am a girl of 20yrs old! i have being having couple of relationships..bt non of them has worked! i loose ma appetite over guys 4 only a month or two..please help me know what 2 do 2 be stable on one guy..i really loose ma temper easly n end up breaking up with them! am ready 2 do all it takes 2 keep the next guy who comes ma way!
2007-10-16 17:34:48 · 19 answers · asked by lizzo 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I dont see you as being abnormal, what you describe is not so unusual.
When the right person comes along, the situation will reslove itself.
There will be someone you will not have to try and keep him, you will WANT to.
2007-10-16 17:39:00 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you're just falling for the wrong kind of guys. It's probably just infatuation and by the time you realize it (a month or two later), you put an end to it. I'm a 21 year old male, maybe I can help.
2007-10-17 00:40:31 · answer #2 · answered by donutgonuts 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you just might be a little unbalanced. You need to do something that occupies your time. Try something that will benefit you and others around you so you won't keep thinking of useless men. You'll be better off ,and when you're not looking you'll meet you're match and find someone that puts you in you're place or will give you a taste of your own medicine. I hope I wasn't too harsh sweetie.
2007-10-17 00:39:48 · answer #3 · answered by ? 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well maybe you just havnt found the right guy to have a good relationship with..they ended for a reason regardless of your temper...but if you have a temper issue u might want to get that in check otherwise you'll find yourself in the same boat. but you're still young dont worry about finding your soul mate yet..if he comes he comes...guys that age are to immature for the most part anyways and just want to have "fun"
2007-10-17 00:38:43 · answer #4 · answered by sugar 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You're normal. You just need to relax that's all. Don't let the little things get to you because eventually you will meet someone you truly care about and end up chasing him away. I would be more worried about using "ma" for "my".
2007-10-17 00:39:10 · answer #5 · answered by teeveejunky 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if you are 20 years old, you could be far from finding ANY guy you like that much, let alone the one! if you were forty, it may be a bit different, but if it were so easy, everyone would be happy and settled by 20!
dont look for mr right now, to hold onto, wait for a guy you actually LIKE and likes you, then it wont be so much work to "hold" onto him, itll just happen. and youll be happier. you shouldnt stress so much.
2007-10-17 00:39:48 · answer #6 · answered by little b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just try not to loose your temper and if u really want the next guy to stay show him how much u love him
2007-10-17 00:40:15 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's called Youth. You are still exploring and testing the waters so to speak. When you have matured you will be more interested in settling down.
So Yes you are very normal!
2007-10-17 00:38:55 · answer #8 · answered by Suddenly Me 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Set your standards and stick to them. Perhaps those guys were not right for you. Eventually the right one will come along.
2007-10-17 00:38:19 · answer #9 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes ,you are normal. You sound like a very dark lady. And , there is a sayin, to big,to ,small, that could be the problem. Had it .
2007-10-17 00:39:49 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋