No one thinks its a good idea to have sex when you first me someone.. I think we all agree on that! But ladies, is there a time period that has to go by before you think its right to become intimate, or does this just depend on how attracted you are to that guy.. Come on girls.. be honest now!
2007-10-14 16:20:58 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
for me...I just knew when it felt right..I did not put a time period on it, it was when I felt I was ready to become intimate..I became comfortable with my boyfriend and was ready to take things to the next level...
2007-10-14 16:23:46 · answer #1 · answered by maha689 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex is the ultimate gift you give to another. There is no greater gift you can give to someone other than yourself. Why have sex? What if they have an STD? What about becoming a parent? Can you afford to pay child support right now? Is this person going to be someone you would really want in your life for the rest of your life should circumstances fall that way? Sex was created to bring a couple together as one. That is why marriage is so special. Please consider saving yourself for that one special person. When you stand before your gorgeous bride on your wedding day do you want someone that has held out for the best or just someone that has "settled" for mediocre sex with anyone? I know it is difficult to pass certain temptations up, but I suggest you find a local Jesus centered, bible based church to attend and find other individuals that you can relate to and help you avoid such a life changing decision right now.
2007-10-14 16:31:25 · answer #2 · answered by gabigsis 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1 year
2007-10-14 16:23:37 · answer #3 · answered by preppygrl88@sbcglobal.net 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In my early 20's it was 6 months. I met Peter when I was 12, knew him my whole life, when I was 32 he asked me out. We were intimate a week later and I felt very cheap and told him how I felt and he said that I was being silly because we had known each other for 20 yrs.
I now think that it depends on the situation because he was always an important influence in my life and we knew each other to be honest, moral and good people......
2007-10-14 16:27:08 · answer #4 · answered by New England Babe 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, [ and I am taking a leap] you mean physical intimacy.
If I don't feel we are developing "intimacy" meaning emotional intimacy, then physical intimacy is not going to happen.
I have to feel as if we are becoming emotionally closer, before moving to a physical relationship.
I cannot answer for anyone else but myself.
Gone are the days of instant attraction and instant physical intimacy, for me.
I have to feel as if that is the next step in a relationship.
There is no set time period.
I have dated guys for 3 months and did not feel as if I wanted to take it to the 'next level' of intimacy.
But I also have dated for 2 weeks and felt comfortable being more intimate.
Every relationship is different.
And for me to state." I feel after ???? dates we can get physically intimate" would be an insult to me.......and to the guys I am dating.
2007-10-14 16:32:52 · answer #5 · answered by sasha1641 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on the connection. When I feel close to someone, that's when I know I'm ready. With some guys, I've waited a year or 10 months and with my last boyfriend, I waited a month. It just depends
2007-10-14 16:36:47 · answer #6 · answered by cutie pie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It really depends on how strong the relationship is and comfort and trust in the guy. But to answer, it took me 7 months to become intimate with my boyfriend.
2007-10-14 16:33:19 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I personally don't mark the "getting busy" date on a calendar (e.g. four weeks from the first date). There is no set answer.
It depends on the man and the relationship. Once a certain level of emotionally intimacy has been reached, then I am ready for phyiscal initmacy. The time period varies from person to person.
2007-10-14 16:25:35 · answer #8 · answered by Danielle 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it all depends on how the person feels about the other person..And if it just happens to be the right moment..Ive waited about 2 weeks up to 3 months
2007-10-14 16:25:20 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I usually wait 3 to 4 weeks.... but all my relationships lasted 2 to 3 years so I havent gone threw it too many times..
2007-10-14 16:24:48 · answer #10 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋