Family & Relationships - 16 October 2007

There is this really cute boy in my class. I am very shy and I don't know how to approach him to talk. Sometimes he sits next to me and other times he does not. What do I do? Help please?

2007-10-16 16:26:19 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-10-16 16:25:16 · 13 answers · asked by tandy2 1 in Marriage & Divorce

my boyfriend is always talking killing himself.i cant take it anymore . he makes me cry so much at night not becausse of the whole killing thing.his the only boy i ever like alot but now every time we talk he thinks about killing himself or he gets hurt. im only 12 years old i have school and test to do an pass and i dont think my brain is on work. samething happened last year. should i break up with him or stay .

2007-10-16 16:22:21 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

He broke up with me 3 weeks ago because he needed to figure out his life (seriously there is no one else) but thinks it could work in the future and we could be friends. I took the break up hard and over and over would say he didnt care so eventually he said he did and i was special to him but he was done trying even the friendship. This was 1 week ago, he texted that night saying we both need space and give things time. He called 2 days ago to say happy bday and apologized for not keeping contact the past week, I know i reacted badly but i was hurt, will he ever speak to me again? If he cares like he says. it sucks bc i got close to some of his friends

2007-10-16 16:22:02 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

rules. I am a good girl and rarely give them any slack. I've come across an opportunity in the city to work with a major magazine. However, i live in staten island. It's a difficult commute. She doesn't want me to do it. She never wants me to do anything. She is paranoid and suffers from mental disorders. I rarely go out on weekends with friends(to be honest, i only have 1 real friend)..because she doesn't let me. I don't know what to do anymore? Her paranoid behavior is driving me insane.

2007-10-16 16:21:55 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

This relationship lasted twelve turbulant years as of april 2007 we stop having sex and he moved out july 23,07. We lived in a two family home and my mom lives downstairs we have two children with autism and i have one from a previous relationship who is 17 now. He is not a family man, I did all the main things by myself with the help of my parents. he did improve over the years but still mostly every house hold responsibilty was done by me, bills , budgets, Dr.'s appts, home work ,ext .he did not particpate, mainly he did not have the patients. our kids together are 7 and 8 years old. we love each other but with my parents ,our kids,his attidude my frustration. we had a huge fight and one we cannot recover from. plus i am constantly throwing him out so he finally got his own apt. now that i am not angry anymore i really miss him. He seems alot happier i want to be happy for him but i am walking around like my world has ended. it has, the world i had with him how do i move on?

2007-10-16 16:21:33 · 5 answers · asked by need to move on 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-10-16 16:21:21 · 3 answers · asked by christina 2 in Singles & Dating

There's this guy from my school, who always talks to me when I go online, so we're kindda friends now. But it's weird, cuz well talk about who he thinks is the cutest girl, and like about his past girlfriends... Maybe he just says that cuz he wants me to think he has a life, but here's the weird thing, he tells me I'm pretty all the time, and when I see him he plays with my hair, and hugs me and stuff. But once, for no reason whatsoever, he spontainiously came up to me and said, "I don't like you, like you," wtf?? does he like me.. or not?? How important can it be that he says im pretty?? Do you think he really means I'm pretty or is he just trying to be friendly??

2007-10-16 16:21:02 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Hello I am 13 years old and I am kind of a goofy girl! I like to have fun and focus on boys... I am trying to become more reserved and descret, and focus on studies. I can not modivate myself to change though. I really don't like who I am now... Let me give you some examples of what I do now and what I would like to do.
1. I mess around in school
2. I kind of slack around with responibilities I have
2. I am very loud and kinda weirs
I would like to be like this
1. Shy, and discreet
2. Reserved and quite
3. Respectful and organized
4. Understand how to respect my body
I know this sounds weird but I did not know what else to do... Please help me! Give me tips anything!

2007-10-16 16:20:29 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What are the benefits of being a mistress and how should a married man treat it? kos i wanna experience it...

2007-10-16 16:20:13 · 25 answers · asked by ehdays 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I am the middle child even though I just two minutes older than my twin. I'm 18 and my parents have been treating me bad since I was little. They are much muuuch harder on me than my older brother and younger sister. I get really good grades at college, I got a good job offer, I drive well and take car of the cars, I get scholarships, I'm pretty well rounded. But, it's never good enough for them. I am blamed for my siblings' problems like I made them do it. I feel like I have to babysit my sister cause she does a lot of stupid stuff and my parents blame me for it. They also tell me how much I'm ruining my life because of my boyfriend because he isn't as great as they want him to be. I'm already making plans to move out because I've had enough of this. Years I've been mistreated and I don't want to sit back. I'm 18 and they still try to control every aspect of my life. (Cont.)

2007-10-16 16:18:18 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

My Girlfriend and I have a 3 month old daughter, We are both 30. We weren`t plannning it to have a baby but we don`t regret it.She`s not working nor has health insurance, so we have many bills. I get paid decent at my job enough to cover bills but still have to budget weekly. She will not get off my back for 2 seconds, I help with the baby when I get home and only sleep 2-3 hours a night. I understand it is not easy to be a new mother and I know women go through emotional fazes around this time.

The problem is she won`t back off for a second without pounding me with constant nagging and it is getting to me.
I`ve tried to talk to her and she promises to lighten up , but it only lasts a day or so. She is also the type to say insulting things when she is angry.

2007-10-16 16:17:36 · 9 answers · asked by Ray M 1 in Family

There is a nine year age difference between myself and my friend's kid (me in my 30's, him in his 20's). We have hooked up a couple of times, unintentionally of course, and for some reason there is this awkwardness between us. I'm way over it, but I feel our past excursions has affected us. He won't talk to me unless he has to, and he'll hang out with me and his mom if he has to. I just feel he doesn't really like me, and his politeness and friendship with me feels so forced just to keep the peace between us. His mom does know we have hooked up, but she really doesn't care.

I just want this weirdness between us to be over. It wasn't always like this, and I miss the way things were. He was more flirtatious and friendly with me before, but now everything he does seems so fake. I don't know how to get passed this because it really bothers me. I enjoy his friendship but I think my poor judgments has taken its toll on our friendship. What do I do guys?

2007-10-16 16:16:48 · 1 answers · asked by yayaquack 4 in Singles & Dating

Is being a mistress a bonus? what do you get out of it..

2007-10-16 16:15:31 · 18 answers · asked by ehdays 1 in Marriage & Divorce

o.k welll my bff and i have been fighting. yesterday i found out she made a myspace and shes not allowd to make one. but she didnt tell me herself i found out from som1 else. and dat was like da 5th lie she had told me. and got hella mad at her, but we made up lik 4 or 5 hours later. and we said we wud start over. like we have never met b4. o.k and so today i was lookn thru her ex boyfriends cell (it was my fault they broke up)and there was a text dat said '" i love you to death. NOT just cuz ur lettn me borrow ur notes.'" and so i told her about dat. and i got mad at her allo over again. and she said da same thing lets start over. and when she said dta she loved him to death. i was so betrayd. she has never said dat to e b4 and i alomost always say dat to her. like a friendship i love you. and idk if i can trust her again. do you think i shud trust her after she lied to me? when she said NOT just cuz your lettn me borrow ur notes. she said i love you those are hella powerful words!!

2007-10-16 16:15:29 · 5 answers · asked by Stepanie♥ 2 in Friends

I can't take it nor do I want to. Married 30 yrs but we are not what we were. My youngest son died 28 June 2006 by choice; he stepped into a Simi going down the interstate! We will never over come this. I am coward. Although I supported the family for 20 years, now, she has master status as the bread winner. She treats me kike a dog on/off. She blames me for our sons death; rightfully so. No counseling has been NOT any help.

Sorry for rambling. I need to break out but have about $1000.00 hardly enough. I thought about living on the streets; I do own an ok car. Sometimes I think I want to kill her. Don't think I would, just myself. My psychiatrists says move, on, and move out. I need to do this but it's, so hard, because it’s so easy with her income and my control of the money... F...k it---money means **** till you can't eat.

Any way thought from the general community?

I'll know the ones who are--them who know who they are and your direction means dog crap to me.

2007-10-16 16:14:27 · 3 answers · asked by enigmatic1844 3 in Marriage & Divorce

never done it.
never witnessed it happening to me.
i want to break up with my first boyfriendddd.
when you're talking to him, should you first say "i want to break up" and then explain your reasons or explain your reaosns and then say "so i want to break up".

i know its a pointless question but i wanna make it as smooth as possible =/

2007-10-16 16:13:49 · 6 answers · asked by :) 3 in Singles & Dating

am 30 yrs old live with parents

2007-10-16 16:12:49 · 9 answers · asked by vineeta devi p 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Many of us are single and likley to remain so like myself.
Being lonely is a big problem.

2007-10-16 16:12:17 · 3 answers · asked by starone 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Guys, do you have experiences that when you get more close with a girl, you feel like to be alone for few days? and when you are away, you find she turns angry with you, and you don't know why? what are you thinking at the time of being alone? and what do you suggest a girl to do at this circumstances? would it be better just leave you alone?

2007-10-16 16:11:02 · 4 answers · asked by Caring Girl 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-10-16 16:09:15 · 17 answers · asked by terri 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Boys tell me that I speak like a guy. I wonder if this is why boys don't like me. They tell me i'm pretty, but they don't have crushes. I have a very girly voice, but it's just what I say that sounds like boys. I stopped cussing, but only cuz I really got in trouble at school, but I still say stuff like "nice", and I call everyone a "punk". I play soccer too, and I often scream a lot when we play a gme, so my voice is hoarse half the time. I tried to stop using those words, but they have become part of me, and I can't stop. It's hard!! I was just wondering if how a girl sounds has any importance on whether or not u find her attractive. Can I do anything to sound girlier, that isn't to stop calling people dude, or punk, or saying "nice" and "sweet" and "yo momma", which I say ALOT.

2007-10-16 16:08:57 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am going through a divorce with my husband. My husband is blackmailing me to come to a settlement on his terms. He has bleckmailed me every possible way includign brining a cop to my house and threatening to take the dog away on charges of me abusing the dog. ( I have single handedly brought up my dog like a baby for the last two years). When that dint healp, he started harassing everyone in my family includign trying to take away my sister's job, calling up and harrassing my parents, threatning me of any and evething (very smartly and cautiously within legal limits). The problem is that we own a business that he wants to take control of and cheat me with the money. Should i stay and fight and run for my sanity ?

2007-10-16 16:08:04 · 11 answers · asked by Romi 2 in Family

2007-10-16 16:05:28 · 39 answers · asked by seafish 1 in Marriage & Divorce

He ran her off but failed to call the police. He did not know what to do? I called them when I got home and filed a report with the neighbor. I was at football practice with my son and daughter. I have custody of my kids, she gets supervised visits and she has not seen the kids in about 2 months. I don't have any money, or any valuables, she took everything when we split up 10 months ago. What could she be looking for? All my court papers I keep else where. I don't have a clue what she would be looking for. any ideas to help me figure this out. Maybe she was on one of her drug induced dilousions.

2007-10-16 16:05:25 · 33 answers · asked by Bones 5 in Marriage & Divorce

I have a night light on and sleep with stuffed animals too but the bedroom is large and I get so scared. I have my baby's crib in there too and sometimes my friend Jessica will sleep with me. I am 20 years old. My friend says I have a phobia but when I sleep with my husband I feel so safe. Do you have any advice for me? Its hard for me to get a good nights sleep sometime with my husband and he says he loves me but that since I am unclean during my period I can't sleep with him because I will defile the bed. I told him I would wash the bedsheets everyday but then he got upset and told me not to quit being fresh with him. :(

2007-10-16 16:04:14 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

when a girl says that is it safe to say she likes me and maybe want a relationship. im 18 she will sometime look me in the eyes and not say anything. i dont really know her good

2007-10-16 16:03:18 · 4 answers · asked by dhfdfg 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

OKay here's this situation My best friend in the world is pregnant and even though her due date is this Thursday, the doctors are looking at enducing labor on tuesday (her body isnt ready to have her son yet, I think its her cervics that is still closed so thats why they are waiting for tuesday) I am exstatic for her, even though she is only 16, as am I. ( I really dont need any comment on her age, or anything, we have gone over the fact that her being 16 sux for being preg....) But her 18 yr old bf is a real ********. they arent married or anything and she is "honoring" her bf family for both her sons' first name, middle name, and last name...her mom suggested that she use a hyphen for the last name and gicve her abby both her's and her bf's last name (so everyone can be happy). Everyone thinks its a good idea...but her bf is SCREAMING at her about it right now...she is really upset like balling her eyes out, and complete and total reck. No one likes her bf, nobody, not even his

2007-10-16 16:01:53 · 24 answers · asked by *♥* N. D. *♥* 4 in Friends

She is very loving, in private, but we have only been together for 2 years, she has issues regarding my folks, in that she thinks they should pay for all of my debt, (school). She always wants to be with her mother, we go out with them every week since she moved in, and she never really wants to spend time with my parents. what should i do

2007-10-16 15:59:57 · 3 answers · asked by jimbo 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

my boyfriend is locked up should i stay close to his family i really dont like them

2007-10-16 15:59:10 · 5 answers · asked by *TiFfAnY*<3 3 in Other - Family & Relationships