I got told that I should do this but I only got one answer. Make a long story short: I am a senior in college, chicks run away from me, that is they dont want to talk to me or be friends with me. i shower twice a day, use deodorant and keep myself in shape, but they im digustingly ugly. so here is a photo of me:
http://img339.imageshack.us/img339/817/img1685jj4.jpg
do i need to get plastic surgery or what?
2007-10-16 14:25:30 · 31 answers · asked by djmixah7 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Okay, you're not disgustingly ugly. Adhering to proper hygiene and exercise are very good habits and I hope this isn't something you're just doing in order to attract women.
I have another feeling that chicks don't actually run away from you. Who knows, maybe they have their reasons for not displaying affections. The ones that come to mind are the following:
--maybe they are intimidated since you're a senior
--maybe they are intimidated because you tower over them
--maybe you're the type of guy who's shy and quiet
--maybe you "move in too quickly" and try to talk to girls solely for the fact of picking up girls (they can pick up the vibes)
Here are the best two pieces of advice to remember: Confidence and Patience. Girls will find confidence attractive and if you're confident about yourself (aka have a positive self-image), other people will pick up on that. Then again, don't be over-confident because that leads to being pompous (which has the exact opposite effect). You also need to be patient. A friendship and/or a relationship takes time to grow and has to be built off of common experiences and time spent together. If you're a shy kind of guy, strike up small talk with the people around you. If you're a guy who has solely been out to hook up, slow it down and be willing to put more time into a friendship/relationship.
It'll take time (and I know it's tough), but remember, we'll all in this together. When you're looking for someone to date, don't forget about the friends you had in the first place.
Best of luck.
P.S. I would also rotate that picture so it's at least the right orientation.
2007-10-16 14:29:51 · answer #1 · answered by swrogueman 2 · 1⤊ 4⤋
no dude. chill. u look hella fine. after u graduate, im sure that chicks will run after u. don't let them put those thoughts in your head. don't even think about plastic surgery. Funny story, u say that chicks run away from u, and i want to run away from all the guys that have been askin me. If it makes u feel better, i'll be your friend.
P.S. maybe it would be better if u rotated the pic. also, smile dude, u look like you're about to kill someone. lol. nah J/P. Keep it real!
2007-10-16 21:32:13 · answer #2 · answered by let's dance. 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
uhhh u wish these people would stop lying to you sayin that ur cute not trying to be harsh u r not ugly either you are ok but you look a little crazy in this pic maybe they are not just running away from the way you loo maybe they think you are wierd i know i sure did when i saw the pic
but dont worry the right gurl will come along who will love u and ur crazy self for u...
2007-10-16 21:35:58 · answer #3 · answered by modelchick 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Man no offense, but get some Proactive of all and keep that mustache either completely off and shape it up, and get that hair in shape too man. Nothin GAY here, just some pointers. and as they say "beauty is in the eye of the beholder". I know it's hard to grasp what it means at first, but when you know you look good, it'll get contagious and the people you meet will know you look good to.
Again, NOTHING GAY here. But enjoy your life.
2007-10-16 21:34:14 · answer #4 · answered by Wanna Know 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
not bad. but let me tell you something.
first of all, do you smile a lot?
you look a bit scary in this pic.
try to smile a lot and be more friendly.
second, your hairstyle is totally out of date.
just go to a popular hair salon and have a nice short hairstyle.
third, what type of cloths do you wear?
are they out of fashion too?
just buy nice shirt and jeans.
last, you don't sound confident.
girls have no interest in you if you are not confident.
while i encourage you to change your fashion style, i recommend you that you should be yourself and have high self esteeem.
2007-10-16 21:35:39 · answer #5 · answered by Emily 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
The right girl just hasn't come along. You look a lot like this guy who is at the honors program at my college. He has a steady girlfriend and she thinks he's good looking.
2007-10-16 21:32:27 · answer #6 · answered by Rockit 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No! for one thing never get plastic surgery! you wouldn't be you anymore! besides i think you are pretty darn cute! and you have gorgeous eyes! and i am not lying! maybe you just need to reevaluate how you approach people... but you definitely dont need plastic surgery!
2007-10-16 21:32:39 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
youre not ugly! girls arent as shallow as you think and lack of confidence is a turnoff so mayb thats why girls are running. physically, i think youre kinda cute =) but youd look better with a haircut and maybe proactiv but you definitely dont need plastic surgery =O have more confidence and more girls will be attracted to you, good luck =D
2007-10-16 21:31:54 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
nah but u have terrible acne! wash ur face! dont get surgery just find a girl who will like u 4 who u r.
2007-10-16 21:43:53 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your are not disgusting.All you need is self confidence. If you think you are ugly then other people will too. I think that they are reacting to your lack of self esteem. I don't mean to be cocky but, to think that you are a good person who is worthy of being loved.
2007-10-16 21:35:24 · answer #10 · answered by Scatwoman 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋