Why is he so uncomfortable around me?

Question

There is a nine year age difference between myself and my friend's kid (me in my 30's, him in his 20's). We have hooked up a couple of times, unintentionally of course, and for some reason there is this awkwardness between us. I'm way over it, but I feel our past excursions has affected us. He won't talk to me unless he has to, and he'll hang out with me and his mom if he has to. I just feel he doesn't really like me, and his politeness and friendship with me feels so forced just to keep the peace between us. His mom does know we have hooked up, but she really doesn't care.

I just want this weirdness between us to be over. It wasn't always like this, and I miss the way things were. He was more flirtatious and friendly with me before, but now everything he does seems so fake. I don't know how to get passed this because it really bothers me. I enjoy his friendship but I think my poor judgments has taken its toll on our friendship. What do I do guys?

Answer 1

Yep, no offense, your an uncaring, selfish, immature, ignorant, neglectful person. Really, you screwed your friend's son? Yea good one Ms. Smooth, good one. AND YOU KNOW YOU DID WRONG!!!! Then you expect him to know how to handle it? Yea life most be easy when its all in good fun huh? That all aside now you get to do something you've proubly not to good at, TALK TO HIM HONESTLY ABOUT THIS!!!!! You can do it, shoot you alread got him naked, so talking to him honestly about your concerns should be easy as pie right? HAHAHHA yea I know, most of the time you guys suck at this stuff or else you wouldn't of slept with him in the frist place. Ether way I'm sorry to be so offensive but what you did there was pretty f'in selfish and shows a lack of empathy, understanding of yourself and others, and a complete lack of a moral purpose to yourself. THEN to add insult to injure, you don't even talk to him about your behavior or his, be a grown up, bring this out in the open. AND FOR THE LOVE OF GOD STOP ACTING LIKE SEX IS SO F'IN INNOCENT!!!! As this unintentional hook-up description, might work on his mom, but me hunnie, no, don't do that, you guys knew exactly what you were doing, he was a kid, and you were adult looking for a pride screw, congrulations, now you've made your bed.... now fix it..... if I'm wrong that you guys never were intimate and you were just saying you guys have party or something together, it would be caused by the fact that he can't be honest to YOU about the way he feels, might be you've been to nice, and the boy has a crush on you. OR could be he is being defensive about his mother because your not a good influence.