Family & Relationships - 14 October 2007

Is it still possible that LOVE will occur between a 36 yr old man (divorced with a kid) and a fully single 22 yr old lady?

2007-10-14 02:10:11 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Friday I went to see Tyler Perry's "Why Did I Get Married?" I must say it was an amazing movie and I enjoyed it. As of late I have been hearing critics (movie viewers) call Mr. Perry a racist for having all black movies...

I am one to celebrate that he has POSITIVE all black movies, where the characters are portrayed as professionals not gang bangers and drug dealers. I enjoy seeing his movies because they're liberating in a sense, and are a way to see the other side of black life, the side so many forget or refuse to acknowledge.

My question though would be, if Perry is racist for having all black movies, how many producers are guilty of the same? How many "feel good" movies have we seen where the cast, and extras, were all white?

Why should this even matter? The movie is great, (go see it good date movie for couples and singles) you can have a good time, it does good to not cast the race in a negative light, so why all the bullshi*?

2007-10-14 02:06:00 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

She's been contacting me through emails only. We met in a chatroom 3 years ago and she lives in one state I live in another. We did meet in person many many times. Anytime she wanted me to come see her I did. She never came to see me. I did so much for her but the relationship from the start was 1 sided, me doing everything. Anyhow, we broke up AGAIN, always breaking up getting back together, it's a cycle she likes to have. Last night after begging me to put her pictures in my profile in chat and I did she then started on me about my weight and how my diabetes is affected by my weight. I'm not that damn big. I am about 20 pounds overweight and have been trying to lose it. She went OFF on me. She then said I'm going to bed, I'm tired of trying to help you. She didn't respond after that. I found out she was in the chatroom at 1:10 in the morning again. She's addicted to this chatroom bullcrap and says I am. I don't go in unless she asks me to go in. Why is she doing this?

2007-10-14 02:04:39 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my daughter is 23 years old she has her own house but her dad and step sisters never go and see her only when they want a babysitter but when something good happens like when she was geting married the step sisters where wedding planners i had no choice or say in anything which hurt me very much i wasn't even on the top table she is now expecting i told my nieghbour how excited i was her step sister found out and told my daughter and we fell out over it.

2007-10-14 02:03:13 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-10-14 01:59:52 · 23 answers · asked by Patricia 3 in Singles & Dating

I am nearing the end of my law degree, he is nearing the end of his bachelor of design. We have been together for two years. At the beginning of our relationship I explained that although we are using protection, nothing is 100% and I told him in no uncertain terms that I do not believe in abortion. This recent revelation of his has many implications for our relationship, and has revealed a lot about his personality. I just don't know what to do:

1. I believe abortion is murder; can i continue to be with a would-be murderer?

2. Although pregnancy would upset our plans, we are damn well old enough to face the consequences of our actions. Does it mean he is all-round selfish and irresponsible?

3. Perhaps the most bothersome part is that (although he is usually very caring), he knows how important this is to me and yet would be prepared to put me through something I don't think I could live with...

I love him dearly but this has shattered me. What do you think? (don't be cruel)

2007-10-14 01:45:40 · 40 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

once we had sex it was amazing but the first time we kissed i thought he is a really bad kisser but he took me to his room and we had sex. i didn't tell my mom yet should i tell my mom or my dad or should i just not tell them at all? should i brake up with him or not?

2007-10-14 01:44:59 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I don't know if I should be using this venue, but I really need some advice. My husband and i have 2 children and he is totally obsessed with his "stuff." His stereo equipment, his toys (he has comics, collectibles, cd's, dvd's, antiques, his car etc.) Whenever one of the kids touch his "stuff" he gets angry and yells that he can't have anything nice. To top that off, he wants the kids cut off from half of the house so he can have his own private space. Right now we're looking for a house and we've been fighting over this issue. We've fought so much that I don't feel the same for him. It's hard for me to get close to him and we've been snippy towards each other. He turns it around to make me look like the bad one, I'm starting to think I am . Counseling hasn't worked in the past. I guess I knew he liked his "stuff" before i married him, but I didn't think it would be this bad. I'm thinking of leaving him. Advice? We've been married for 8 yrs.

2007-10-14 01:35:48 · 16 answers · asked by Katia S 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-10-14 01:17:10 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I met and talked with this person a couple times last year, and I think our dads know each other from work. A couple days ago she was flirting with me (I think) and telling me her likes and stuff and making physical contact and put her head on my shoulder for a couple of minutes. Is she just playing me or does she really like me?

By the way we're both in middle school if that helps but we live far away from eachother.

2007-10-14 01:11:03 · 7 answers · asked by laugh_line 1 in Singles & Dating

Just curious.

I like Grunge, indie rock, and hardcore.
Do you like it when girls share the same interest with you, with music?

2007-10-14 01:09:04 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Do you think it is possible to fall in love with communication using the Internet?

2007-10-14 01:05:27 · 11 answers · asked by Catherine 1 in Singles & Dating

In 2004 at the age of 20 my older brother was diagnosed with sarcomas cancer but took it like the man he was, late 2005 he went into remission but in march 2006 he took a turn for the worse he was told he only had 6-12 months to live, sadly just 2 months later at the age of 22 on May the 14th 2006(mothers day) he passed in his room at home.
The day i got home from work and was told my brother only had so little time 2 live my life changed forever, i started using marijuana everyday 2 block out all thoughts about life without him, and to this day have smoked marijuana at least once a day, at times ive smoked an ounce over 3-4 days just to block out thoughts. Im really scared that its going to ruin my life and i know my brother wouldnt want me doing what im doing. So am looking for all suggestions, (my family and friends know i smoke marijuana but knowone at all in my life is aware of the amounts i smoke or the reason). Plese HELP u may save my life...

2007-10-14 01:03:08 · 9 answers · asked by maorigurl 2 in Family

2007-10-14 01:02:38 · 10 answers · asked by nozmiat 3 in Weddings

My boyfriend is always talking dirty with different women on AIM. He uses AIM on his phone (a sidekick 3), so I usually have no idea he is even talking to anyone at all. Sometimes he will leave his phone lying around, and I will look at it, to see what he has been typing so much about. Most of the time I catch the end of a converstion that is inappropriate. We fight about this because I consider it a form of cheating. He wouldn't call these women on the phone and talk this way, so how is AIM any different? Why would he sit right next to me, and type away about sexual things with another woman and not expect me to get upset about it? Am I just being crazy? or is this a form of cheating?

2007-10-14 00:47:40 · 44 answers · asked by Stephanie 1 in Singles & Dating

we were talking plants and suddently he can't keep his hands off me and says how much he likes me, and I am like 'you're the gardner, and married with kids', and he goes 'yeah, and it's killing me' (!!!) (but I can give you love) gross!!! he has to finish his contract though and if i could i would fire him now, i would. i have to put up with him for 2 more days.
cheating is way disgusting and now i understand all the married women who write and complain. omg, do i have something on me that screams lonely girl desperate for sex? it's gross and funny and ... quite depressing. i mean if i looked like a lady he would never have the nerve to propose like that. i was just wearing slackers and my old t shirt. i'm upset. i feel like crying.
i don't understand ; i should have laughed at him and yelled but i just stood there just saying 'no, it's bad and you know this' disgusted and sad.
why?

2007-10-14 00:40:15 · 28 answers · asked by sarah kay 5 in Singles & Dating

i had been with my girlfriend for 9 month and loved her more than anything but we kept arguen nd both of us got sick of it on friday night we decided to go on a break but i miss her sooo much. we talk alot on msn nd r always laughin nd carrying on something that we didnt used to do wen wer together she said she'd love to get bak with me but she needs time but we have to make our relationship so we r happy nd having a laugh nd all that. what could ido to get her back :(

2007-10-14 00:24:42 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

After 7 years of divorcing her ex husband he still won't let her get on with her life. They had 2 children together. He will not play the part of a father: ie - be there when they are sick, take them on holidays, do their homework, buy them clothes and only wants them when it suits him. They have to fit around his work. She has remarried a great man, I can't fault him. He does everything a father is supposed to do for those children. They even have a little baby between them and she is very lucky to be here with us due to the constant stress her ex husband put her through. Has already lost a baby through her latest court battle to keep the children they have together for someone who just want's the fun part of the children. He even messes with their heads saying that their Mum isn't in a proper relationship (family) because they have different surnames. He is just playing power games. Any advice on what to do?

2007-10-14 00:23:25 · 19 answers · asked by kololi_2 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I am loving one girl truly. She also loving me.But now her parents know our love matter.They oppose my love.And they r threatened
me and that girl.both r studying M.sc.My friends r not ready to help for my love bcoz her uncle is in police.
Wat i can do? i dont know? Both r loving truly. That girl having little hesitation to marry bcoz her uncle threatened her very much.In this Kind of situation how i can success in my love.Please help me.I want her in my life(love). Please help me to get her in my life.I'm not afraid for anything. my only thought is i want her in my life,for that i'm ready to do anything. she is my life.i want my life.Please help me soon. No one is here to help me.I want help to marry her.

2007-10-14 00:22:05 · 3 answers · asked by anbu a 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Ive tried many many times to change my life, a whole new one but i keep failing to reach it
why ?

2007-10-14 00:13:55 · 5 answers · asked by Wolfscar 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I am a father of 3 teenagers that was asked to leave my house by my wife. So I did, and moved in a room and worked a dead end job. I had a great job but due to my age was laid off and forced to take a dead end job. My wife would not let me see the kids on a regular basis, god knows I ask. So i decided to improve my career and took a job overseas teaching in Manila, but it would not pay great but I could increase my pay as I got more experience. My wife makes a 6 digit salary so I thought it would be a good time to get my career in order because I could not contribute much for a few months. I have sent hundreds of email to the kids and letters but my oldest daughter is the only one that stays in touch. I will soon move onto my better teaching job and be able to send more money back home and in about 1 years go home myself, I hope I am doing the right thing?

2007-10-14 00:12:27 · 5 answers · asked by uglybird1 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-10-14 00:11:58 · 16 answers · asked by Quel 3 in Marriage & Divorce

it seems like my parents doesn't like me any more.....maybe its because of my grades or so whatever....i don't know.......may be because i'm not their real daughther...hmmm./.....what shall i do?...help me......my parents ignore me always ...went i got home from school..and i don't know why?.....

2007-10-14 00:11:52 · 9 answers · asked by banizavanessa 2 in Family

2007-10-14 00:06:16 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating