Family & Relationships - 16 October 2007

because it would be a strain on your marriage and she went back, having no where else to go and two months later her kids were taken because of the situation they were in, that she didn't want to go back to. Would you be at fault in any way?

2007-10-16 17:05:10 · 16 answers · asked by RainbowSeer 3 in Family

What are the chances?

ps: Am talking mature love here.

2007-10-16 17:05:04 · 8 answers · asked by ? 6 in Singles & Dating

2007-10-16 17:03:52 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

any specific websites other than tagged ..
or any other places.

2007-10-16 16:59:43 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

she tells me other little boys are hot and she comes home and tells me who her curremt boyfriend is. Right now its a boy named matt in her class. She tells me she kisses him and they go on dates. What does this mean and is this normal or weird. Should I tell something to her?

2007-10-16 16:58:09 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

My boyfriend and i have been dating for 5 months now and i really care about him alot... We see eachother every other day and on weekends... I have notice that when im away from him for even a day i miss him so much ...The smell of him , his touch , his kisses and the way he makes me feel ... I ask myself why do i feel this way so soon about him... There times for no reason i wanna call or text him and tell him i love him ... Whats up with me ????????? Is this normal...?

2007-10-16 16:55:13 · 22 answers · asked by L♥VIN LIFE 1 in Singles & Dating

my wife and i meet 13 years ago and where just good friends etc and soon things started to hot up lets say and i had fellings for her then one day we started talking about sex and relation ships i told her i wasnt realy interested in a relation ship although i cared a lot about her as i want to play around a bit and such before settling down and one thing was to have a threesome she said that didnt worry her and thought it seemed ok ,next thing i knew she went and had one with 2 of my friends {now ex friends } but at the time we where not commited to each other then one day we became intimate and i brought up the fact one day i want to she said it wasnt a problem and it will happen , well it never has and if issues come up about it she just grins and says get over it problem is i fill cheated and traped now due to trusting her and moving on with the relation ship due to her -promise- to me it would take place with me and another individual how can i forget about hers now or move on ?

2007-10-16 16:54:53 · 6 answers · asked by bob h 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Such a godless generation!!!!!

2007-10-16 16:54:53 · 18 answers · asked by Helpfulman 1 in Marriage & Divorce

my girlfriend and i have talked about taking our realtionship to the next level- being more intimate- touching-- stuff like that

we are both okay with it, we both want it

so if i know this, how come i still get shy or embarrased when im tryiong to make a move?

before any of you say it, i will just admit it that yes, i am pretty unexpirienced. i think im just nervouse that i;ll do somehting wrong, or i wont do it right or something

what will make me not be so shy and just go for the moves? we both want it,k so whats holding me back?

2007-10-16 16:52:32 · 11 answers · asked by edger 1 in Singles & Dating

well.. serious or funny.. whichever floats your boat.. and hopefully mines

2007-10-16 16:51:42 · 27 answers · asked by RjunN 1 in Singles & Dating

even if again and again he/she'll break your heart, why some are still believe in loving her/him.

(for married people)
even if they're wife/husband cheated, why they still forgive and accept her/him again?

2007-10-16 16:49:06 · 13 answers · asked by ivan 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-10-16 16:47:53 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i have a brand new bf!!!!!how can i make him crazy for me (like wat to say or wat to do?)

2007-10-16 16:47:12 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

that you love with all your heart because they no longer love you?

2007-10-16 16:43:33 · 8 answers · asked by youngfashionista 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-10-16 16:41:48 · 9 answers · asked by youngfashionista 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I was just wondering because my friend is sarcastic and girls seem to like that

2007-10-16 16:41:46 · 9 answers · asked by Joe 1 in Friends

2007-10-16 16:40:24 · 9 answers · asked by youngfashionista 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

i am a 15 year old guy, and am in grade 10. I dont know why girls dont really like me, more than friends, or come up and talk to me. I am fairly good looking, 6 feet tall, 170 pounds, muscular, short brown curly hair, blue eyes, fasionable, and i play on the school football team. I am shy, but not really shy, i talk to guys and girls. I just dont know why girls dont like me, or atleast i think they dont, they dont come and talk to me or anything. what should i do?

2007-10-16 16:38:57 · 34 answers · asked by sports_fan16 1 in Singles & Dating

Should I run or fight for my rights ?
I am going through a divorce with my husband. My husband is blackmailing me to come to a settlement on his terms. He has bleckmailed me every possible way includign brining a cop to my house and threatening to take the dog away on charges of me abusing the dog. ( I have single handedly brought up my dog like a baby for the last two years). When that dint healp, he started harassing everyone in my family includign trying to take away my sister's job, calling up and harrassing my parents, threatning me of any and evething (very smartly and cautiously within legal limits). The problem is that we own a business that he wants to take control of and cheat me with the money. Should i stay and fight and run for my sanity ?

My attorneys ask me to fight with this pyshychopath to be able to make my future secure but i am at a stage of running away considering a new threat that comes my way.

2007-10-16 16:38:54 · 15 answers · asked by Romi 2 in Marriage & Divorce

He has never did anything wrong to me...never. Is it that I just don't trust men?

2007-10-16 16:37:44 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i wouldn't consider myself "gorgeous" but i'm not ugly either, i've been TOLD i'm pretty...i admit, i have my ugly days, and my "hot" days but overall, i'm just very happy with the way i look - i have an easygoing attitude, fun personality yet mature and serious at times. I get along great with guys and girls - hate drama.

When it comes to love, i honestly believe (esp. at a young age), it's a waste of emotional, mental, and physical energy if you won't be with someone for a long time or better yet, a lifetime. I'm a one man woman and would rather wait however long it takes to find that ONE guy who completely respects me and not just treat me as a princess, i'm picky for my own good and yes, I'm a virgin b/c i choose to be one. Ppl who i'm close w. and trust who i've shared this with, don't believe me b/c "alot of guys like me" and i'm "pretty" so they all thought i would have given it up, but i haven't...would a guy think this is weird?

2007-10-16 16:37:01 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

i make 3 times more money than he does..i can get a divorce and make it on my own just fine...the problem is i always feel sorry for him and im affraid he wont be able to make it on his own if i leave...i am too codependent on this relationship and want to get the nerve up too leave his but for good..i love him but it is not a healthy relationship...there are kids involved but we dont have any together...he is an alcoholic who does nothing but drink beer and get pissed off about everything the kids and i do...but i keep thinking of all the good things about him too and thats what keeps me from leaving...tonight we got into a big argument which led to him putting his hands around my neck and choking me ....i almost pased out cause he cut off my air snd i couldnt breath for about 10 seconds...after that happened he started crying and hugging me and saying he was sorry...that was the first time he ever layed a hand on me ...i know i need to leave but i am not strong enough and i love him.

2007-10-16 16:33:38 · 13 answers · asked by lisa p 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I need to clarify a few thing and maybe I should put a link for other questions so here you go:
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=Am22mv61wu2jsSMKQUgr3fDsy6IX;_ylv=3?qid=20071016034813AAzpytH &
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=AjlO4_liLc3h1Eeum2jn2jTsy6IX;_ylv=3?qid=20071016035543AAp2OHl

My next door neighbor's Angie & Joe used to have what I would call a good marriage till they started to swing!
Now he goes into Jealous rage moments and I do fear that I might hear one day he killed her!

I've called police so many times I can't remember and all they do is take him out of house for the night, and she wont press charges so that's that!

Racer x, I like what you said about abuse happens all the time regardless of who you are but their are things that don't help the situation and it seems to me that swinging has become toxic to the marriage!

I used to swing in 1st marriage and you and I both know that swinging is about perspective,

2007-10-16 16:33:23 · 5 answers · asked by The Lady 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My mother-in-law is legally married but hasn't been with the guy (a career criminal) for many years. She is lazy about following through with the divorce so my husband and I want to help her file the paperwork finally. Any suggestions how to do this? She resides in Ca, we think he is in Tx. I believe they got married in Tx back in 1980.

2007-10-16 16:32:19 · 7 answers · asked by STT 360 4 in Marriage & Divorce

Have you ever been to a wedding that was particually memorable or fun?
What was it that made it so special for you as a guest?
I'm looking for ideas for my own...
Thank you!
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2007-10-16 16:32:16 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

2007-10-16 16:31:26 · 10 answers · asked by christina 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm reallllllly into this guy. We've been dating for just over a month now, but haven't really done much other than making out because we always go out on dates to shows or whatnot so we're always in public and then we just kiss in the car. (by the way i'm 20 and he's 24)

this week (i only get to see him once a week... our lives are so crazy) he suggested i stay the night at his place. Ha... well this also means sex (I know, I know, not if I don't want to, but I do!), but this is in bad timing as I'l be getting my period!

I'm afraid of staining his bed or something... and obviously screwing up all the build-up to sex. So what, do I let him kiss me and get all riled up and then tell him we can't have sex because of my period?

What should I do/what are you thoughts?
thanks!

2007-10-16 16:30:53 · 21 answers · asked by Cat K 1 in Singles & Dating

skinny and tall, skinny and short, fat and short, or fat and tall

2007-10-16 16:30:40 · 14 answers · asked by ^_^ 4 in Singles & Dating

Shes one of my best friends and recently she asked me to move in with her. I dont think i should because i dont want people to get the wrong impression. What should I do? How should I handle this???

2007-10-16 16:28:56 · 2 answers · asked by Nina L 1 in Singles & Dating

I dont know how old u should be till u date

2007-10-16 16:27:06 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends