Family & Relationships - 14 October 2007

ok so my bf was SO anoyin wen i didnt hold his hand then wen i finally did b/c if i didnt he wuldnt shutup!!
but now he has tried to kiss me and i am afraid that he will agravate me like he did about my hand until i do kiss him
and the truth is i dont want to kiss him i dont really want him to be my first kiss to tell the truth b/c i really dont feel tat way tat strong
and now it is weird wen ever we are watchin sumthing alone b/c im scared he will try AGAIN!!
so any advice?!

2007-10-14 16:27:06 · 16 answers · asked by LM 2 in Singles & Dating

Any thoughts on having a reception/party for friends and family the following year? We couldn't figure out a way to involve friends and family without it costing, which is why we're eloping- but we wanted to formalize it somehow- we are sending out announcement cards after the elopement- it was the least we thought we should do.....

2007-10-14 16:25:39 · 14 answers · asked by **leigh** 3 in Weddings

I'm the youngest (sort of) in my family. No one ever talks to me or ever calls unless someone dies . Not my parents , siblings, etc. And if I have a problem I cannot go to them. Not to talk or anything. Im 24 and it really hasnt hit me until now. When I tried to talk to them before, I was told that I was over reacting...Am I?

2007-10-14 16:25:25 · 5 answers · asked by ♥Kimchi♥ 4 in Family

i have prayed, stop talking to the people i flirted with. no matter what i do , i feel the need to flirt with guys knowing i have a boyfriend. its like i dont wanna lose my boyfriend (well at the moment im so mad at him, i dont care at the moment) but i cant stop flirting i have even told people that im tryna stay commited so leave me alone, and the next thing u know. i flirting again. what should i do?

2007-10-14 16:24:45 · 18 answers · asked by onesensitivepoet 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-10-14 16:21:49 · 11 answers · asked by rjm 4 in Friends

No one thinks its a good idea to have sex when you first me someone.. I think we all agree on that! But ladies, is there a time period that has to go by before you think its right to become intimate, or does this just depend on how attracted you are to that guy.. Come on girls.. be honest now!

2007-10-14 16:20:58 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I feel funny asking this but there's this guy in one of my classes. He's kind of known as the "bad boy of the school" or whatever, but I find him pretty endearing nonetheless. He's shown some interest in me, just looking at me a lot, and trying to make random conversation with me. The other day he walked past me and twirled his finger in my ear. I was kind of confused why he did this??? (and why my ear of all places?)

Any clarification is great, thanks!

2007-10-14 16:20:04 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i have a bf right now, and i love him so much, were both 18, im a virgin so im not really ready to give this up. but i promised him that after our college graduation in 2 and a half years, i`d give this as a gift. that is, if he`ll last.
anyway, i was talkin to him today when he stumbled on some questions about my ex. so i told him the truth about what me and my ex did, (my ex touched my breast, well thats the farthest thing we did). then my bf said that he was disappointed..so i asked "if i wasnt a virgin anymore, would you leave me?" then he said "probably"...

i dont know..im a little confused, i dont think he loves me that much to accept me if i wasnt a virgin..

p.s.
i told him that the after graduation thing is off.

2007-10-14 16:16:21 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Where to find such things??

2007-10-14 16:16:03 · 8 answers · asked by **leigh** 3 in Weddings

or dislike her so much. If she is nice to you, buys you things, listens to things you tell her about your life and is interested in you and wants good things for you always.....what is it that makes you hate her still. I honestly need to understand this....is there anything she could do short of leaving your father that would make you happy?

2007-10-14 16:15:54 · 9 answers · asked by Rein 5 in Family

If a guy who is your friend drinks from your cup and does not mind the girls' saliva...is that an indication of something? Does that mean he likes you more than a friend or am I just being silly? My guy friend drank out of my cup today when I did not want the drink and he does have a girlfriend. I know it's just something very simple but do guys generally just drink out of the girl's cup since supposedly guys don't care about saliva?

2007-10-14 16:14:23 · 19 answers · asked by Jordin K 5 in Singles & Dating

You, your spouse or shared equally. Are you male or female?

2007-10-14 16:13:11 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

ok, i reely REELY lke thz guy at my skool and ive liked him all throlast yeer too, and i think he likes me bak, but im jst not sure...


iz thre ethng i could do to make him kno tht i lke him w/o acctuallytelling him or asking him out?

2007-10-14 16:12:37 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I mean this seems to be a common phenomenon. Seems when u confront people ahead of u, u r fighting against him; but laterly, when u r calm, ur enemy becomes urself, sth which misers me, hoping some great experiencer would answer.

2007-10-14 16:11:53 · 1 answers · asked by Brown 1 in Family

I think my boyfriend is jealous of my best friend because he is cute and hang out after school for a little while. I don't see why my bot friend should be jealous bcause my best friend got us together and I got my best friend together with a friend? I see that my boyfriend doesn't like it when my best friend is there when we are together, but he is always there with his girlfriend.

2007-10-14 16:10:29 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

My husband and I are into the goth scene, and I'm bisexual. I don't feel like I fit into the mold of "normal" mommy sites, and I wanna meet more moms like me.

2007-10-14 16:09:59 · 2 answers · asked by kittystephens 1 in Family

I have a 19 year old sister who lives at home with me, my brother and my mom. The thing is that she dropped out of high school, she doesn’t work, or even help around the house. She takes off with her boyfriend whenever she wants and doesn’t come home for days, and when she does it’s just to sleep and eat all the food we buy, me and my brother are tired of this situation, we want to kick her out, but my mother opposes saying that if we kick her out of the house and something happens to her, it will be our fault. What should me and my and my brother do? Should we admit her to come to the house whenever she wants so she can take off whenever she wants? Or kick her out for good?

2007-10-14 16:05:45 · 2 answers · asked by garza285 1 in Family

this is a serious question so please no rude answers.. thanks :-/

2007-10-14 16:04:06 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Lately I've been feeling so irritable, angry, sleepy, grouchy, bitchy and just horrible. My husband is angry about it but I can't control how I feel. I don't know whats wrong I'm just feeling like this. I'm not on my period. I've also been getting really really hungry and eating alot. Does anyone know what might be wrong with me?
I'm just feeling lots of anger towards everyone

2007-10-14 16:03:11 · 16 answers · asked by ~Mommy*of*3~ 3 in Marriage & Divorce

ok here are the details....
he is an illegal immigrant, she claims to love him and that they want to get married before the citizen laws change, so they can have a normal life.
They both have not graduated H.S. and are very immature i think as far as finances go and jobs/school.
We were raised in church and my mother does not like this boy for VERY good reasons i can't say, and feels like my sister is making a mockery out of marriage. My mother will be very hurt, and i HATE that.
I LOVE my sister and want to be there for her but i feel as if i'm not being honest with her, i do feel she is too young to get married and he is all wrong for her. What should i do she wants me to go to the courthouse this week and be a wittness. Should i just support her because no one else in my family is. or should i try to stop something i KNOW she is going to do anyways, we have had ALOT of arguments over this guy the past year and her and i relationship is finally back on track..HELP!!!!

2007-10-14 16:01:59 · 16 answers · asked by vintage004 1 in Family

So she (girl I talk to everyday; good friend) just come up to me and says "I have a secret" and I ask her what it was and to tell me and she was like "no" and I asked her later how large it was and she said "fairly large." I am texting with her right now and I brought it back up about the secret and asked her who does it deal with. She said "you" and I asked "Who all knows" and she said "me and jane" (a friend of hers that went along with her on vacation this week) and and then I asked her "What percentage does this secret have to deal with me?" She said "probably 50" and I said, "Will I ever find out this secret?" and she said "No.. Probably not..." and then I said "Seriously! Like ever in my life?" and she said "Yes". WHAT COULD IT BE?

2007-10-14 16:01:00 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My hubby works a lot. He is gone 12-14 + hours a day working and out with friends. My son and I are home alone alot. I get lonely. I love dogs but we live in an apartment. I told him I'd like a cat for my son and I to play with and take care of. He said he hates cats and we cannot have one! I am angry because I think it would be good for son and I and he is never home!!! Ideas on what else to say to him about it? Expense is not an issue and I would take care of it that is not an issue. He simply does not like them.

2007-10-14 15:54:17 · 13 answers · asked by Samantha 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I dont wanna go to school tomorrow, so when i wake up wat should i tell her?? besides i dont wanna go to school

2007-10-14 15:52:13 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I'm a happily married mother of 2 and there's a guy that calls me from time to time. Origonally, I knew him from my church and he was just a lonely kid (I'm a few years older than him) that I was nice to. But he's not just a lonely kid anymore, but now a lonely man with issues. He kinda acts like he likes me and it freaks me out! He acts like we're best friends or something! Last time I answered the phone I said, "How are you" and he said, "Good, now that you're on the phone"...WEIRD?!?!
How do I tell him that he can't call me anymore without upsetting him? (He recently got kicked out of the military- I don't know what he might do if I upset him)
PLEASE only serious advice!

2007-10-14 15:50:13 · 24 answers · asked by MommaLissa 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

People are constantly talking about me. && I didn't do anything wrong. If I talk to someones boyfriend/ex-boyfriend (in a friendly manner) people will say all this stuff about me. Even before I had my first kiss I was being called a slut. I'm not going to lie and say it doesn't bother me because it does. I just want a big kiss me aaa to everyone. What should I do? It hurts my feelings.

2007-10-14 15:50:12 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

lets say a guy broke up with you once, then you wanted to work things out and did, then 3 days later he said he was cheating and still engaged. then u say u hate him and never will speak to him again if you can help it, then w eek later he text you sayin he loves you and wants you back you say you dont know, then he sends you flowers and says text me tomorrow if i still have a chance, you do. then he wants to meet but you are reluctant to do so, so he gets angry and calls you fat ugly stupid smellly, verbal abuse.then he brings a girl to your workplace and you hang around for a bit then just get up and leave work. then he says sorry and wants to work things out but everytime you want to give him another chance he fs it up. then he keeps sayin he loves you and misses you, then he asks if relation is too damaged you say yea, ut then he says let me fix things, you say ok but things will be diferent im starting fresh. i shouldn love someone like you. what do you hink of the sutuation?

2007-10-14 15:50:08 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Okay soooo here is a file for my pictures just go to my myspace and request as a friend then you can look at them it is myspace.com/prettygirl24 and then my other ? is I am trying to change my picture on yahoo answers and I changed my avatar but when I go to edit profile it dosen't show any changes to my picture.If you look at my picture tell me if I am hott or not!Only teen boyzz answer no scary pedifiles rawr

2007-10-14 15:49:13 · 15 answers · asked by sunshine_britt 2 in Singles & Dating

My stepmom makes ALL the rules at my dads house...she tries to control everything..and my dad just goes along with it. My mom lets me get away with a lot. I don't want to hurt anyone. What should I do?

2007-10-14 15:48:09 · 4 answers · asked by Skittles: Taste the Rainbow 3 in Family

my mom is quite strict and i've been training her to let me stop calling her every hour when im at my friends house and ive also made her feel bad for yelling at me for many stupid things and she stopped doing that as much

is this ok for me to do?

or am i becoming too demanding or something?

2007-10-14 15:47:04 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

let's say your make a child and then the father dies, and a person gets together with the mother and the person who gets together with the father adopts the kid is he legally the step father?

2007-10-14 15:46:44 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family