haha so basically i fell HARD for this guy i dated....after our first kiss together the next day he said he needed time to be single since he just got out of a 3yr relationship where the grl cheated on him..i said fine but now he aint putting too much effort in being friends…I liked him a wholeeeee lot and I don’t want to lose him..and BEFORE we kissed or went to the next level he treated me like a princess! how can I make him want me or how can I grab his attention? For instance, what should I do in facebook haha since that’s how we see each other’s lives.
anything would help! Don’t say to move on haha cuase apparently it will take me time..but what would make u want a grl more that u got to know already and took her on dates and didnt do any harm to u?
2007-10-16 17:55:05 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
ah! remember im not even his friend! its so hard cause i dont think its possible now cause its awkward
2007-10-16 18:00:44 · update #1
WE DIDN'T HAVE SEX LOL..i kinda chatted too much and talked too much hahaha but now i will ignore him harcore
2007-10-16 18:08:17 · update #2
Are you a dude or a chick? lol
2007-10-16 17:58:01 · answer #1 · answered by Answer God 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
First off, you've GOT to play hard to get. For me personally, and I'm sure many guys will agree with this, I like a challenge. Sometimes it is unattractive when someone is all over you all the time (not saying that you are/were). Recently I had a girl that like me here at school. She was an attractive, fun girl but she would tell me everyday that "she had liked me for three years." She was basically saying that if I wanted it, I could have it. That turned me off because there was no "chase" involved. I knew I had it so why would I need to work for it? Then again, I'm not a typical guy, I actually care about women.
Hope this helps! Just be yourself, and let him come to you!
2007-10-17 01:02:44 · answer #2 · answered by BradyRatchford 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Hi ..
You know something Hon..You can't make anyone like or love you.Just be yourself..And if it's meant to happen..It Will!
Too many times, a guy will treat you like a princess..And promise you the world..Then for whatever reason, he'll make up all kinds of excuses, why he's not ready to be in a relationship..It's nothing new..I'm not saying all guys are like that.
You might hear from him again, But if and when you do, don't act like you've been crying over him..Just be nonchalant with him..Like you really don't care, one way or the other about him..You can be nice..But please don't act desperate!
Guys like a challenge..They want to feel like they won a prize..Well then..Be that prize!!
There are plenty of nice guys out there..Just don't settle for anyone..Don't ever just settle!
Good luck Hon..Take Care!
2007-10-17 01:23:26 · answer #3 · answered by howdoilvthee 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Act like him. Ignore him...but make sure that he sees you and when he sees you, you better be looking good and having a good time with other people. Don't you dare act desperate or obsessive or he will be gone for good. Men like a hard to get woman. If that doesn't work, maybe he's just not that into you.
2007-10-17 01:00:54 · answer #4 · answered by ♥Xty♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
as much as you want him to hook up with you. guys have their own agenda and when they want to do something they will. don't push just be a friend when he needs one.
check in with him every so often,but not stalker like and call all the time. when you talk to him see if he is interested in doing something if not go about your business.
your first mistake was havin' sex. you can let a guy know you like him in other ways vs. sleeping with him.
most guys will ditch a girl that sleeps with him b/c they think she is too fast/easy. also with him just coming out of a relationship where he was cheated on, you sleeping with him could have said to him well if she does this now you may have the potential to do him wrong too. so don't be too surprised if he wants nothing to do with you.
2007-10-17 01:03:27 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Give em up - really - so it will take time, you to old to keep looking - highly dought that, you sound very young.
He dosn't have time for you, why waist your time on him, he isn't worth it. REALLY move on.
In a few weeks you'll wonder why you even wanted to get him back - he's over you, so you should be over him! Who cares what you did at what level, find a real man who is willing to be with you and wants to be with you.
2007-10-17 01:02:48 · answer #6 · answered by Four Up 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be VERY happy to be without him. Look great, have fun, laugh, enjoy your friends.
Men like to chase. They are hunters by nature. Don't be like a deer he hit in his drive way when he was heading out to go hunting in the woods with a license for one deer only.
When you are feeling most radiant and happy and he ahppens to be in the same place, flash him a fabulous smile. He will want some of that and he;ll take a sceond look.
2007-10-17 01:00:20 · answer #7 · answered by Mimi Di 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If htis fella isn't putting the effort to keep in touch, then he isn't worth your time. Guys play games and you're prolly not the only one he's played this with. Maybe he was freaked out by how your reacted to him and is scared.
2007-10-17 01:00:47 · answer #8 · answered by Jeanie B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Better find out he is not married first. Ask and Ask cause guys are dogs. They will lie!!!!!!!!! Second he may be involved with some else. If he is he is a dog and move on.
2007-10-17 00:59:56 · answer #9 · answered by Mia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
guys like to chase, put up some pictures of some new guys in your facebook. Once they know you are avilable for them, they lose interest........know how great you are and make HIM work for it.
2007-10-17 00:59:53 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
A guy who says that is saying he isn't into you. You can't get him back if he's not interested in you.
2007-10-17 01:08:55 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋