times because my mom would never let me forget it...
she really has no reasons for not liking him I have tried talking to her but everything for her always has to go her way...and my heart is telling me to move out and so is my head...I love her very much and I would love for her to be involved in our lives...if things don't go her way she is never happy...this man makes me happier then anything else in this world...
2007-10-16 14:43:38 · update #2
You need to do what you think is right.
Your mother has been there for you for you whole life but, if things go right he could be there for the rest of it.
2007-10-16 14:33:10 · answer #1 · answered by zen522 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your mother has attachment issues. Thats a mothers job but too much of it isnt right. You are a woman and you need to do what you think is right for you. She will get over it as times go on and you can concentrate on building up your bond with her when things are settled and some time has passed. She was young like you once....parents often forget that. She means well and you both have two people that love you. You are blessed and you need to take actions in your life. It is just apart of growing up and spreading your wings in the world.
2007-10-16 15:16:31 · answer #2 · answered by EchosOfAngels 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She must have her reasons for not liking him. Do you guys have jobs? A place to live just you two. Not in a relatives home or with friends. If your mother has been a good mother to you and watched over you. I don't think you should leave like a thief in the night.
2007-10-16 14:34:29 · answer #3 · answered by Red Rose 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No! You are worth far more than that. If he's so great, marry him. For LIFE.
Background
Gen. 2:18, 21-24
The Lord God said, 'It is not good for the man to be alone. I will make a helper suitable for him'...and while he was sleeping, he took one of the man's ribs and closed up the place with flesh.
Then the Lord God made a woman from the rib he had taken out of the man, and he brought her to the man. The man said, 'This is now bone of my bones and flesh of my flesh; she shall be called 'woman,' for she was taken out of man.' For this reason a man will leave his father and mother and be united to his wife, and they will become one flesh. (NIV)
Here we see the first wedding. We can conclude from this account in Genesis that marriage is God's idea, designed and instituted by the Creator. In these verses we also discover that at the heart of God's design for marriage is companionship and intimacy.
What Does the Bible Say?
• Marriage was designed for companionship and intimacy.
2007-10-16 14:30:47 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Quetions......
1 how old are you and he?
2. do you both have a job?
3. have yo finshed high school
4 can you suport you r self
if you can answer this yes then move out and stare your oun life if no then stany home and grow up
2007-10-16 14:31:48 · answer #5 · answered by butterfly 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well to me it all depends how old u are ... but if u really want ur man and u love ur mom i dont see a reason why u cant seat down with ur mom and talk to her from woman to woman ... let her know what u want
2007-10-16 14:28:24 · answer #6 · answered by .·.¹³ LaSh3s¹³.·. 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if all that is so good and glorious why not just get married and forget shacking up? that way all you have to answer to is you and your b-friend and no one else.
2007-10-16 14:33:56 · answer #7 · answered by J.M.C 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋