Family & Relationships - 16 October 2007

I'm 17 yrs old and my boyfriend of 2 years has left me =( I loved him so much I just want to die cause I don't want to live without him. I don't think I'll ever find someone like him again. He is my first love and I never been heartbroken before and I keep crying, I can't sleep and I can't eat. What can I do =(

2007-10-16 18:10:41 · 43 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok so I tried to break up with this girl because I think that I am afraid to hurt her in the future which I did, so then now every time she gets mad at me , I tried to do many things to calm her down especially with my own "sweet"side. What can I do to make it stable? It happens like once a week if not then some other weeks. If I try to break up with her then she will just make me feel guilty because she claims to "suicide". I've had bought alot of things she wanted, hang out with her friends instead of mine, and I gave almost everything up just for her. I even cutted some of the last classes I have in some days just for her. I was even patient enough to wait for her to get dressed while I waited outside in the cold. I am going crazy here people. Is there anyone willing to help with some advices? Thanks a bunch.

2007-10-16 18:08:53 · 3 answers · asked by xdersonxdamain 1 in Singles & Dating

she is very pretty, young, and even though i tell her i love the way she looks a million times, she still doesnt like her chest. she is like an A or maybe even a AA cup, but i dont like big breasted girls. and i tell her that and i always compliment her looks (and sometimes her chest too), but she STILL doesnt like the way she looks. she was never this self conscious until she was with me (her first bf). is there anything i can say or do to help her? ...i feel bad that she doesnt like the way she looks.

2007-10-16 18:07:37 · 24 answers · asked by David N 1 in Singles & Dating

what do you like a guy with no highlights (dark brown hair) or a guy with highlights (blondish color)?

2007-10-16 18:07:31 · 15 answers · asked by hammy 3 in Singles & Dating

when a girl says that is it safe to say she likes me and maybe want a relationship. im 18 she will sometime look me in the eyes and not say anything. i dont really know her good



ive herd cute is used by girls to describe someone who is not there type or a nice way to say "your ugly" i hope this isnt the case

2007-10-16 18:04:39 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

sometimes i feel like my dad doesn't love me as much as he used to. i used to be REALLY close to my parents, they thought i was perfect and innocent and sweet, and they were so lucky to have me. but last year when i was 18, they found pics of me "with" my boyfriend. in a few weeks, mom went back to being the same, but my dad lost somthing. we're still close, but it's not the same. he used to see me doing somthing signature "lindsay" and get this look in his eyes and come over and playfully pat me on the head. i can't proove it, but i think now, every time he sees me do somthing cute, it reminds him that i'm NOT cute anymore. i don't feel what i did was wrong, he was my boyfriend and we we're just experimenting, but i DO feel like i lost a part of my dad. makes me sad :( anyone else out there relate?

2007-10-16 17:59:44 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

There's this girl that when I was in eighth grade, was in seventh. Some of her friends told me she liked me, but I didn't like her. Now I'm in tenth grade, she's in ninth grade, and I think she's really cute. I'm pretty sure she still likes me because of the way her eyes glow up when she sees me sometimes. I don't see her a lot, I don't know anybody that knows her, and it doesn't help that she's a freshman. She's never even talked to me but her friends used to tell me she liked me and stuff. It would be REALLY weird to just talk to her, and I don't know who to talk to about her. What should I do??????? I really want to get to know her...

2007-10-16 17:57:20 · 3 answers · asked by QuestionBoy 1 in Singles & Dating

so's here's the deal. my bf watches porn a lot. i've never given him a problem about it, because i just don't treat it like its a big deal.
HOWEVER, i'm starting to feel disgusted by it.... i feel like in our intimate moments that its not really love making, but i feel like i'm in some porn movie.. don't get me wrong i don't have a problem with my sexuality or anything
but i don't want to feel like i'm in a porn everytime, b/c porn is about getting off and not making love..
i have made some comments, but i feel like he's watched it so much, that he doesn't know there's a difference. i've tried to tell him.
has anybody else experienced this?
any suggestions?

2007-10-16 17:56:27 · 15 answers · asked by saraJ 4 in Singles & Dating

What do most men look for in a lady

2007-10-16 17:56:26 · 18 answers · asked by BB 2 in Singles & Dating

i gave my heart 2 u, and told u that it was yours 2 keep.But constantly u hurt me& took my luv 4 granted.u made me feel like i was neva good enough 4 u. n yet u neva really gave me a chance.maybe if u had i wouldn't feel so hurt. and i would b able 2 jus get on with my life. we really could've had something good.But u didn't even try.sometimes i wish that i wasn't n luv with u,jus so i wouldn't have 2 feel this pain.yeah this might sound krazy but inspite of all the tears & the pain.my feelings 4 u neva changed. i loved u so much that even when u were being a dick i was still able 2 luv u.i sit here reminesing about all of the memories we once shared, and wonder how in the hell did we end up here.how did we ever grow apart. and i would neva in a million yrs. believe that u would b the one 2 break my heart.and i refuse 2 believe that u neva loved me. everything i had i gave 2 u. i don't have n e thing else 2 give. and i don't deserve this pain. and i really don't know that the hell 2 do

2007-10-16 17:56:01 · 4 answers · asked by blkdiva360 2 in Friends

haha so basically i fell HARD for this guy i dated....after our first kiss together the next day he said he needed time to be single since he just got out of a 3yr relationship where the grl cheated on him..i said fine but now he aint putting too much effort in being friends…I liked him a wholeeeee lot and I don’t want to lose him..and BEFORE we kissed or went to the next level he treated me like a princess! how can I make him want me or how can I grab his attention? For instance, what should I do in facebook haha since that’s how we see each other’s lives.
anything would help! Don’t say to move on haha cuase apparently it will take me time..but what would make u want a grl more that u got to know already and took her on dates and didnt do any harm to u?

2007-10-16 17:55:05 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I have no idea where she is right now I've tried everything I know just to contact her but to no avail.Pls. help......I heared she went abroad.Somewhere in the Middle east.Pls... help.thanks.........

2007-10-16 17:54:46 · 2 answers · asked by lorelie s 1 in Friends

I have a friend who is so reluctant about introducing me to his other friends...we're both adults by the way. This just seems a bit odd to me. He tells me that they're a private part of his life which I think is complete BS. He talks about them all the time so they can't be too private. I've seen pictures of them, too...so how private can they really be? That's just stupid in my opinion. There seems to be no real reason why I can't other than he just doesn't want me to, which makes no sense to me. We've been friends for over 6 years and I've never met a single one of his friends although he's met all of mine. He seems to think we're in 1st grade and that we're "secret friends." What's your opinion?

2007-10-16 17:54:12 · 9 answers · asked by First Lady 7 in Friends

2007-10-16 17:53:40 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Well, there is this girl I like, but I have only talked to her a few times, every time I talk to her, I make her laugh. I need tips on how to start a good conversation that will give her signs that I like her.

2007-10-16 17:49:35 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

During work a customer will tell me" "oh, you'll be married soon, and won't have to work your retail job anymore." Another family I was a nanny to the mother said: "You'll find a good guy soon, and marry..." And then another lady at the bookstore told me that I'll have a family someday and marry.
People these are total strangers telling me what I'll be having with love and family. I think it's nice, but why do total strangers tell me this from no where. I don't bring up the subject. They always do! I keep business with business, and then these women start saying this.

Sorry to say only God knows my future not some women saying this. I am 42 not married, and no kids. Who are these weirdos predicting my future, and I am not even seeking them out?

2007-10-16 17:49:32 · 8 answers · asked by DREENA 2 in Weddings

married w/ kids. i have a full time job as does my husband. his day consists of getting up and going to work. coming home at 5pm and going to bed later that night. i wake up the kids. 5 by the way all 10 and under. making sure they are dressed, have eaten and hair is combed. taking them to school, the 2 youngest to daycare. then going to work, coming home, at 7 picking them up. making sure homework is done. cooking dinner. doing the clean up and laundry. weekends are variation of me spending time with them, ironing clothing for the week and running errands. i do all the shopping, cleaning, cooking and child rearing.
okay so the problem is he has the nerve to call me sorry cuz i cooked pizza for the kids tonight. 2 of them didnt eat cuz they didnt want it and i wouldnt fix anything else. i asked him to help me more and he said he will make the kids do it. i am beginning to hate him, how can i get him to do more? i'm tired!

2007-10-16 17:40:24 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

How long does it take to get a divorce? I don't know where he is and I will be doing it on my own. I was told by the court clerk I will pay an ad fee, an ad looking for him, and then I don't know what happens if he shows up or not, if he does it won't be a problem, but I want to be divorced asap because I want to get married. Do you know how long should it take? No kids, no properties, just a plain divorce. Thanks! : )

2007-10-16 17:37:30 · 6 answers · asked by Psychology Young Lady 2 in Marriage & Divorce

am a girl of 20yrs old! i have being having couple of relationships..bt non of them has worked! i loose ma appetite over guys 4 only a month or two..please help me know what 2 do 2 be stable on one guy..i really loose ma temper easly n end up breaking up with them! am ready 2 do all it takes 2 keep the next guy who comes ma way!

2007-10-16 17:34:48 · 19 answers · asked by lizzo 1 in Singles & Dating

How do you know if a man really loves you are just needs you around to clean his house,care for his kid,and sex?

2007-10-16 17:33:25 · 5 answers · asked by amscrystal76 2 in Singles & Dating

She is a scary looking girl and she called my boyfriend saying she's gonna fight me. I'm really scared of this girl. So what should I do to make this girl not fight me?

2007-10-16 17:27:12 · 17 answers · asked by Aimee 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-10-16 17:23:29 · 13 answers · asked by Your Mom 6 in Singles & Dating

I know, I know, Not a good idea but I wanna have fun. I need to get out ...

2007-10-16 17:22:51 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What do girls look for in a guy? Do I need to be tough, nice, tall, short, have a big one, cute, ugly, active, etc. what?

2007-10-16 17:22:10 · 19 answers · asked by Jose Antonio 1 in Singles & Dating

i know she's been through alot in her life...my dad didnt care and gambled so she's cheating on him right now with my dad's brother and it hurts me.. My mom yells at me over every little thing...i know its normal for parents to scream...but even my family thinks she get caried away for no reason...she sees me as a mistake...like i ruined her life...i messed thinghs up for her...i dunno how...but i just wanna say im sorry for being born...she calls me every posible name imaginable...screwup, stupid, useless, pendeja, estupida, cabrona, etc...what did i do to make her life so wrong?..why cant anythingh i do make her happy?..how an i make her happy...i really have tried everythingh...but she doesnt even care...all my aunts have or are even scared of her...is that normal?..

2007-10-16 17:19:39 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-10-16 17:17:22 · 7 answers · asked by Your Mom 6 in Singles & Dating

One of my online friends that I dumped, IM me pretending to be someone else just so he can still talk to me.

2007-10-16 17:12:23 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

This guy I used to know and kinda liked started sending me text msgs out of the blue, we been talking back and forth. and then he asked "if I ever wanted to date him." And "I said not really," then i asked if he wanted to date and he never responded. does this mean i ruined my chances with him? i only wanted to be friends but now i don't know what he wants.

2007-10-16 17:10:58 · 7 answers · asked by PlainJane 4 in Singles & Dating

2007-10-16 17:07:57 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Im 19 years old and im about to get married ( don't give me advice on the marriage part, thanks ) I've never had sex and every one says that it hurts the first time.
I don't know what to do. My pain tollerance is like a -5. I hate pain. I've always told myself that I could live a life without sex. What do I do??
I don't use tampons or anything so nothing has ever been up there...

2007-10-16 17:07:27 · 23 answers · asked by tickerspam 3 in Marriage & Divorce