Family & Relationships - 14 October 2007

2007-10-14 09:04:52 · 4 answers · asked by ely 1 in Marriage & Divorce

SOS

2007-10-14 09:04:33 · 24 answers · asked by divatnt 1 in Singles & Dating

You get let go of someone that has changed your life. I'm not sure if anyone has felt this way before but i love this guys so much we've been on and off for about five years and we always end right back with each other only to go the other way again. I think that it's time to stay in the other direction but it's hard when you've been together for so long and were friends. Please be serious no stupid remarks.

2007-10-14 09:03:55 · 7 answers · asked by NA 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I feel like im too much of a good girl
im 20 and still a virgin!! sometimes im proud other times im not. i do want to have really bad but i cant just to do it i want it to be special and meaningful ya know. there was this guy who i have histlry with and i fell extremely hard for but he didnt want a relationship he just wanted to have fun. i dont know what signal i give off to guys to make them just want to have with me!! lol But i really wanted to be with him lol i even told him that i wanted him to be my first, and we were going to but then he told me he cares about me so we are just friends, i dont know what i did wrong there!! Any other dude would have jumped at it.Did i come on too strong?? Maybe he thought i was just not worth it all. He's 18 and he's alot more experienced then me, so i would think that he would jump at it. there was this one guy all he wanted to do was be my first he was always wanting to hang out. not this guy, i dont know what i did???

2007-10-14 09:03:13 · 29 answers · asked by iloveit 1 in Singles & Dating

I think my brother-in-law to be is gay wat are the signs?

2007-10-14 09:02:23 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

and yes i have tried talking to them they dont want me thier and i really dont have any freinds to help me out im getting to the point where i just want to give up and die.. i dont know what to do

2007-10-14 09:00:34 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Ok so ive just clickd that this guy i was seeing was totaly arsing me about! I told him it was over because i was sick of his crap and lack of commitment, then he got back to me and apologised saying he wanted to see me, yaddy ya! but its jst been the same crap all over again, not seeing me, saying he's gona call then not!
Ive realised that he jst wants to keep me there incase he decides he really wants me back. I wont fone or text him no chance! But i really liked this guy? how do i get over him? and if he texts/calls soon what do i say?!

2007-10-14 08:57:16 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-10-14 08:53:23 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

a week later after i asked this girl 1 of her friends texted me and told me she cant go wit me b/c her parents dont no me and that they r very strict. then she texted me again saying that she will hang out wit me and still dance wit me if i wanted. sounds like her friend is saying the truth but im feeling this vibe that this is just an excuse to not go with me b/c if she couldnt go wit me then y did her friend tell me and not herself. the point is i have no idea wat 2 do b/c she is now "tecnically" not my date. should i find other date. but i like this girl and i don want to hurt her feelings b/c her freind said she is still willing to dance wit me. the plan was to hang out wit her b4 HC and after HC but now i dnt no if i should stick wit it. wat do i do. my date is alittle shy and me too but should i talk wit her and see wats the deal anyways. for god sakes my mom wanted to me get a pic of her and me at HC and now i dont even no if i should do that too!! serious answrs pls. i need it!

2007-10-14 08:52:45 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

when i meet nice men who treat me well and are interested in me i get bored and dump them, when i meet ''my type'' of man which happens to be a bad boy who keeps me on my toes i get hurt. how will i ever meet Mr right!!!!

2007-10-14 08:52:09 · 20 answers · asked by BscHons 6 in Singles & Dating

A single 28 yr. old male recently appeared on NBC Today morning show to discuss his choice to get a vasectomy.

http://allday.msnbc.msn.com/archive/2007/10/03/393201.aspx

Is there a double standard when it comes to a man's choice to
get the procedure done compared woman's right?

If a woman already kids from a previous relationship, why do some women automatically assume most men wants his own?

Why do some women think sterile men get the procedure done because they either hate kids or women, had some terrible experiences with women or relationships?

2007-10-14 08:51:39 · 4 answers · asked by isbros 3 in Singles & Dating

how would you tell a guy thank you for everything he has done for you and that he is one of the most important people in your life and that your so thankful you met him.with out seeming like ur totally in love with him because hes my really really good friend but idk how i feel about him but i am thankful

2007-10-14 08:50:10 · 11 answers · asked by kaytlin g 2 in Friends

2007-10-14 08:44:27 · 29 answers · asked by john i 1 in Weddings

Next Year, I will be 18 years old, and my mom still treats me like i'm 10. I've been driving over a year, and I make good grades in school and plan on going to college.

But when it comes to simple things, my mom wont let me go through with it. For example, yesterday I wanted to go to a haunted house with about 8-10 of my friends. We are all the same age, and 4 of us were going to drive so the cars wouldnt be jam packed. The haunted house is about 25 minutes away from where we live, and theres no way we could get lost because I have a GPS. After I got all my information, I called her to tell her whats up, and I couldnt even start because she said no. She said I'm not about to drive way out there (which is bull becuase I used to work at an amusement park half an hour away from home) and she said thats the end of it. Everyone else could go, except me, and I'm OLDER than everyone.

I just want to know how I can talk to her about putting down boundaries and she'll actually LISTEN to me

2007-10-14 08:39:34 · 5 answers · asked by Déjà Vu 5 in Family

Okay, so this is really weird. I went over my friends house and her mom said she was up in her room. So when I went up there, I didn't bother to knock on the door. I walked in, and she was humping her phone!!!! I was like so shocked. She just said hey and explained what she was doing. She said she liked to do it because it felt good, and she also does it to remotes and stuff. I don't really remember everything she said (i was kinda in shock) but she told me how to do it. She was saying how you put it between your legs and pull up and down really fast. I'm kinda freaked out and worried.... is this normal??? By the way, we're both 13-15 ( i don't wanna say to much info..)

2007-10-14 08:31:55 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

my mom is so dumb she makes plans and tells me to get ready like two minutes before we leave she is such a ***** and we fight a lot. i hate her i seriously think there is a part of me that does what do i do?

2007-10-14 08:29:38 · 3 answers · asked by Kieri Baby 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

We are family friends known to eachother families 50years.Hes 35 and im 26.When we're together, he's always telling me i'm a good partner person beautiful about us being married.But twice these 2 things have happened
1.After we just met he gave me gifts i gave him card/cd to thank him he went to my cousin told on me.
2.Months back after confirm meeting on my success of business project with romantic weekend he went told my cousin to tell me to stop mails calls etc but ive never called him he mailed me about meeting.Everytime i ask him, he'll say nothing but i know things are told by him to my cousin,as cousin wouldn't know these things unless he or i tell them and it's not me.I am so mad at him twice hes told on me with my cousin not just to me.Im fine if he just tells me but why does he do it i feel hes against me.I hate him twice for doing it but we love eachother married he says loves me wants to work it out.Please note rumors are cousins gay my partner isnt gay i introduced them.

2007-10-14 08:27:18 · 9 answers · asked by abrowneyesbeauty 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-10-14 08:27:02 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Ive been with my bf for 4 yrs. I love him and he loves me.He's 24 and Im 21. He smokes pot on a daily basis. He quits now and then but he always starts up again. I knew he had this problem since we met but it didnt bother me as much because at the time I was in my first sober year myself. I felt like it I was patient I could help him quit. I did much harder drugs and I was able to quit and better myself why cant he? One day he tells me "I do it all for you, I quit smoking for you." and the next thing I know, hes telling me that he doesnt think that his problem affects our relationship so if he gets the urge to smoke, hes gonna smoke. I try to tell him that when he goes through these pot head phases I cant even stand him when hes sober. Its like he doesnt care how I feel about it. Im at my wits end, what do I do? Hes so hard to talk to, he only hears "youre not perfect enough for me." By the way he works 2 jobs & goes to school so hes not a 'loser.'

2007-10-14 08:21:02 · 8 answers · asked by Me 3 in Singles & Dating

I'm going to have a get together with all my friends sometime in november. we're not teenagers. we're all in our mid to late 20's.

i was thinking that maybe i can order pizza, grab movies, have beer and soda pop.

i normally dont socialize (yes im super shy) as i would like to but this would be great.

what do you normally do when u have get together with friends. i don't want to bore them. we'll be in the living room because my pets will be in the basement during that time. we pretty much have the first floor.

any comments would be awesome.

2007-10-14 08:19:54 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

about them? I have a friend here in England who is not sure whether to let her present boyfriend know about her previous life in Amsterdam as a call girl.

2007-10-14 08:19:26 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

His ex wife has lied numerous times. He hasn't seen his kids in years because she never let him see them and whenever he called her husband made her hang up on him. Then she moved out of state and he didn't know where to get in touch with them. Then she finally got hold of us and said she needed to get in touch with him due to his daughters health. Of course we fell for that and my son met her at the mall and he was served papers that he is due in court Tuesday. The papers had Sept. 7th on he just got them. He has been paying child support on them. He is litterally going crazy not wanting to give them up even if he can't see them. There divorce was in Arkansas and she is filing in Oklahoma where she now lives.

2007-10-14 08:19:20 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Assuming that both are equally as strong in the relationship but you could only have one, which would it be: friendship or passion?

2007-10-14 08:17:38 · 16 answers · asked by Jaded 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I got married in November 2006 to a Hindu in India. My husband is not interested in family life.The marriage is not consummated. I suspect that he is impotent. We are not living together for the past 4 months. He is living in a foreign country now.I want to file a divorce. Should I ask him for a mutual consent or file a divorce seperately?I want to live a peaceful life.How long will it take for me to get a divorce?

2007-10-14 08:15:40 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I have tried it many times with baby oil all over our bodies but i didnt really get into it i found it more funny then anything. We was sliding about everywhere, sliding off each other lol who else had the same thing happen or who had a better time with it? Do you like to use it or not?

2007-10-14 08:13:53 · 14 answers · asked by missjayleigh 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

I guess I need more support from you because I am so much lost after he left: I dated a guy for two years, he did not have any male friends except me, his ex gf and his ex wife. Whenever we had an argument, his ex wife would take him back. However, after few months later, he wanted to be back with me again. This situation has happened once in the past... Should I take him back this time? Or, should I move on..... What should I do? I understand that every couple had a history together, but it is harmful for the new relationsip if he can not move on from the past... how long I will get rid of of sadness...

2007-10-14 08:10:48 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

would it be ok to visit the shop where ypur teacher works over teh weekend, she told you where she works would it be ok

2007-10-14 08:03:04 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

How would you feel if you boy friend told you he was going to be staying the night at his son mother house after a party he will be attending with his son and that it would be to late to drive back from the party.

2007-10-14 08:00:56 · 5 answers · asked by cjeangant 1 in Family

so heres the deal im 16....and a lot calmer now since it has been 3 days something happened between me and my boyfriend of about 5 years that shud not have happened im leaving him either way but i just cant believe i trusted him to this extent....what bugs me right now is im very lost we were "trying" to have sex since we are both virgins and he put his penis in me and exclaimed that i t was too hard and he could not go all the way in so only about half of his penis was in me and was "trying to penetrate" and before we knew it he ejaculated and when he took his penis out the condom was off then i found it just inside of me and i took it out and i was wet but im not sure if it was him or me? i took 4 bc pills however im not on birth control we are bohth very scared and i cant handle this right now i will never ever let anything get the best of me again but i cannot tell my parents or friends either because im from a very respescted family and have values please help me?

2007-10-14 07:59:49 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We've been married for 10 years with one kid .We have a green card and are couple of years away from filing our citizenship Now after all those years my husband wants to dump me as he thinks that we can not continue our relationship because of our differences.Now he wants to go back to our home country and wants me to follow him there so that he can divorce me and can stay closer to his son.I dont want to move there right now as I dont want to leave my home here and take away all the facillities and education my son is getting. He(my son) is a citizen here by birth.and also I am not sure if my husband wants to dump me and my son in our home country and return back here so that he could get his own citizenship.so I am confused about whether to go there with him or stay here.Also he is warning me to leave us here on our own if we decide not to follow him in our home country. .Is there any way I could stay here if he decides to go back.should I file divorce here?

2007-10-14 07:58:20 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family