this is suppose to be helpful for those who need help. people should not be so insensitive to others feelings?

Question

i had said that i needed someone who would want to be my friend being divorced and have had gone through a bad marriage, but people can be so mean in their reply. if only any one of those people had gone through even half of what i had been through i wouldn't know how they would go on with their lives now. if any of you can't say something good then DON'T SAY ANYTHING AT ALL! coz you really don't have the right to put anyone down. take a good look at yourself in the mirror, you are not perfect yourself. i could even write a book on all i've been through and it's hard to want to get back into a normal world when you're so afraid of even simple things in life because of a bad experience. so please all you out there, try to be kind to those who need it. if animals can care, why can't we???

Answer 1

Look, I have not read any of your recent posts or questions.
I am sorry that you are hurting and have had bad experiences.
This is a place for help in many different areas and I agree you do not have to put anyone down but some people do not even realize they are doing so.
No one is perfect. Some people are very strong in their beliefs on issues and do not know how to convey simple concern or answers especially regarding emotions.'
I am that kind of person alot of times so I am speaking from experience.
Yes fear is hard to control sometimes when we let it control us. I know firsthand. I hope you find a way to enjoy simple things in life regardless of any bad experiences you have had.
It may easier for some but you are not them, so go at your own pace. Not anyone else. For a person who has been told I judge people I understand where you are coming from and I am sincerely sorry your experiences here have let you down.
YI really can identify with your last two sentences and appreciate the time it took for you to share.

Answer 2

Everyone experiences that here, there, every where, its a consequence of our society. Being able to take this things with a grain of salt is extremly important, its a matter of recovery, understanding, and also social compassion. You should understand your fellow man better then to assume, well better behavior then that. I've been here plenty to see its above par of most if you look thru the usual bs, so this is actually sort of insulting. Mostly on top of the fact I looked at your profile, no questions, your fan "AB" only answer:


yes thgat shows you are going to engage her in a positives ways but she may consider you after some more attempts.

Was the answer to a guy hitting on his teacher? cute. I'm a fan myself..... so really this is really pretty cheap if it isn't real