My husband and I are into the goth scene, and I'm bisexual. I don't feel like I fit into the mold of "normal" mommy sites, and I wanna meet more moms like me.
2007-10-14 16:09:59 · 2 answers · asked by kittystephens 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
In response to my first answer:
Ok, FYI, I'm not a "young mom" I'll be 30 here shortly. Second, my kids are the most important thing in my life. No one else spent a week with my youngest son while he was in the hospital on oxygen and iv antibiotics because he contracted RSV. I gave birth all three times without the father there because he was deployed with the US Navy.
Next, I don't have any extra piercings, and half the time, I don't even wear earrings in the ONE hole I have in my ears.
My question was to get some support from other moms who have similar ideals and lifestyle to me. So I know that there ARE other moms out there who are like me, so that maybe, JUST MAYBE, my kids and I can have some real life friends.
I really don't appreciate your condescending attitude toward me in your answer.
Do YOURSELF a favor, and get to know the lifestyle you're answering to before you go off. Ok?
2007-10-14 17:30:37 · update #1
Ooh, check out http://www.a-mommys-world.com
They've got over 500 message boards, including boards for pagan moms, bi/lesbian moms, punk moms, goth moms, all kinds of stuff.
They also have a chat room that's open 24/7/365
The person who answered this before me is pretty clueless. You have the right to meet moms who have a smiliar lifestyle to you!
2007-10-14 16:32:03 · answer #1 · answered by lady_dianna 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You must be a young mother. What you are and the lifestyle you live in really has nothing to do with parenting. I don't care if you wear all black all the time, when it comes to changing a stinky diaper, its still a stinky diaper. When you help them with their homework, you are just mom, your sexual identity doesn't mean anything to your child.
You have chosen to be a mother. Its none of your childs business or concern who you sleep with. You do have the responsibility to protect your child from harm, that means you practice safe sex and don't drink or do drugs. The first time your child reaches up and yanks out your eyebrow ring, you'll stop wearing it.
Your child should be your priority, not your way of dress, the music you listen to, or your sexual life. If you want friends that live your lifestyle, then do it real time and stay off the computer, all you are going to get is someone's fantasy. Again, nothing to do with your child.
I put my lifestyle aside while my children grew up and so did their father. They are adults now, and we live our lives according to our own desires, he is a bisexual crossdresser and I am a bisexual lifestyle Mistress. Your kids deserve a mom and a dad, if you really care about them, you can still bring them up with your family values but keep your own personalities intact. We raised ours to be rabid Liberals, who can actually hold a conversation with adults about anything including politics and relgion. When they leave to go to college, then you will get your life back. Its a very short trip, you can give them their time.
2007-10-14 16:29:25 · answer #2 · answered by tjnstlouismo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋