This guy I used to know and kinda liked started sending me text msgs out of the blue, we been talking back and forth. and then he asked "if I ever wanted to date him." And "I said not really," then i asked if he wanted to date and he never responded. does this mean i ruined my chances with him? i only wanted to be friends but now i don't know what he wants.
2007-10-16 17:10:58 · 7 answers · asked by PlainJane 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes, you sound very confused. You've driven him away. Congratulations.
2007-10-16 17:14:52 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you told him that you did not want to date him, he has moved on to someone who does want to. Guys do not typically make "friends" with a girl - now there are exceptions, I admit, but I think you blew your chances of his dating you. He was (in his feeble way) feeling you out for a potential date and you shut the door. He may try again, but not likely. He sounds like a shy person, and a rejection (unintended or not) is likely to end in his going elsewhere for companionship. If you want to date the guy, clear up your language - if not, don't torture him. Good luck.
2007-10-17 00:24:16 · answer #2 · answered by Doug R 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i can tell u this much, if u want him back u can go and tell him u want him, i know it sounds too direct, but normally a guy actually appricates a girl being straightforward and not going in circles for years and wastein time :) just text him hints that u actually do like him, and ull get his attention...hopefully
2007-10-17 00:19:05 · answer #3 · answered by ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u might have messed up ur chances with him. There's a chance hes just hurt and will get over it. Or he just realized that dating u would be too cool.
2007-10-17 00:45:06 · answer #4 · answered by Redfalcongt 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He was only exploring various options before him. Nothing official about it!
2007-10-17 00:19:14 · answer #5 · answered by villager 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not really if he dont live close to you by now he just might be seeing other girls or married you did the right thing in my opion?
2007-10-17 00:16:12 · answer #6 · answered by the_silverfoxx 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i do think he liked you
2007-10-17 00:14:54 · answer #7 · answered by taz11131 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋