Shes one of my best friends and recently she asked me to move in with her. I dont think i should because i dont want people to get the wrong impression. What should I do? How should I handle this???
2007-10-16 16:28:56 · 2 answers · asked by Nina L 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
would you take this as a sign of her coming on to me? I dont know what to do. we're pretty close. Help?
2007-10-16 16:29:41 · update #1
You should ask her. If you are good friends, just ask her. Tell her your feelings, worries, and concerns and talk it out. People can be friends regardless of orientation. This is not really any different than a guy and a girl living together who are friends, but not lovers. If you do move in, establish the "rules" before hand and it should work... assuming you are both mature individuals.
2007-10-16 16:33:13 · answer #1 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just because she's gay doesn't mean she is coming on to you. Gay people can have straight friends of the same gender and not be attracted to them.
Maybe you should ask her if she finds you attractive. That should clear the air.
However, if you are afraid of what others will think, then you shouldn't be her friend. You shouldn't be embarrassed of your friend, or be concerned about what others will think when you are together if you really are her friend.
I think that the real consideration here is that she might bring someone home, and how would you feel about that? They might lounge on the sofa snuggling. Would you feel uncomfortable? Of course, the same thing might happen with you and a boy. I'm not talking about full on making out, but just coming home and seeing them cozy.
Based on what you said, I think you should examine your friendship and acceptance.
2007-10-16 23:36:56 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋