Who doesn't do anything serious, but does a lot of little stupid sh*t that adds up. Let's say I'm going to bed, and I ask him to lower the volume on the TV. He'll turn it UP and sit there with a self-satisfied smirk on his face! Or....he'll flush the toilet while I'm in the shower, so the water gets really hot really fast. I think he does it on purpose sometimes!
Other than giving up and living in a bubble somewhere, what can I do???
2007-10-16 14:34:04 · 21 answers · asked by Ms. GTO 7 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Start talking to him when he's watching tv or sports, or anything he enjoys watching
when he complains.......then mention your dislikes
sometimes when your dealing with the lawless you have to be ruthless
2007-10-16 15:00:21 · answer #1 · answered by blaqking45 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why did you marry someone "who doesn't do anything serious, but does a lot of little stupid sh*t that adds up. Let's say you are going to bed, and I ask him to lower the volume on the TV. He'll turn it UP and sit there with a self-satisfied smirk on his face! Or....he'll flush the toilet while you are in the shower, so the water gets really hot really fast. I think he does it on purpose sometimes!"
Can you say uptight? He knows you are uptight and is trying to get you to loosen up..or get on your nerves, because it looks like a lot of fun to me. And not to hard either. Are you always this entertaining?
2007-10-16 14:38:55 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Fight fire with fire.
Turn the volume up at 2:00 AM, flush the toilet when he's showering, and any other annoying little thing you can think of.
2007-10-16 14:38:47 · answer #3 · answered by Pythagoras 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-09 09:21:20 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to talk to him about it because it sounds like he is doing it on purpose. Are you a nag? Think about it and be honest. You need to try and come to some type of agreement with him but remember you can't yell at him or make him feel like he is less than a man even if he acts like it most of the time. Find out what is bugging him about you and you tell him what is bugging you about him and talk about it and see if you can compromise on some things.
2007-10-16 14:47:20 · answer #5 · answered by moonchild 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems to me that you are the adult and he is busy being a child.
You are obviously at two different places in life right now, and if you've already spoken to him about it and he laughs it off and doesn't take you serious, then perhaps it's time to make some important decisions before things get more complicated.
2007-10-16 15:08:44 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Anyone who is married know exactly what you're talking about! No one's perfect. Talk with him seriously about how annoying it is to you. He loves you, he's probably really not even thinking about the consequences. If he does it again, be as SWEET and super nice as you can. The more he does it, the sweeter you get until he's sick of it *grin* Heck, if that doesn't work, stick an ice cube down his pants when he's asleep.
2007-10-16 14:42:42 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to learn to communicate and respect each other. You need to make him understand what irritates you and he should avoid doing that. Communication is the key not to mention compromise is important. Just dont let yourseld get all resentful bcoz that leads to downfall and breakdown of a marraige.
2007-10-16 14:40:00 · answer #8 · answered by Romi 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I find it funny myself but have you ever tried doing it back to him and if he has problems with it tell him this is how he makes you feel. stand around the corner and as he comes around jump out and scream and watch him pee his pants. Keep doing it when ever you can and then he will know what it feels like. Like in the show Punked.
2007-10-16 14:46:05 · answer #9 · answered by s f 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You must love him to stay. Either play the game or let him know it is unacceptable. Do little things to bother him mis match socks and forget this or that that he wants.
2007-10-16 14:45:02 · answer #10 · answered by ronnny 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋