My husband keeps calling me a liar and I can prove to him that I am right... am I being over sensitive by being highly pissed off right now?
2007-10-16 20:41:46 · 24 answers · asked by yourbigsis 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
It'll die off in a few days. just ignore it.
2007-10-16 20:44:46 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Being called a liar does question your integrity and your morals First of all why is your husband calling you a liar? how long has this been going on? I would think you need to work this out pretty quick because if He is doing this a lot and in front of other people that is a form of spousal abuse. And mental abuse.
2007-10-16 20:47:07 · answer #2 · answered by chuck t 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
first off, depending on what he thinks you lied about, then you have to prove it to him. i truly believe that when you are in a commited relationship (such as marriage, cuz it doesn't get much more of a commitment then that) but when you're in a commited relationship thats when explainations and obligations come into play. you have an obligation to give the man an explaination. the whole point to a marriage is to communicate with eachother. BUT and this is a big BUT. BUT if he is coming out of left field with some crazy thing he can't give you a reason for thinkin that your lying to him.. laugh in his face tell him to grow up and dont give a ****. most of the time when ppl call u a liar when you know they have no reason to think you are lying it's because of their own self esteem issues or because they are lying about it themselves and want to take the suspicion off themselves. but if you do explain yourself to him and it proves you right and he still does not believe you then its on him. dont allow yourself to be angered over someone else's problem... not even your husbands. either he'll get over it or he'll fester in his own problem.
2007-10-16 20:52:11 · answer #3 · answered by the critic!! 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I can't think of anything more annoying than being called a liar,when your not. Maybe he's lying about something, and he's just trying to take the spotlight off himself.
2007-10-17 00:03:19 · answer #4 · answered by Kathy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you obviously did or said something for him to call you a liar. But if you aren't lying then the truth will come out eventually.
2007-10-16 20:44:59 · answer #5 · answered by Dae 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why does he keep calling you a liar. I would be really pissed also.
2007-10-16 20:46:37 · answer #6 · answered by kim h 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What are you two fighting about, if it is something small, then fighting or arguing in the morning, is not a good start to your day..........just say sorry and I love you, life is to short!!!!
You do not want to say something you will regret later.
I think you are being overly sensative, JMO and only JMO, but life is to short, just kiss and make up!!!
It is 6:24 am, wayyyyyyyy to early to be fighting............:(
2007-10-16 23:25:36 · answer #7 · answered by carriegreen13 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it happens over and over again,plz take it easy, make fun of it and call yourself a liar jokingly.He will realize it and stop annoying you.
Enjoy life sweetie.
2007-10-16 21:02:21 · answer #8 · answered by chipsy 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You know the man, perhaps you've bruised his ego or something. Is it really all that important to you. If yes prove to him you are right, if not I'd let I'd drop.
2007-10-16 20:45:51 · answer #9 · answered by Night Stalker 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Evidence of your truthfulness will not help. Just let it go. No matter what you have done in the past tell him, "I may have done that before, but I am not doing it now." he will see the light when he is ready.
2007-10-16 20:46:01 · answer #10 · answered by Justin Smith 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You mean all along you have been lying?
Or just a communication problems.
Try it with pen and paper with words.
Don't forget the envelope and stamps address to him by post.
What do you think?
2007-10-16 20:47:07 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋