my wife and i meet 13 years ago and where just good friends etc and soon things started to hot up lets say and i had fellings for her then one day we started talking about sex and relation ships i told her i wasnt realy interested in a relation ship although i cared a lot about her as i want to play around a bit and such before settling down and one thing was to have a threesome she said that didnt worry her and thought it seemed ok ,next thing i knew she went and had one with 2 of my friends {now ex friends } but at the time we where not commited to each other then one day we became intimate and i brought up the fact one day i want to she said it wasnt a problem and it will happen , well it never has and if issues come up about it she just grins and says get over it problem is i fill cheated and traped now due to trusting her and moving on with the relation ship due to her -promise- to me it would take place with me and another individual how can i forget about hers now or move on ?
2007-10-16 16:54:53 · 6 answers · asked by bob h 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
okay, if I understood you right?? You wanted a 3some. So, she had it. Okay. DId you want to have it with her and another female. Well, what comes around goes around. You did not specify. Why should guys always have all the fun. You brought it up. What about her needs. Men, Men??????????
2007-10-16 17:05:43 · answer #1 · answered by Mia 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are upset that you didn't get a three-some? Honey, take a number. You just joined the millions of other men trapped in the institution of marriage. This is just a bad case of Karma. You married for the wrong reasons hon. Either get divorced so you can sew your wild oats, or take some midol and quit your whining.
2007-10-16 17:04:42 · answer #2 · answered by Hollynfaith 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You HAVE to be f*cking kidding me!? You did NOT marry this woman because she said she would have a 3-some with you! If you have a 3-some there will more than likely be some problems in your marriage afterwards! Grow up and be a man and if that is what your marriage is based on then I suggest you spare your wife and leave!
2007-10-16 17:03:16 · answer #3 · answered by Mommy to 1+triplets 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ahhhh, Booo Hoooo. Grow up and get over it, learn how to speak English and maybe she will understand what you want. Perhaps then you will no longer trip and fall, cheated or not.
2007-10-16 17:04:43 · answer #4 · answered by Wiz 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you married her only because she agreed to have a threesome. Why didn't you fulfill your fantasy about this before marriage?
2007-10-16 17:04:35 · answer #5 · answered by drewxjacobs 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow! Sorry but do you not know how to use a period?? I am all worn out trying to figure out what you just said....It's in the past...put it behind you and move on....
2007-10-16 16:58:59 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋