For girls, What do girls look for in a guy?

Question

What do girls look for in a guy? Do I need to be tough, nice, tall, short, have a big one, cute, ugly, active, etc. what?

Answer 1

I tend to go for the shy guys because they are the only ones not paying attention to me.

Answer 2

Confidence. There is nothing less atrractive than an insecure, whiny, needy man.

A sense of humor is critical. I knew a guy who, when his wife was acting dramatic and ridiculous about service at a hotel, he said, "No problem honey. When the bellman finally gets here with our bags, we'll have him killed." Sooo much better than eye rolling.

They should be aware of the people around them- conscious of what's going on. Women HATE IT when men don't pick up on another couples fight in progress or a mood that is making someone uncomfortable. Behave as if you give a crap.

They should be responsible for their own actions- mentally, emotionally, financially, legally, intellectually.

Maybe my issue because I'm 5'8" 9 moderately tall- If you also happen to be taller than the woman or larger it's a bonus. Women HATE IT when a guy can put their blue jeans on and zip them up. Plus, even very independant women like to feel like a man might be capable of protecting her if she needed help which again falls into the category of giving a crap.

Lastly, men who have taken the time to think about topics that affect life on this planet will always show up as more interersting and intelligent than a guy who can only name beer brands and Nascar stats.

Watch some Robert Redford movies. Maybe the guy is a dork in real life, but the characters he plays and the way he plays them embody mascualine confidence, humor and style.
No neurosis there

Answer 3

Different women, different tastes. Generally speaking the most attractive things are:
* Confidence
* Friendliness
* Intelligence
* A healthy physique (not necessarily buff but not super chubby either)
* A positive sense of humor
* A good listener who is also willing to speak his mind if necessary
* A bit of mystery

Answer 4

#1: always always always be confident. a girl wants a guy that can be comfortable with himself and can make her feel comfortable.
#2: be relaxed and have some humor. Always smile!!
#3: DO NOT FOLLOW HER AROUND. it just creeps her out.
#4 honestly when a guy tries to be "tough" it is just plain Tacky! dont try to impress her like that. it just makes them feel awkward. they know exactly when you are doing it too.
#5 it is nice when the guy does alot of sports/activites that keep him busy. you dont want a girl to ask what you enjoy and you say that you sit at home all day playing video games..maybe you sit at home and play with your younger siblings? girls always like a guy that gets along well with little kids!
Hope I helped!

Answer 5

it depends on what kinda guy u r, some girls like attractive, have a nice smile, tough but only tough to stand up for her, dont be shy be really open, if ur blonde and have long hair then girls really dig that but i dont know what u look like lol

Answer 6

It just depends on the girl. some girls always go for the jerk instead of the nice guy and some girls just want a man that is going to treat her right and that can give her what she has been wanting.

Answer 7

most girls go for a nice caring cute tough guy that is willing to have her back no matter what

Answer 8

girls love attention. and someone that makes them laugh. No you don't have to have a big one just know how to work it. And please her. The biggest turnoff. A guy that has no money and makes the girl pay. GOOD LUCK!

Answer 9

well you gotta be on the A list
that pretty much sums it up.
And in life there are ALWAYS A lists.
high school,,college,,,working world.
ALL A LIST
end if you aint on the A list...you might as well wrap it up

Answer 10

I'm nogt a girl but they look for the same things guys
look for + money!