ok so my bf was SO anoyin wen i didnt hold his hand then wen i finally did b/c if i didnt he wuldnt shutup!!
but now he has tried to kiss me and i am afraid that he will agravate me like he did about my hand until i do kiss him
and the truth is i dont want to kiss him i dont really want him to be my first kiss to tell the truth b/c i really dont feel tat way tat strong
and now it is weird wen ever we are watchin sumthing alone b/c im scared he will try AGAIN!!
so any advice?!
2007-10-14 16:27:06 · 16 answers · asked by LM 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you do not like him do not date him. Your first kiss you will remember, I accidently bit Brad's lip(that was his name), I was almost 16. Be ready for the boys to attack, it's the way of the world and a kiss is special only if the person is special to you. If all else fails tell him how you feel, you might bend his heart but you probably will not break it. Good luck sweetie
2007-10-14 16:32:01 · answer #1 · answered by Brittany K 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him at a time he isn't trying to kiss you ( this way hopefully he wont be so apt to not listen while he isn't in the middle of his move, causing him an aggressive reaction?), that you really don't want to go that route just yet in your relationship. You enjoy the friendship and hope he can respect your feelings so it doesn't ruin the relationship in the end.
It might help to try to avoid situations your not comfortable with if he can't accomindate your wishes. If he is real persistant maybe you need to dump him all together.
2007-10-14 23:35:49 · answer #2 · answered by savahna5 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you feel this way about him, why is he your boyfriend, why are spending time alone with him and why are you wasting his time? It's wrong to pressure someone to do anything that they don't want to do, but it's also wrong to tell someone they're your boyfriend if you don't have the feelings that go along with that. I'm sure he's even more confused by your actions than you are of his. Do yourself and him a favor and set him free to find someone who does want to hold his hand, kiss him and does have strong feelings for him. Maybe you'll find someone you can feel that way about, as well.
2007-10-14 23:34:48 · answer #3 · answered by bainaashanti 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The whole point of being in a relationship is to get to know the other person. If you arent confortable with that person, dont want to talk to them, hold their hand or kiss them, then your in a relationship for the wrong reasons and definatly with the wrong person.
He's pressuring you to do things you dont want to do, whether its hand holding, now kissing, soon it will be sex. So stand up for yourself and tell him that you want to explore your options right now and your not interested in dating one person at this point in your life. This means break up with him and wait until you've met a guy who you actually want to hold his hand, want to kiss him and want to be with him. When you've found that person then date him, but not until then.
Its fine to have male friends, but only the SPECIAL ones get to be the boyfriend, and if this guy isnt one of those special ones... then he shouldnt be the boyfriend.
2007-10-14 23:35:05 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Annoying boyfriends need to be dumped. Nicely, politely, and with consideration for their feelings -- but life is too short to deal with something so fleeting as an annoying boyfriend!
2007-10-14 23:30:15 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I thought that is what boyfriends and girlfriends do... wow lots have changed since I was younger. Just be friends with him. As above poster said, doesn't seem that you like him...
2007-10-14 23:30:51 · answer #6 · answered by LilMissCantbewrong 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
sweetie i just don't think you're ready to start dating then. end the relatioship and give yourself some time to mature into a full fledged woman. till then enjoy just being a kid.
2007-10-14 23:30:54 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Break up with him tell him something like I think should see other people
2007-10-14 23:31:02 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Break up with him. If you cant kiss him, you aren't passionate about being with him, or you may not even like him.
2007-10-14 23:34:22 · answer #9 · answered by regisivjosh7 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if you dont want him to kiss you why are you even dating him!? you should tell him you just want to be friends then you can hang out but it wont be awkward!
2007-10-14 23:29:26 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋