once we had sex it was amazing but the first time we kissed i thought he is a really bad kisser but he took me to his room and we had sex. i didn't tell my mom yet should i tell my mom or my dad or should i just not tell them at all? should i brake up with him or not?
2007-10-14 01:44:59 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Are you dumping him for being a bad kisser? -- if so please grow up! How you get along and enjoying each others company is more important. If your having sex, I'd think that's more important.
Or is it that you went to fast and the sex was too good / tempting? -- you don't sound like it, but if so you may want to talk to him about cooling things off a little (or breaking it off if he won't).
As for parents, telling them would be playing with fire -- depending on how understanding they are it could go either way. I'd be careful about telling them, and probably keep it to myself. In other words, I'd keep it on a need to know basis (how ever much parental types may not like the idea).
2007-10-14 02:43:06 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
While there's not a perfect correlation, I would say that it's likely. A guy's kissing technique will probably reflect his bedroom style. For instance, if he seems timid and reluctant while kissing, he'll be the same way during sex. A guy who can't kiss is probably not very good at oral, either. Kissing is like a preview, meant to tease and stoke your desire. If it fails to do that, you can bet that the main event probably won't lead to fireworks, either. Give your bad kisser a chance, but if you try it about 3 times and he's still not very good, perhaps you should leave him. These differences will only lead to dissatisfaction for you down the road.
2016-05-22 09:24:32 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, dont break up with him!
A boy can always learn how to kiss better! In fact, we all probably can!
Point is, he's already got one of the most important things down(sex) and if ya really like him and you think you're both serious..... stay together!
Your Mom and Dad?
Ummm, maybe you should decide this one on your own, sweetheart.
You know both of ur parents more than we do.
Both are going to react in different ways when they do find out or you tell 'em.
Pick the one that's more understanding but gives good advice and trys to help.
We can learn a lot from our parents.
In any type of situation life brings us.
Even in those moments of sheer and utter embarrassment we often do find ourselves in with our parents!
2007-10-14 01:58:32 · answer #3 · answered by Virgo's Eternal Reign 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wow, you must really be in love with this guy to break up with him over his kissing. Nice. Why don't you let him bang you a few more times first and then tell your parents all about it after you break up with him. Don't forget to give them ALL the details. Positions and such, where you took the money shot. Also, don't use condoms either, they ruin the feeling.
This was all sarcasm by the way. You don't sound mature enough to be having sex.
2007-10-14 01:48:37 · answer #4 · answered by binaryking 3 · 3⤊ 1⤋
I'm guessing but you're probably under 16? Number one you shouldn't be having sex and number 2 you shouldn't be in a relationship if you are judging it on his kiss!! Why don't you go ahead and tell your parents. And yes break up with him you're not ready for a relationship based on sex.
2007-10-14 01:50:34 · answer #5 · answered by Steffie 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't think it's necessary to tell any one about the situation unless he did something inappropriate and something you did not appreciate, which does not seem to be an issue. I wouldnt necessarily say break up with him because of his inability to kiss, you can teach him to improve on this, good sex is another thing.
2007-10-14 02:32:45 · answer #6 · answered by robinhood 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Whoa, you don't have to break up with him over bad kissing, just show him how you like it, part of being a couple is learning from each other.
It's not important to get your parents involved, it's your relationship, but if you want to tell them feel free.
You don't have to break up with him over something a trivial as kissing, you tell him how you want it, he'll do it to make you happy, if he doesn't he's not worth it. Then you can dump him until then try and make it work for both of you.
2007-10-14 01:51:13 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
If u are thinking of breaking up with him just because hes a bad kisser - u dont like him that much to start with... show him how u like to be kissed or give him time..
2007-10-14 01:47:45 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
Kiss plays an important role in sex. While doing sexual intercourse kiss with tongue in mouth sprinkle oil on fire and made partner feel maximum pleasure. If you b/f is doing kissing during intercourse, it is not bad. You also said that he also satisfied you. it is very good. Now coming to second part of your question. You should not tell any body about this affairs. It is your personal matter. Enjoy life and do sex as much as possible. Good Luck
2007-10-14 02:19:56 · answer #9 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 3⤋
OMG,...
if you consider that a good reason to break up with your bf,... then you are obviously wayyy too young and too immature to even be kissing, much less having sex
2007-10-14 01:50:25 · answer #10 · answered by solo_yo 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋